Thread 81521385

How do I let this girl down easy? It's only been two days and she's already obsessed with me. She's cute and all, just super clingy.

Oh it must be so hard having girls be i to tou bro damn man shits tough feel for you bruh

why men don't like clingy girls?

>>81521390
Thanks bro, I appreciate it. It's really difficult because I want to have feelings for one girl but so many have feelings for me, so I have to spread the energy around. I'm glad there's someone like me out there who understands.

>>81521385 (OP)
>You're desperate and clingy, and for that reason I'm out

Then ask for one final butthole pic before blocking her

>>81521392
Clinginess from women is a huge red flag, that's why. Usually it means that they've been pumped and dumped by dudes who didn't care about them (their fault) and are coping by latching on to their next victim like an emotional vampire.

>>81521385 (OP)
that's just her personality
she treats anything she likes that way, from pet to sexual partner

>>81521413

>their fault

based

>>81521404
The thing is, she would probably oblige me if I asked her to do that. I'm not really into buttholes though. She's already done everything else I've asked her to do and I barely know her. She already kind of said she loves me, too, which weirded me out.

>>81521413
I think Id be pretty clingy with a guy I really like. I didnt know that was a red flag. So are you suggesting that women should be nonchalant?

>>81521420
I doubt it, when we first started talking she made it clear that she's very self isolating because she doesn't trust very many people. I don't even think she has any pets.
>>81521424
It is their fault, though. For selecting men like me.

>>81521441
No, I just think there's a fine line between showing interest and being clingy. One is, well, showing interest. And the other is insecurity. What she's showing me now is nothing more than insecurity and that's not love.

>>81521385 (OP)
Well, you should rape her

>>81521459
She already told me that she wishes I would, which is obviously also a red flag.

>>81521447
read my post again
she isolates herself until she found what she likes, be it a famous person, pets, favorite foods, whatever
she'll become clingy to whatever the things that she likes

>>81521480
Okay? So she "found out" that she likes me and became super clingy. It doesn't change the context of the conversation we're having here, obviously she's just trying too hard, and like I said above, broadcasting insecurity.

>>81521385 (OP)
None of you have even answered me yet, how do I let her down easy?

>>81521497
at the end of the day, it's all just your preference
you don't like clingy girls, end of story
just break up with her if you don't like her
all these "redflags" are just bullshit hypothesis, unless you have found horrible shits that she actually have done to you, then it's not bad, just shitty personality at best

>>81521469
How about you rape her and then just disappear from her life?

>>81521548
How am I supposed to break up with her if we're not even dating? Do I tell her I just thought she was cute enough to have sex with but not to date? I feel like that would offend her

>>81521564
It wouldn't be rape, though. She'd just think it was RP and would enjoy it.

>>81521392
quick infatuation means quick ick
girls that act like that aren't into you they literally build up this idea of you in their head and then you act human enough around them and they get upset that you aren't some fucking godly being and then it's your fault somehow for being a human being

>>81521583
just wanna add that i've had this happen to me 3 times.
the only women that ever have shown interest in me ultimately were having an existential crisis and needed anyone lol.

>>81521583
Are you suggesting that I deliberately try to give her the ick? How might I go about that? I feel like if I was mean to her she would cry, she seemed super serious about it all and even said she was praying to God she would find a man like me to love.

>>81521605
Doesn't really bother me anyway, she's just one in a carousel of many on my roster. If you guys are suggesting she'll just phase herself out eventually that's actually quite a weight off my shoulders.

>>81521606
>she seemed super serious about it all and even said she was praying to God she would find a man like me to love.
>after 2 days is already saying "love"
just literally be yourself around her. she'll change just as quick as she latched on. if she doesn't then have fun with her if you enjoy her.
this isn't even a man vs woman thing. this is a regular person vs maladjusted person thing.

>>81521385 (OP)
How did you find a girl like this and why is she clinging on to you?

>>81521635
I'm "myself" around all my girls and most of them stuck around thus far and want me to themselves. Then again, that could only be because I am not "available."
Honestly giving her the ick intentionally might be the best possible option. Maybe I'll start inserting some political beliefs I don't even agree with into the conversation.

>>81521571
just say you don't want her love, tell her to find other man, tell her to stop bothering you, etc
the point is you don't wanna be with her forever
now, if you still want to have sex with her then dating her should be fine, what could go wrong really? you can just dump her once the redflags come to fruition, redflags are only bad when they come to fruition, no?

>>81521649
Just adding random women on various social media platforms and chatting them up, seeing if they're at least somewhat cool and dtf.
I assume why she's clinging onto me is partially an internal thing and partially because I'm conventionally attractive.

>>81521658
No, redflags can lie dormant under the surface for years until they emerge and nuke your entire life. She's not worth dating anyway. Like I said, I also don't want to be outright cruel to her so I think just repeating right wing talking points may be a good idea.

>>81521653
if you don't like her just say you don't like her. you're allowed to be an adult. if she wants to explode on you after you can block her. or just say your real political beliefs to her and she might like you more if you like her too.

>>81521686
I don't really like her, like I said. She's just a plaything to me and she likes being treated that way. Like the others, she wants us to be exclusive but I keep shying around the subject because I don't want her like that.

>>81521665
What social media was she on specifically?

>>81521576
the disappearing would collapse the schroedinger pussy into rape tho

>>81521734
Tiktok, she was posting in #femcel (which basically means she just wants a chad/chadlite.)

>>81521745
What you said right there doesn't even make any sense. I hope you know that.

>>81521720
i think you just answered your own problem with this post. you wanna keep her around for what you want but you don't want what she wants. so you can either do what you want which you consider to be mean or you can be less mean and tell her the truth. maybe she'll be ok with it too cause she might be desperate enough for you and think you'll change and maybe you also think you might change so you don't wanna cut it off rn either.

>>81521675
I don't know, redflags are not even scientifically proven
has she been diagnosed as psychopath by a psychologist? if no, then redflags are just bullshit

>>81521757
it's all e=mc^2 + AI, chillax

>>81521720
then leave her, why waste time with something that you don't like, it will not make you happy

>>81521759
I know she would be okay with it, but like I said before, I just don't want to hurt her feelings, at least not yet. Maybe I'll just wait until the initial feelings wear off and let her down easy.
>>81521778
Being a psychopath isn't the only mental illness nor is it the only one that exhibits red flags.

>>81521545
run the checklist of things women hate like emotional vulnerability and bisexuality
shell eventually ghost you

>>81521806
I am happy, whether or not I have sex with her has nothing to do with my level of happiness. Having sex with different women just feels good. There's nothing more to it than that.

>>81521385 (OP)
Idk bro, maybe try telling her she's cool and all but she's getting too clingy too fast and you're not interested in her.
T. Autist

>>81521814
I also don't think being emotionally vulnerable with her would turn her away, so that's a no-go. Nor am I a bisexual so I'm not gonna pretend to be gay when she clearly knows I'm not.

>>81521822
I genuinely believe she would have a mental breakdown and do something drastic.

>>81521827
ok then tell her youve been raped
its the nuclear option but no woman has ever stayed with a man after hearing that shit

>>81521811
take her to psychologist and see the diagnosis, and most likely you'll see nothing
redflags are bullshit

>>81521841
Again, probably wouldn't turn her away.
>>81521844
Doctor patient confidentiality exists for a reason and I don't think she sees a psychiatrist.

>>81521816
if you only care about sex, why care about her clinginess? that's totally irrelevant
just meet her when you need sex, and don't meet her at any other time

>>81521861
Because she texts me all the time. It's annoying. She texted me when I was hooking up with my main girl and my main girl got upset, even though she knows we're not official.

>>81521850
if doctor says she's bad, then leave her
as simple as that

>>81521850
you severely overestimate bpd attachments
one good ick and she will immediately flip on you

>>81521871
look, you don't like her
just leave her
stop trying to keep her

>>81521747
>Tiktok
Sounds like she's a sad normie then.
Are you actually chad/chadlite? Describe yourself if you will.

>>81521874
Herr Doctor gave her xannies I wanna steal her stash
>>81521876
Should I show her my funko pop collection?
>>81521893
But I can't let her score any points on me
>>81521894
I'm 6'6, jacked, with a 10 inch dick

>>81521925
>I'm 6'6, jacked, with a 10 inch dick
Nice. What are your real stats though?

>>81521974
5'4, fat, balding, 2 inch dick

>>81521838
You wouldn't be going out of your way to make her feel bad. Tell her she's a lovely girl but you don't see anything with her and aren't feeling it. you see her as a friend and don't want to lead her on or give her mixed signals

>>81522005
Wow
Such advice
Many excellent

>>81522011
Fuck you you hoe
Come and say it to my face so I can fuck you in ur ass in front of everyone
T. Autist

>>81522032
>autist is a raging homosexual
many such cases
I'd tear your ass apart

>>81522042
Well then I guess you're going to have to tear my ass apart holmes
T. Ese

>>81522055
Lookin' like a double wide surprise...
God dayumn....

>>81522075
So what you doing?
Are you going to let her down or not? Gently, of course, but are you gonna be a man and tell her with tact or are you going to ghost?

>>81521988
Nah bro. Be honest pls.

>>81522108
Don't tell me you actually still believe I was being honest and not chadbaiting.
>>81522121
5'7, white, average I guess. Why?

>>81522140
God damn nigga
I wanted to believe
People actually lie on the internet? No friggin way

>>81522161
Time to get lit upon your sit upon

>>81522140
>5'7, white, average I guess. Why?
Because then it's weird to me that she would latch onto you.
Gives me hope though because I am taller.

>>81522228
How do you know I'm not lying about that, too?

>>81521392
Backstabbers.

>>81522228
>muh height
You retards need to understand that being taller just makes you a lanklet and women can't tell apart 5'8" from 6'2".