Why are women like this? lol - /r9k/ (#81506649) [Archived: 1051 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/16/2025, 4:45:45 AM No.81506649
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I'm gonna upload this conversation I had with a match on Tinder.. I'm interested in ppl's opinions on it. There's 8 screenshots total

Some women are so rude it drives me crazy
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 4:46:11 AM No.81506652
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It gets worse and worse
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 4:47:04 AM No.81506660
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She put on her profile she wants to meet fast, doesn't want a pen pal and hates drama btw
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 4:48:32 AM No.81506676
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I shoulda stopped at 3 but I was inspired by some guy on the tinder subreddit to insult her
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 4:50:17 AM No.81506689
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I really doubt she doesn't bring ppl back there since she said she only wants to start looking for long term now she's mid twenties aka she fucked around a lot when she was younger
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 4:50:28 AM No.81506690
>>81506660
>Arranges to meet at a pub
>Out of nowhere suggests abandoning plans and meeting in person at her place with drinks he will bring that may or may not be tampered with

Damn OP you got so far then fumbled with the over enthusiastic creep suggestion. Dial it back a bit dude. You sound like a thirsty Indian who doesn't understand social customs or boundaries.
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 4:51:44 AM No.81506696
>>81506649 (OP)
idk man you guys both kinda sound like you suck. You got way too offended way to quickly over nothing
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 4:52:01 AM No.81506699
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Idk it was the most authentic conversation I had with a match on a dating app which is why I layed my heart on the line a 2nd time stupidly
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 4:52:45 AM No.81506705
>>81506676
>You're kinda fat lol
>And you're kinda losing your hairline lol
Kek, I love her
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 4:53:24 AM No.81506709
>>81506696
Yeah OP sounds like a real touch ass with a hair trigger temper. Even worse is that he's probably too much of a narcissist to see why he might be the problem.

On the bright side this thread has given me renewed hope knowing that I'm not as much of a spaz as OP.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 4:53:34 AM No.81506712
>>81506690
Exactly. He was too sexual too soon. You two are strangers why would she agree to have a stranger in her house.
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 4:53:50 AM No.81506715
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>>81506690
That was because she was responding quickly and then took a long time to reply to my suggestion of a pub and I thought it'd be simpler for her to avoid drinking and driving. Plus it was an off the cuff suggestion, not like that sort of thing is super rare on Tinder anyway
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 4:54:22 AM No.81506717
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Anyway, that's all. Probably won't reply much but I'll be interested to see what ppl think of this
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 4:55:36 AM No.81506730
>>81506660
I dont get why you took this the wrong way? Unless I dont understand. She just said "No to you inviting yourself here", why didnt you just try to go out to a pub again?
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 4:56:09 AM No.81506733
>>81506699
>Sorry I insulted you, I'm more fat that you anyway
>I'm more fat than you
Male standards...
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 4:56:36 AM No.81506739
>>81506715
you could have just not freaked out and just gone back to Plan A.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 4:57:31 AM No.81506745
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>>81506699
>"I kinda want you again"
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 4:58:51 AM No.81506756
>>81506717
You're probably so narcissistic you don't see you're the one who's actually a problem here. Men need to clam down their narcissism.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 4:59:22 AM No.81506760
>>81506690
If op was chad this would have been the outcome:

Teehee don't worry I'll buy the drinks just let yourself in I'll be upstairs in bed waiting for you.

If a woman is interested she will make sure it's as easy as possible to meet. She clearly wasn't.
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:00:49 AM No.81506769
>>81506717
LOL and she got with you anyways. Honestly a match made in heaven. A fucking asshole and a fucking retard. Perfect
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:01:42 AM No.81506776
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>>81506649 (OP)
you seriously posted all this, tried to get her drunk at her place instead of meeting in public like intended, randomly called her fat in her dms and then say i still want you and act like the victim after everything you did..
male loneliness epidemic, everyone
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:01:50 AM No.81506778
>>81506769
*A sadistic asshole and a masochistic retard
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:03:40 AM No.81506795
>>81506760
I envy the magical world you have built up in your mind where Chad can fuck complete strangers effortlessly. That must give you a lot of motivation to try and overcome such a man who is your competition and definitely exists and isn't an exaggerated figment of your imagination.
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:03:49 AM No.81506796
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>81506776
>male loneliness epidemic, everyo-ACK!!!
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:16:32 AM No.81506866
>>81506769
This isn't the impression I got from it... I'm pretty sure she only wants to meet me to insult me and then dip? Not get with me lol
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:20:15 AM No.81506896
>>81506660
OP cannot be THAT retarded, fake and gay
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:20:46 AM No.81506903
>>81506649 (OP)
women love to respond in the driest, most uninteresting ways possible
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:21:24 AM No.81506912
>>81506712
That's not about being sexual, it's just an awful idea to suggest you can invite yourself to a person's house if you don't know them at all.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:22:33 AM No.81506920
>>81506730
My message after her first "no thanks" was a different pub suggestion
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:23:43 AM No.81506928
>>81506776
The girl is an angel for not minding telling him offline what his problem is. If it happens she's doing him a huge favor.
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:24:44 AM No.81506935
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anyone who says "i don't give a shit what u think about me" cares a lot and is actually actively losing their shit

if she legit didn't care she'd just put her phone down, unmatch, anything but say "erm yeah idc lmao"
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:27:57 AM No.81506951
>>81506699
>your bio says no drama
Oh deer you matched with one of those people..
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:30:24 AM No.81506969
>>81506715
I think you might be on the higher end of the spectrum
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:33:18 AM No.81506982
>>81506649 (OP)
Dating is a failed concept/experiment.
Anyone still tinkering with it deserves everything bad it has to offer.
You need to meet some people in real life and naturally.
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:35:04 AM No.81506991
>>81506928
It's not gonna happen, I've unmatched her. She was a smoker too so even if there was a chance of it somehow turning into something I've lost interest.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:45:06 AM No.81507055
>>81506717
You got off to a great start, lol
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:46:06 AM No.81507059
>>81506866
A woman wouldn't waste time meeting up with a guy if she didn't like him on some level.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:48:37 AM No.81507070
This is embarrassing bruh. Just meet someone at work. That's how I met my fiancee and my only other gf before her.
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:51:35 AM No.81507090
>>81507070
>Just meet someone at work
Don't shit where you eat.
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:52:13 AM No.81507097
That's r/niceguys material
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:57:13 AM No.81507128
>>81507097
It's a match made in heaven.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 6:05:46 AM No.81507181
>>81507070
>Just meet someone at work
if it was that easy do you think we would all be posting on this board
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 6:12:00 AM No.81507231
>>81506676
>>81506699
lmaoo she dodged a bullet
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 6:14:49 AM No.81507254
>>81507231
She was still going to meet him
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 6:26:06 AM No.81507345
>>81506699
Tell us how the meeting goes
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 6:33:17 AM No.81507392
>>81506776
This is why women should avoid white guys
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 6:33:53 AM No.81507397
>>81507254
she unmatched, i guess the post nut clarity hit
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 6:35:26 AM No.81507406
>>81507397
That's a shame, would have been interesting to see how it played out.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 6:37:34 AM No.81507425
>>81506649 (OP)
This is why I don't date autistic white nerds. Brown boys Naturally have more charisma and rizz.
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 6:38:50 AM No.81507432
>>81506705
Kek, this. She's got an attitude. Kinda hot.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 7:15:37 AM No.81507636
>>81507392
>>81507425
what's even the point of posting shit tier bait like this
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 7:18:49 AM No.81507654
>>81506676
Why do you even still messaging her just go and rape her lol
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 7:22:37 AM No.81507687
>>81506715
>not like that sort of thing is super rare on Tinder anyway
Does it often work for you tho?
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 7:47:40 AM No.81507882
>>81506649 (OP)
>pub
>cider
>ale
your ass is BRITISH and so I don't give a FUCK about your SLAG FAG HAG SHAG RAG
>>81506717
I lied, I read this all anyway. This actually feels fun, I would a combative bitch like this. Honest to god my gf is too nice and boring as shit, I need a cunt with a little fire in her. You better meet up with her and not be a pussy when you do though
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 8:53:36 AM No.81508237
>>81506717
>>81506715
icl you tried to post this as if it was her being blunt and boring, which she is, but uggos like you can't just invite themselves to a girls house???? and then when she said no you instantly chimped out with "you're kinda fat" thats a female tactic of going after something superficial when you can't have what you want. also, if you thought that, why match in the first place???
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 8:59:03 AM No.81508252
>>81506760
Yeah because women are lucky enough to have options and if youre not good looking enough then at least have a fucking attractive personality??!!!

What OP did was weird behavior and him calling her fat after she didn't want to do something is honestly ridiculous, she is laughing at you right now and so happy that she dodged a massive bullet....what a creep you are, especially posting your conversation on an incel board trying to get people to jerk you off when youre in the wrong.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 9:01:35 AM No.81508264
>matching with a woman on tinder
CHADS GET OUT CHADS GET OUT CHADS GET OUT CHADS GET OUT CHADS GET OUT CHADS GET OUT CHADS GET OUT CHADS GET OUT CHADS GET OUT CHADS GET OUT
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 10:30:02 AM No.81508681
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1. Asks the girl he's asking out for advice on where to go.
>Advertising incompetence. Have a plan in advance
2. Insulting her after it doesn't work out
>Childish vindictive move. Just move on
3. Walls of text explain things
>Always a bad move that backfires. It makes you look butthurt
4. I could bring alcohol to you for a first date
>Too pushy. Sure """Chad""" might be able to get away with it but you should know better. A cafe/pub date seems perfectly fine

My thoughts are that you need to:
1. Calm your tits
2. Don't react emotionally to things she says
3. Go with the flow on your dates and don't come on too strong too fast
sage
6/16/2025, 10:39:05 AM No.81508733
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>>81506649 (OP)
>failed normal fag interaction thread
If I don't reply to my post than I died of cringe trying to read your conversation
at any rate get the fuck out please :)
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sage
6/16/2025, 10:41:29 AM No.81508747
>>81506660
>>81508733
>this isn't going to work bye
ok this was enough for me
a hooker would be cheaper for your need, faggot.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 12:24:02 PM No.81509315
>>81506660
This was your fault you stupid fuck.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 12:25:55 PM No.81509327
You messed up when you ask to bring the bottles over to her place and double texting you should have just let her respond she would have chosen a bar. You sound like you are on crack
albaaaaaaaa420
6/16/2025, 12:31:59 PM No.81509361
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>>81506676
OP. DUDE OP are you fucking mentally retarded. why the fuck would you
> heh yuor kinda fat looool kek
like bro that makes you seem like a fucking genuine discord mod.

also im not surpired your hairline is receding
albaaaaaaaa420
6/16/2025, 12:36:22 PM No.81509380
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>>81508733
exactly, plus the funnier thing is that this tinderfag go insanely offended when she insulted him back after he said shes fat.
Like its fucking retarded, most of these incels who try to go out and date to stop being an incel dont even try. its cringe, really.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 12:42:23 PM No.81509409
I'm telling you right now, she is not going to show up. That's the only reason she continued to allow this to a point where a date was made. Because she plans on ghosting you at that point, for being such a jackass. I mean don't get me wrong she's no winner herself. And if she's fat I wouldn't be from pretend to want to fuck her. And if you're smart, you won't show up either
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 1:17:06 PM No.81509642
>>81506676
>>81506689
>>81506660
Jesus Christ the lack of self-awareness, this has to be bait
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 1:42:18 PM No.81509816
>>81507090
It can work in certain situations. Take me for example. I have been working for myself as a sole proprietor Automotive technician since 2012. When I went to go get some parts from the Ford dealership one day, I saw a girl I really liked. I mean all I really wanted to do was date her pussy mouth and asshole of course, but I actually applied to work there, and got the job, and I would do a few waiter tickets, small things like oil changes, other little maintenance stuff. But I would mostly go and hang out up where she was in the business offices. So it's my second day, and we go out together for lunch, I would go back to my place which is only 2 miles down the road. Because I live very close to dealer row which is a street that has pretty much every dealership you can think of over a 4-mile stretch. I show her my place and she's laughing, wondering why the hell I work there. I told her just so I could meet her. She was melting in my arms! And within 20 minutes of that we were already naked and pressing her bodies together with my cock inside of her pussy and mouth. And I have done this six times so far. I will go and get a job, at a place where I've already found a girl that I like, and within the first two days, I take her to lunch to my place, let her know that I just got the job to meet her, and I'm not even going back after lunch break is over. The Final Girl Who I Am with now, also didn't go back to work. Neither of us even went back to tell them that we quit. It sounds so weird but you know you getting to these positions in life where you can do what you want, and do things that pretty much no one else does, and it is a very free feeling. Unrelated, one of the girls died, while we were having sex, I think it was something covid related or vaccination related. I have never told anyone in real life, but she had some sort of stroke / aneurysm and I continued having sex with her for about a minute until I came. I knew she didn't have a pulse.
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 1:44:08 PM No.81509829
>>81509816
Yes, I was talked to by police because it's a weird situation in which a dead girl's pussy is full of my semen. After explaining it, everything was taken at face value. What's the difference whether or not she died a minute before I was finished, or whether or not she had an aneurysm during an orgasm which is how I explained it. Like it was a freak thing. An autopsy cleared me of wrongdoing. Also for those who are interested in knowing, she did not release her bowels upon dying. Apparently that only happens when you have stuff in your descending colon or lower.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 2:45:03 PM No.81510187
>>81506676
She posted screencaps of this in her friend's group chat btw.
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 2:46:35 PM No.81510199
>>81510187
I feel bad for you so here's your pity reply
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 2:49:01 PM No.81510211
>>81510199
I'm not OP, I'm just stating the obvious.
Why the fuck isn't this original
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 2:59:19 PM No.81510274
>>81506676
I don't need to read the rest.
A woman is right to not want to meet a random guy she's never met at her place, and then you sperged out. It has nothing to do with attraction or drama or whatever you retard.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 3:03:37 PM No.81510297
>>81506920
>Meet at X place
>Or we can meet at your place
>>>No thanks
>How about Y place then?
>>>No the no thanks was to you at my place
That means she wasn't saying no to the first place, just her place. You retard. Learn how to read.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 3:26:56 PM No.81510522
>>81506660
Autistic nigger.
Not judging though. Am an autist as well. But holy shit.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 3:29:21 PM No.81510543
>>81506660
>>81506676
>Girl responds positively
>Better try and escalate and but her bottles of alcohol
>Better insult her for no reason
I'm with the femoid on this, you're a fucking retard.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 3:29:48 PM No.81510545
>>81506795
I mean, you can do that with enough looks and confidence.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 3:30:59 PM No.81510552
>>81506676
Holy shit you're pathetic. She smokes you.

Why are you fags so retarded?
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 3:31:04 PM No.81510555
>>81506649 (OP)
>hi lets meet at a pub ill buy you a drink

is not the same as

>i can bring alcohol into your home and myself

yeah shes a bitch but why the fuck would that be a first date unless shes a whore and wants to fuck with free booze provided. this isnt the 1950s where you just come in for dinner
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 4:59:11 PM No.81511177
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>>81506649 (OP)
>>81506652
>>81506660
>>81506676
>>81506676
>>81506689
No
Woman
In
The
World
is worth more than four lines of text. You lost the moment you sperged out and started writing novels worth of incel rage you creepy wannabe rapist. Who the fuck suggests coming to her place out of the blue after literally discussing where to meet a private places, do you have autism?
Do you also suddenly reach for her tits during a first date in a restaurant?
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:32:30 PM No.81511438
>>81506982
I mean thats very difficult. The only women I meet naturally and in the real world are brown turds and niggers.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:42:04 PM No.81511503
>>81506776
>male loneliness epidemic, everyone
I agree OP handled this extremely poorly (albeit ultimately, purportedly getting her to meet up after all)
let's not forget the context which is OP is already justifiably disgruntled after getting so few matches, and one of the few he does get is met with seemingly low interested, curt responses and him having to work overtime to get anything out of her. then when he finally speaks his mind, she treats him like a person and not an answering machine. full length responses, actual effort in replying. not saying OP is completely justified, but it is completely understandable what would bring a person to do this
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:46:31 PM No.81511534
>>81506676
All you had to do was go to a fucking pub as you said. You over played your hand and she said bye. That's where it should have stopped.

Then you had to call her fat and start dropping paragraphs.