Why don't girls just ask out men if they claim to be lonely and want a bf. They have a success rate of at least 70%-80% if they don't go for chads. I wish at least one girl would have asked me out I would have said yes but women only ask out chads not shy autistic khhv. And before you say why I don't ask out a girl I did once and got rejected and I know this will happen again and my success rate is less than 0.1 % as an autistic man.

>>81504369 (OP)
>Why don't girls just ask out men if they claim to be lonely and want a bf
Sexual dimorphism, men chase women get chased

>>81504369 (OP)
They fear rejection.
>>81504388
>Sexual dimorphism
If we're just going to act like animals then there's nothing wrong with rape

>>81504411
>like animals then there's nothing wrong with rape
Then it wouldn't be rape since both parties of animals are enthusiastic about it during mating season

No girl wants a man who is too afraid to approach. Those who scream "rape" are the severe minority of Stacies and Beckies. You have to learn to deal with rejection.

>>81504369 (OP)
Women are simply incapable of loving you if you don't fall under the hegemonic masculinity archetype to some extent. And a crucial part of it is asking women out. If they found out you're too afraid to do that, it would result in instant attraction loss, and once that happens, there's no saving it with that girl.

>>81504369 (OP)
>TFW no
>Assertive gf

>>81504388
Women want equality so they have to act in a equal way.
>>81504411
I also fear rejection yet I did it. They statistically only have to ask out 2 men to get a bf I would have to ask out over 10000 girls to to get one yes and then she would get the ick from my autism and ghost me.
>>81504440
Bs women will approach chads all the time. I will not learn to "deal" with it it is simply humiliating and too much of a lottery. This is like saying poor people just have to play the lottery to deal with being hungry.

>>81504519
>Women want equality so they have to act in a equal way
Complaining and wishful thinking won't get you anything

>>81504485
So you are saying women are a evil monolith gender. Checks out with what I have experienced.

>>81504519
>I will not learn to "deal" with it it is simply humiliating
Okay then. Enjoy not having a girlfriend. btw, your dad, your granddad, your great granddad, etc. had to learn to deal with rejection.

>This is like saying poor people just have to play the lottery to deal with being hungry.
No poor person does this. Instead, they buy cigarettes and beer instead of food. Poor analogy.

lol, poor analogy.

>>81504538
Yes you should date men instead

>>81504538
I mean, is it really evil? It's sad, because it severely restricts who you can be as a man and still enjoy having relationships with women, but is it their fault that they lose attraction? People don't control what they are attracted to. It's something imposed on all of us by our biology.

For me the reason is that Im not attracted to the guys who live near me and I dont believe in long distance relationships. But if I lived in a nordic country I would definitely ask out cute guys

>>81504563
Not even going to bother to talk with you btw.
>>81504537
I am not asking for anything ITT just pointing out things.
>>81504565
I am not gay and never will be stoo suggesting bs.
>>81504567
Yes it is evil men can put their biological programming behind and can be attracted to all sorts of women, behavior wise and looks wise. And again chads get asked out all the time, women are willing to compromise on this if the man is good looking enough or has enough status.

>>81504569
Nobody cares roz.

>>81504799
>I am not gay
I know you are and i bet you'd look cute on your knees

>>81504799
>Yes it is evil men can put their biological programming behind and can be attracted to all sorts of women
No, they cannot. If you're not attracted to someone as a man, you're not attracted to them. Think about trying to be attracted to a man as a straight man. It doesn't work, you can't arbitrarily decide that from now on you'll be attracted to a person. What men are attracted to is of course way broader, so it might give you an illusion like that's the case, but you can clearly see that it doesn't work if you try to test it with a hard example.
>And again chads get asked out all the time
That may happen some time, but this hinges on the lack of knowledge that said attractive man is afraid of asking women out. If the woman finds that out, then it's an instant turn off. And high status men are straight up propositioned for sex by groupies, so it's not the same.

>>81504799
>gets btfo
>"i-i-im not talking to you!!!"
Seething.

>>81504856
>compares being gay to women being attracted to more than the small monolith kind of men
100 % invalid argument.
Also they will make it very obvious when they are into you and women never ever made it obvious to me. I would have no problem in asking out a girl if she would make it obvious for me but they never did.
>>81504900
I am not taking the bait or talk on the basis of a stupid argument.

>>81505112
>>compares being gay to women being attracted to more than the small monolith kind of men
That's not what I did, but your brain shut down, because you perceived it as being close to it, so you immediately pigeonholed it as such. Let me help you out. It wasn't a comparison. I used an example to demonstrate that you cannot choose what you are attracted to as a man. And you can use the example of a straight man trying to feel attracted to men, a man with very conventional taste trying to feel attracted to old deformed obese women, a man attracted to people trying to feel attracted to inanimate objects, etc. The object of the attraction doesn't matter. It's gender is tangential. What's important is that it's outside of your current attraction bounds. It's used to illustrate that attraction isn't something that you can choose. You may feel that you can, but it's because of an illusion brought about by the fact that men's attraction tends to be more broad. But it still has its bounds, and you can't change those bounds by will, because if you could, there would be nothing that would prevent you, a straight man, from feeling attracted to men. But you obviously can't, meaning that the premise is indeed false. Do you understand now?

>>81505227
It is still evil no matter what you say. You are comparing looks with behavior. There is always a attraction threshold necessary I never denied that but men are fine with all sorts of women characters traits, mean, demure, shy, outgoing, loud, silent etc. women are not and never will be.
Btw funny how you have ignored the second part.