>>81532180 (OP)probably some psy-op to bring urgency onto something that's not that necessary, and enable possible regret and mistakes at a early point in life, there are those who enjoy that passion of sex, and would make it seem like a game compared to those who don't regularly partake in sexual activities, i don't think this is deserving of judgement unless they are only doing this to bring harm and induce trauma onto another through their wicked schemes, but if they simply want to love their friends and do that friends with benefits thing, then thats a choice between both parties, and the responsibility between both parties to maintain safe sex, if they don't seek or intend to have children from that moment,
I don't understand the stigma about men and women can't just be friends, I believe and seen many examples of platonic longlasting friendships and that be nice to have, and I hope you will achieve or maintain that as well if you seek pure friendship with another,