Girlfriend broke up with me because I asked her to help with my car insurance again.

I know Ive asked her a lot recently, but I dont work, I will soon but I guess she just got fed up.

Ive been unemployed/patchy work for a few years now and shes had a stable job for about 2 years.

She said its not about the car insurance and she understands every now and then people need help but the worst part is she said she didnt even feel like shes dating a man anymore but a child.

How do I fix this, I fucking love her so fucking much, I cant be without her

>>81493214 (OP)
Sorry man, I know you're struggling, but the fact is finances are your responsibility and you shouldn't rely on someone else to manage them.

>>81493214 (OP)
>How do I fix this
you dont, you acted like a fag, you get treated like one. treat it as a lesson well learned

>>81493242
>finances are your responsibility
I get that and if I had the money I wouldnt dream of asking her for help, its not like Im using it on stuff I dont need, I need car insurance.

If she was in a tough spot I would absolutley help her out

>>81493262
>If she was in a tough spot I would absolutley help her out
sure, any good partner would, but theres a line and you clearly crossed it

occassionally needing help because of unforeseen circumstances - normal
relying on a partner for money for things you need to plan ahead for in advance - not normal

Do you not qualify for NEETbux?

>>81493262
>I need car insurance
Why did you need a car? Did you live somewhere without public transportation?

>>81493357
When I have work I have to have my car to get there, busses arent reliable

this post is a whinefest, sorry youre feeling sad OP but get a fucking grip. no wonder your gf left you

>>81493214 (OP)
SOLVE MY PUZZLES! THE KINGDOM DEPENDS ON IT!

>>81493366
So you wont work, wont sell your car and complain when your ex doesnt want to use her salary to support this??

Do you fucking hear yourself

>>81493366
I always leave extra early to accommodate for the fact the bus could be late
I understand you situation is not fun but you need to recognize that this isn't something that just happened to you, it's a consequence of your own choices. When you realize that, you will have the power to make positive change in your life.

>>81493214 (OP)
Foids want a dude who will betabuxx for them and give them money, not the other way around. A guy without money is pussy repellent.

To genuinley fix this you leave her alone and let her go

I get it, its hard, cry it out

But youve done beyond repair damage in not presenting yourself as a capable adult, she will never see you the same

I have no respect for people like OP

Youll die alone

>>81493214 (OP)
Kidnap her, lock her in basement forever and find a job to feed her.

>>81493214 (OP)
You're acting like a giant pussy, that's your problem. Hit the gym, pump some iron, and start beating that bitch. You need to act like a man, not a little boy. Women don't respect sissy boys. I bet you ask for her input when you decide where to go or things to do. You need to boss your bitch around and show her who's boss.

>>81493514
this
domestic violence is aphrodisiac for foids

It's a woman, what did you expect? The actual reason she won't help you is because you're not Chad. How do you even get a girlfriend when you're a poor, broke loser and not Chad at the same time? How fat was this braphog?

>>81493514
When she helps me pay for the majority of my shit (car insurance, gas and sometimes phone bills) I feel like I cant have a choice

Yes I know that makes me sound bad but life is fucking hard

>>81493543
I had a job when we first met, it was pretty steady and stable, but Im someone who doesnt wanna sell my soul to a 9-5 so I left

Since then its been up and down, I thought by now I would have a full time job but with no degree (she has one) its fucking hard

>>81493548
You should still boss that bitch around as much as you can. Be aggressive and dominant. Slap her around a bit. Push it as far as you can. Even if you go too far, it'll still be better than being seen as a pussy or a boy. The worst possible thing is to be seen as a kid by a woman.

>>81493514
>Women don't respect sissy boys
its disgusting that OP has the balls to talk like this and expect a gf, she should have ended it a long time ago

>>81493563
hold the fuck up. You had a stable job and you left because you just didn't like it anymore?
Nigga I'm trying to be tactful but you really seem pathetic. You need to accept that you will sometimes endure hardship. If you need to take a shitty job to provide for yourself, that is what you do. You don't just choose to NEET all day because that's "fun." You shot yourself in the foot when the consequences were so easily foreseeable.

>>81493572
Im not dominant by nature, a lot of the decisions were made by her (like room design since she was paying for it), I think my lack of influence financially impacts my lack of influence to be dominant

Thats sort of what she said, she mentioned she didnt feel like she was with a grown man, but a child to look after and it fucking stung

>>81493597
Im seeing the consequences of this now, you dont need to tell me

I thought it would be easy to get another, but I was too picky. Now I would take anything but hardly anwhere would take me

>>81493598
well yeah, if you a bitch youre gonna be treated like one. calling a spade a spade.


grow up, youre an adult act like one.

she left you because you were a bitch and from what youve said, she deserves a lot fucking better

>>81493598
The minimum you can do is get over your love for her. She doesn't love you back. She's willing to dump you over cash. That's not love (foids are incapable of truly loving anyone but chad anyway), she's a prostitute and this is a transactional relationship. You need to treat it like that.
You're probably coming off as super needy and emotional because you're genuinely in love with her, when she isn't. Stop that. Become cold, rational and calculated about the relationship. Control your emotions around her. Being emotional makes women see you as immature and boy-like.
The brutal pill to swallow is that true love doesn't exist with women. They will never have your back. You are meant to be a stoic robot for them that makes money, and in return you'll get a warm hole to fuck. Violate that transaction, lean on her too much, and it will break.

I dont see what there is to fix honestly, best you can do is move on and become a real man for a future partner

>>81493598
If youre not dominant by nature, cant contribute financially, whine like a bitch when your actions bite you in the ass what are you genuinley giving??

I get relationships are 2 people in love but genuinley what are you offering to a partner to make them pick you over someone else

>>81493262
>If she was in a tough spot I would absolutley help her out
this is fucking retarded on so many levels

any sane person would help their gf/bf out in a tight spot

but you clearly need support full time since youre a retard who cant manage his own car insurance

>>81493650
>what are you genuinley giving??
I will genuinley love someone, I fucking love her more than anything.

I want a job, I really do and if I had it my way we would be 50/50 with finances and happy.

I tried to do small things that I could afford, like running a bath after work and making her a coffee when she worked from home

>>81493697
im sorry buddy but running a bath and making a coffe isnt gonna return the favour of paying your car insurance you lowly retard

god this thread is vile

im sorry this happened to you, its rough

dont listen to anyone else youre trying hard

>>81493262
You retarded motherfucker
You think unemployed woman and unemployed man are at all equivalent?
Fastest way to lose a woman is to appear incompetent and doing so consistently is a death sentence.
Her lizard brain already activated and marked you as genetic shit. Theres nothing you can do at this point. Even if you managed to repair things her vagina thinks you're a loser

>>81494466
>her vagina thinks you're a loser
and it's actually right, which is rare for a woman. This nigga is so pathetic he makes women appear rational by comparison.

>>81493214 (OP)
LOOOOOOOOOL
GET FUCKED NORMALFAG
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA!!!!!

>>81493262
>I get that and if I had the money I wouldnt dream of asking her for help, its not like Im using it on stuff I dont need, I need car insurance.
for what? you have no job lol. get da fuck outta here.
>If she was in a tough spot I would absolutley help her out
she isnt your atm. youre not in a tough spot, youre a leech.

>>81493214 (OP)

You needed to have stead employment, anon. That's the big one.

>>81493214 (OP)
Everybody here telling you to man up and be stoic is a cuck. A man is expected to be dominant and invincible in all areas but women can be useless and weak and they will still get love and protection for free. These whores are not worth your time. They will only take from you. Do your own thing and enjoy life the way you want. Don't let society dictate how you should live and what is your worth.

>>81494961
I don't care that he's expressing his emotions, I'm critical of him because he doesn't take responsibility, he was retarded enough to quit a job when he needed the money, and he didn't have the mental fortitude to work anyway.

>>81494961
This but he's a cuck for loving that filthy foid. Foids are undeserving of love, as he is finding out the hard way.

Just get your dad to pay for your car insurance, that's what my dad does.