Thread 81509355 - /r9k/ [Archived: 951 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/16/2025, 12:31:01 PM No.81509355
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how important is having your own place when finding a girlfriend?
would a girl like it when you have your own place?
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 12:32:49 PM No.81509365
>>81509355 (OP)
it would be nice not to get caught fucking so it's a plus
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 12:34:47 PM No.81509375
It is important, but since you're looking for a gf and not a tinder fuck then you have some wiggle room so to speak. Room mates don't count
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 12:37:53 PM No.81509385
I live in a 2m x 2m room full of Sonic the Hedgehog toys and Idolmaster anime posters, in a house with 5 other people.
However, I'm in shape, 6ft tall and have a full head of hair.

Any femcels interested?
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 12:38:30 PM No.81509387
It's hugely important (practically non-negotiable) if you are both 5/10 lookswise and equal footing socially.
Are you confident in yourself? Then its slightly less important.
Are you more attractive than her? Again, it becomes less important.
The more you've swooned her the less it matters but I doubt you have any rizz if ur on r9k.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 12:47:50 PM No.81509427
>>81509355 (OP)

Things that women value but if you have them then your journey has just begun and it means nothing in securing a real relationship(sex) with her:

1. Taller than her
2. Symmetrical masculine face
3. A job(pref full time)
4. Your own place

Now the real blackpill is that you still need to be a jester/charismatic/extroverted/socially dominant or any other type of these things for her to start dating you seriously.
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 12:49:27 PM No.81509436
>>81509355 (OP)
I consider it essential.
You don't want her concerned about others walking on her unannounced.
It makes everything more confortable.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 12:50:44 PM No.81509445
>>81509355 (OP)
Troon leafy
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 12:58:26 PM No.81509497
>>81509355 (OP)
she's not going to come over to your mom's house unless you're 17 faggot
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 4:42:34 PM No.81511010
>>81509497
i brought home a girl to moms and fucked when i was 21. but we fucked several times at my own places before that
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 4:46:12 PM No.81511052
>>81509355 (OP)
Other things matter more like having a job/not being a loser/not being ugly/being nt.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:37:10 PM No.81511471
>>81509427

1. Attractive face
2. Compatibility interests and able to chill with
3. Dick size
4. Your own place

Height doesn't matter as long as you are above 5'8". Anything above 6' is unattractive to me and most girls I know.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:38:38 PM No.81511477
The only people pushing the height pill are people who are tall and have small penises trying to make up for that. It's classic insecure behavior
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 5:40:17 PM No.81511487
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>>81509355 (OP)
I have a girlfriend at age 25 and still live with my parents. My girlfriend has said that if her parents lived in the same town as her she would definitely live with them to save money like I do. She has her own apartment because she's here for work, essentially. Like 90% of the world's cultures consider multi-generational housing to be quite normal and you usually don't move out until you get married.