>>81491739the 21st century woman has a perspective of female camaraderie that is incompatible with reality, and this (as like a third- or fourth-order effect) leads to dissonance between motivations of intra and intersexual competition. they deny the male component of shaping beauty standards (if not outright oppose it) while still becoming caricatures of what they believe men want.
meanwhile men, who have not abandoned this, have also failed to cultivate (or rather enforce) their own beauty standards so now there's a definite disparity between male and female standards of attraction in men where there wasn't before.