Thread 81521727

would you date a girl who cant get off? like cant feel good or cum whatsoever?

I would gladly eat such a woman

>>81521727 (OP)
>would you date a girl
go fuck yourself

>>81521727 (OP)
I'd tell that bitch to get hypnotherapy so she can properly appreciate my magnificent girthy scepter.

at least three women i've had random deep/drunk conversations with have brought up the fact that they have never experienced an orgasm. late 20s to early 30s.
it's just sad, honestly. as the guy, i'd feel like it's me.

>>81521727 (OP)
I did, was frustrating at first but eventually she became so comfortable with me she was able to cum, she can only cum if my dick is in her

>>81521727 (OP)
No, because that means she is most likely barren or has small tubes.

I'm cooked then

>>81521727 (OP)
>>81521775
get one of those little USB-powered gadgets or something.
don't expect us to know how women's bodies work.

>>81521801
nah shit like that doesnt work, I'm just broken lmao

>>81521727 (OP)
You just need to get rape to feel an orgasm

>>81521832
do you think it's a physical thing or a psychological one?
you've probably considered all this but yeah sex is important and all that. goes both ways in a relationship unless you're a psychopath. i guess you could date psychopaths, convince yourself they love you.

>>81521864
you should get raped

>>81521727 (OP)
Ive got a few ideas on how to make even the most "asexual" woman cum.

>>81521727 (OP)
yes but she wouldnt date me cuz im ugly xd

>>81521727 (OP)
I literally do not care if the girl nuts, I just need to get mine off

>>81521727 (OP)
yes, I'd be okay with her reading a book while I plow her.

>>81521873
prob both. its not like I'm repulsed by sex though but I did go thru some shit in the past. I'm fine now. I think I need to go get checked out now honestly

>>81521882
and if they absolutely cant?

>>81521916
>I did go thru some shit in the past.
and there it is. go get therapy.

>>81521959
u think I haven't before? lol

>>81521927
Then they are either dead or made of silicone.

>>81521875
No one can rape me

>>81521727 (OP)
My ex was really mad when I told her i don't really feel anything when i cum. No idea why

>>81521963
keep at it? try different modalities?
maybe you can find a guy who isn't put off by this AND compassionately loves you, cares about it, that'd be nice. but let's be real, that's not a lot of men.
and for yourself you should try to get this sorted with a professional. OR get into hard drugs.

>>81521972
if people have sex with animals, then they can to you

>>81521990
cares about you* rather

anyway 4chan is dicks, but 'damaged goods' isn't just a meme.

>>81521727 (OP)
Yeah. Why would I care?

>>81521727 (OP)
Sure, but I would try to fix them.

>>81521995
I'm not an animal

>>81522013
yes u are fatass

>>81522023
No, I'm not fat. I'm buff

>>81521990
this is actually good advice. I'm better off straying away from therapy. I'm going to get it sorted out professionally and if I cant find a guy who's like this then drugs it is

>>81522035
keep telling urself that

>>81522039
that's it, champ. wallow in misery and do a bit of self-destruction.

coming here was a good start.

>>81522058
who said I was in misery

>>81522051
That's okay if you don't believe me

>>81522067
i guess the alternative is mania?
enjoy mania, then. THEN the misery.

>>81521727 (OP)
I did for awhile during covid. She was sweet, but had no sex drive whatsoever. I always had to initiate sex, and the 1 time she did was only because we had a chance to be alone together and watch movies over some drinks. Always had to use lube because she couldn't get wet even on her own. I remember once when I asked her about it she told me she just couldn't get off even by herself, but was happy to make me cum because she said it made her happy. It did cause a lot of issues in the relationship though, and her asexuality ultimately caused our breakup, but I don't blame her for whatever hormone issues she had causing it. She also had serious ovarian cysts that made it really painful for her to do anything sexual. I genuinely feel for all women that can't cum even with toys or by themselves. I hope that some kind of medical intervention can help.

Femanons, please, if you can't cum, don't be afraid to talk to a doctor or obgyn about it. It might be a more serious issue like hormone imbalance or a disease.

>>81521727 (OP)
Absolutely, I care so little about sex. My best relationships were with rape-victims or women that were abused as a child. I like taking things slow.

>>81521727 (OP)
Sure as long as she'd be willing to test stuff with me to achieve it anyway, and even if it all fails she'd still let me at least please myself by plapping her. I like touchy cuddly shit after sex so she gets something out of it anyway.

>>81521727 (OP)
If she blows me well and lets me rail her when needed I would.

Why do you have sex then? Seems uninteresting at that point.

>>81521727 (OP)
I don't give a shit as long as she loves me for who I am and not what I can provide for her.

>>81522244
The child rape victims I crossed were extremely perverted and could take a lot of punishment, the guilt when they disclosed their diddled nature wasn't worth it though.

>>81524120
Sounds like you're perverted too. I'd teach them how not to be and show them how they should've been treated, with love, kindness and affection.

>>81522039
anon say no to drugs

>>81522006
based morrowind scrib poster

>>81521727 (OP)
> still will cheat on the simp she settles for

>>81521727 (OP)
>would you date a girl who cant get off?
No because she would never give me a chance despite whatever this thread is trying to pretend is a question posed in good faith.

>>81521727 (OP)
sure, can we kiss and hold hands interlocked though?
:3

>>81521727 (OP)
Ive been alone for so long that I would date ANY girl

>>81521727 (OP)
I would reverse her diseases if she would let me

>>81521727 (OP)
depends.

>be me
>my GF really loves foot massages, long ones 20+ minutes, multiple times per week
>I'm not a footfag and it does nothing for me
>if anything its kinda bothersome because my hands get stiff and tired, I'm not into it, and its at best kinda boring and I'd much rather spend the time just cuddleing or play vidya or do anything else I enjoy more really
>BUT
>I love my GF
>I want to make my GF happy
>And I know how much she likes her foot massages
>so I still do them because I care for her
>yes sometimes when I've had a stressful day or I'm tired or my hands hurt I'll say not today, thats okay and I'm sure she'll understand
>But Imagine the following, If I were to refuse to give her foot massages for weeks, months, and everytime she asks I give another excuse "my hands hurt" "I'm tired" "I have a headache"
>I know how much she likes her foot massages, and yet I deny her
>I know that my refusal hurts her feelings and yet I deny her
>the only reasonable explaination I could deny her repeatedly over a long period of time would be because I don't care about her anymore
>It is a direct red glowing neon sign announcing that I don't love her, that I wouldn't sacrifice even a bit of my own personal comfort despite knowing how happy it'd make her
This is basically describing the situation of women that for one reason or another stop having intimacy with their husbands and then put on the suprised pikachu face when they get divorced and complain on reddit that all their husband ever wanted in the relationship was sex, because he divorced her when she stopped providing sex.
But its not about the sex. Its about what it represents.
That refusing intimacy multiple times in a row for no apparent reason is equal to admitting you don't give a fuck about them.
TL;DR unless you date someone who's asexual aswell, I think its your duty in a relationship to also sometimes have sex, weither you enjoy it or not.

so it depends on your stance on sex.

>>81521727 (OP)
>Girl
You stole that character plot from a ecchi manga

>>81524160
I treated em with kindness and affection but I had my needs, gave one a whole training regimen and diet suggestions with my dick as prize, really fixed up that malnourished body of hers and those holes could take some punishment, when she told me what happened to her I almost puked from the guilt I felt, I hope she's ok.

>>81521727 (OP)
That's normal, I can just masturbate lol. Sex is very unimportant in a relationship

>>81521727 (OP)
No girl can get off to sex. Its really not a concern of mine whether the girl enjoys it or not.

>>81521727 (OP)
Yes, and we will only have sex after marriage for procreation, and mostly just kiss and cuddle and maybe feel up a boob now and then.

>>81521727 (OP)
an actual real girl yes
why the fuck would i care if she came or not? lmao i'm a man and i know ill always cum