>>81500201It's not always the victims fault but men don't turn abusive overnight. They don't just wake up and decide I will hit my gf today. You probably never saw how he treats people he sees below him, probably don't actually know very much about him at all but he makes you smile and feel safe so he's a nice guy.
Yes, it is his fault for falling for a psycho bitch. Men who fall for psycho bitches and lose their kids chose to have kids with that woman, chose to enter a romantic relationship with that women. Many US states do not allow you to simply run off with a child if you are married, you trust her enough to have unprotected sex but not enough to marry her and secure your rights as a father? Sucks to suck.
She probably did something similar to abusive men since they're all the same, monopolized his time to make him emotionally dependent on her. Bbbbut that's not a redflag that's hecking cute clingy behavior.