I dated 3 of you and regret it all - /r9k/ (#81534345) [Archived: 991 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/18/2025, 8:50:40 PM No.81534345
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I used to lurk here a lot. Thought you guys were misunderstood. I was wrong. Dated 3 literal robots from here. 1st was a Discord sadboy, hadn't left his room in 2 years. Flew out to see him, he barely spoke, cried after sex, threatened suicide when I left. Now he's a vtuber. 2nd read Bukowski in vocaroos, called me his muse. Was funny and manipulative. Cheated on me with a troon, said I was "too real" and made him feel like he was being watched. Last I heard, he's institutionalized. 3rd one really f***ed me up. Said I "seemed sane" and wouldn't stay. Trauma-bonded instantly. Lovebombed me then vanished whenever I needed support. Kept posting anti-woman ragebait on here while pretending to care. I recognized his writing. When I called him out, he said I was just content to him. Then nuked everything and vanished. You guys don't want love. You want someone to break so you feel less alone. Never again.
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 8:51:59 PM No.81534354
>>81534345 (OP)
Thats tuff anon.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 8:52:39 PM No.81534360
>>81534345 (OP)
Try hinge.
Brapdolf Shitler
6/18/2025, 8:52:51 PM No.81534361
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>>81534345 (OP)
Okay.
But would you date me?
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 8:53:07 PM No.81534365
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>>81534345 (OP)
>go to the insane asylum board
>find insane people
>make the insane decision to date the insane people
>shocked when the relationships go up in flames
You certainly belong here with how retarded you are.
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 8:54:27 PM No.81534378
nothing good (in the realm of romance) has ever or will ever come from this board. the sooner people accept that, the better. to anyone reading, you and any seemingly genuine person you meet on here are not going to be the exception. best case scenario, there'll be temporary dopamine releases followed by pure sorrow.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 8:55:11 PM No.81534386
>>81534345 (OP)
>Flew out to see him, he barely spoke, cried after sex, threatened suicide when I left
Foids are evil
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 8:55:55 PM No.81534393
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>>81534345 (OP)
>date discord retards and literal faggots
>didn't learn the lesson after the first guy
>reeeeee it's all your fault
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 8:56:27 PM No.81534397
>>81534386
What is evil about that?
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 8:56:48 PM No.81534400
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>>81534345 (OP)
Baby, you need a real robot, what's yo discord
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 8:57:37 PM No.81534406
>>81534386
This part made me stop reading, how was this fag the bad one?
Replies: >>81534761
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 8:57:59 PM No.81534408
>>81534345 (OP)
I dated my fat looksmatch from soc and he still hated me and disposed of me. he lived 30 minutes away from me so it wasn't long distance or e-dating bs.

to be fair doe, discord e-dating or discord flirting is just as bad. I remember flirting with a british man and he took extreme measures just because he didn't like me. I will not elaborate on the last one since I posted far too often about it in the past.

Just date men off dating apps, they actually want romance.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 8:57:59 PM No.81534409
>>81534397
>take advantage of poor mentalcel
>take his virginity then leave him
Pure evil fr volcel4lyfe
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 9:00:25 PM No.81534427
>>81534345 (OP)
retarded "femcels" here always complain about shit like this but are too retarded to realize they keep falling for the most obvious mentally ill manipulative psychopaths.
i've seen plenty of well adjusted high empathy robots in here but they always get discarded for some reason, i consider myself one of those, never had a gf and i'd like to find a qt depressed gf to build ourselves up and live in a cozy farm together but since im not a bpd discord manwhore or an attention seeking namefag it's never going to happen.
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 9:01:13 PM No.81534433
>>81534345 (OP)
My only real relationship began on here, from a Z Maps thread. I fucked everything up long before we ever met, but after we did we dated for a year and a bit. It didn't work out because I am a wretched broken man - she would disagree about the wretched bit, but she was always too kind, too tolerant of my failures.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 9:02:09 PM No.81534438
>>81534400
ew no
>>81534409
he wasn't a mentalcel he was highly manipulative
>>81534427
they only act high empathy at the start and then you realize who they actually are
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 9:02:27 PM No.81534441
>>81534345 (OP)
ok but why dont you give us more details about them so other people dont fall for them again?
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Brapdolf Shitler
6/18/2025, 9:02:46 PM No.81534445
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>>81534427
Nobody wants gentle, caring sweet men like us...
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 9:03:33 PM No.81534450
>>81534441
how about not trying to find a boyfriend off this website in the first place?
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 9:05:19 PM No.81534462
>>81534450
i am not, but you might help people that do for some reason
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 9:06:01 PM No.81534466
>>81534345 (OP)
sounds like skill issue. if you need a father figure to teach you how to filter moids im available, ma'am
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 9:07:10 PM No.81534476
Just got ghosted by another 4chan girl, we've known each other for four years, this is the second time. I know her full name, workplace, I debate flying out there and asking her on a date, but it would be disrespectful, and a good way to get pepper sprayed. I love her so much. I'm so tired
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 9:07:34 PM No.81534480
>>81534427
You only see the failures post here, the people who have successful relationships would obviously just sail off into the sunset and never post here again
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 9:07:37 PM No.81534481
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>>81534345 (OP)
Here's the gif you were trying to post.
Quite a depressing post. What do I need to do for a fembot to give me the time of day? Or are you lot reserved for severely mentally ill narcissists only?
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 9:07:44 PM No.81534483
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>>81534438
>ew no
Baby once you get a taste of brown you'll be smiling all around town.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 9:07:51 PM No.81534484
>>81534345 (OP)
You picked the wrong men. Please, don't discourage women from finding love here. I plan to find my future wife on hete. Sure, i am a sadiatic schizo with BPD, but i will be loyal to her and not outright abusive.
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 9:11:20 PM No.81534507
>>81534481
The women who use these sites literally ghost you unless you act like a mentally ill narcissist
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 9:18:47 PM No.81534567
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>>81534507
Being ghosted would be an improvement, at least a woman would have talked to me for a little while.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 9:19:40 PM No.81534577
>>81534365
nah I browse this board daily and struggle to find people with the level of mental illness OP has. they may have to open a psych ward the way they attract them.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 9:28:27 PM No.81534665
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>>81534345 (OP)
>You guys don't want love.
Why do you think you can give anyone love?
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 9:38:24 PM No.81534761
>>81534406
He was a manipulative piece of shit, just unskilled
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 9:53:35 PM No.81534899
>>81534345 (OP)
Yeah that's pretty shitty ngl
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 10:05:40 PM No.81535011
>>81534345 (OP)
Women will date normalniggers who come here hunting for BPD pussy but will refuse to date robots and blame us for normalniggers' actions.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 10:09:46 PM No.81535056
>>81534665
what's the source for this pic? i can't find it anywhere
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 10:11:56 PM No.81535078
>>81534345 (OP)
Did you talk to anyone else
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 10:13:00 PM No.81535087
>>81534345 (OP)
>t.unreliable narrator
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 10:15:04 PM No.81535106
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I love every anon
they are all my friends
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 10:20:03 PM No.81535143
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>>81534345 (OP)
this is called learned helplessness and it's really pathetic... grow up and act your age lady!
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 10:21:11 PM No.81535157
>>81534345 (OP)
I dated 1 guy from here and he was normal and nice
I hope he found somebody else
Replies: >>81535182
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 10:24:15 PM No.81535182
>>81535157
Then why break up
Replies: >>81535259
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 10:36:40 PM No.81535259
>>81535182
I was stressed about things that were happening in my life and felt like I was being a terrible gf
I'm not fit for a relationship because it's instinct for me to isolate whenever I'm feeling bad in whatever way
Plus the distance was too great and we were both neets with no money, it seemed improbable that we would ever be together
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 10:40:02 PM No.81535290
>>81534345 (OP)
>femanon somehow finds and dates only the dark triad chads out of all the anons on this board
tale as old as time
Replies: >>81535347
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 10:43:13 PM No.81535316
>>81534484
What do you look like you sound like my type I really like the loyal yet sadistic thing. You are white right anon
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 10:45:21 PM No.81535330
>>81535316
I'm half indian and half pakistani
Replies: >>81535343 >>81535357 >>81538603
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 10:47:01 PM No.81535338
You do realize the somewhat normal guys here never date anyone from here, right?
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 10:47:43 PM No.81535343
>>81535330
Ewwwwwww 4chan needs a racial blocker asap
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 10:48:41 PM No.81535347
>>81535290
lol another sequel added to the saga
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 10:49:54 PM No.81535351
>>81535316
>omg are you a sadistic mentally ill psychopath with bpd tendencies? you're like exactly my type uwu
>proceeds to complain on an anonymous incel forum that men are le bad
you need to kys asap
Replies: >>81535366
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 10:50:45 PM No.81535357
>>81535330
Eewwwwww even the femcels here are the worst type possible.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 10:51:26 PM No.81535366
>>81535351
Bait, its bait, repeating a third time its bait
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 10:52:36 PM No.81535371
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>>81534345 (OP)
its your fault for having bad taste in guys, foid.
my mother was just like that, still cant believe a narcissistic manipulative asshole like my dad got someone like her. sure you was naive and didnt know better, but thats every womans excuse and im tired of hearing it. seems like female intuition isnt real after all.
Replies: >>81535500
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 11:03:53 PM No.81535471
>>81534345 (OP)
>banged a bunch of dudes just for saying nice things to you
kek slut
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 11:07:59 PM No.81535500
>>81535371
sounds like your mother went through a hard time with you
better pity your mother than the faggot father who didn't raise his son properly
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 11:17:01 PM No.81535571
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>>81534345 (OP)
I know that my text isn't necessary or somehow relates to the thread, but I guess I want to share what my soul thinks and what brain doesn't. More than a year ago I met a really nice girl by a small coincidence: I was wearing a t-shirt with the Doors band; it was somewhat a holiday with many people selling their goods at the park. There I saw the girl I mentioned, but didn't spoke to her first. Surprisingly, she thought I was wearing t-shirt with Beatles, and asked me about it, since she's a fan. So we spoke a little, shared numbers and even hugged at the end. Soon I broke up with my gf, and felt such nausea not only to my ex-gf but for many other ladies. But, anyway, I started to hang out and even somewhat dating with the girl that I met near stands with hotdogs and bouncy castles. She's so sweet, calm, funny and has the charmest lips on this world that I started melting after a half year hanging with her. She like's and love's me too, but the sad thing that we only kissed two times, and those kisses were the last thing that we did together irl. A day later I left my homeland to study in a uni (basically to escape draft to the army). I felt a sorrow. After few days I already said to myself that I should move on and find someone nearby me, but I only felt in lust. All I felt was even more desperation and even more nausea to women than before, but something lurked inside of me. The girl that I was dating for the last year started messaging me for time to time, and even called numerous times. I was feeling not that I'm a traitor or any other whine shit, since it won't do anything, but rather I was exalted at the fact that she's still caring about me and even see's me in other people. I'm so in love with her that I promised myself to marry her. Those thoughts is what encourages me for making myself a man. Anons - find a girl outside of the internet, obey her as the angel - and she will be your angel. (or just be at the right time in a right place lol)
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 11:28:49 PM No.81535672
>>81534345 (OP)
>be brown
>try to get a fembot gf
>get rejected 100% of the times for subhuman retards like the ones in op
>get white gf from other places
>been together for years
>fix her slowly every day through love and attention

Fuck you op, and fuck all the other women that lurk here.
Replies: >>81535718 >>81535838
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 11:32:56 PM No.81535708
>>81534345 (OP)
How did you find robots to talk to outside of here?
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 11:34:28 PM No.81535718
>>81535672
Dating anyone from 4chan is suicide
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 11:37:19 PM No.81535746
I havent left my room in a decade and am mentally sound, just bored and annoyed at bad video games
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 11:40:41 PM No.81535770
>>81534345 (OP)
That sounds like a you being shit at seeing how a person is problem, not an us problem
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 11:43:11 PM No.81535789
>>81534345 (OP)
Lol there are guys on here that wouldn't be utterly retarded but you won't give them a chance cause they're not white or Asian. That's what you chose so don't whine about it
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 11:47:58 PM No.81535833
>>81534345 (OP)
Sorry that happened to you but the only women from here I tried dating just used me for my money. So yeah it goes both ways.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 11:49:03 PM No.81535838
>>81535672
Which other places? Don't worry I'm not going to spam them to some third worlder group chat lmao. I've dated white fembots off here but they're absolutely insane

And before anons tell me to get with my own women, they're busy chasing white dick or are generally self hating fucks
Replies: >>81535890
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 11:52:09 PM No.81535860
>>81534345 (OP)
Nice going, dumbass.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 11:55:25 PM No.81535879
>>81534345 (OP)
TL;DR I dated fuckboys and got burned.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 11:56:28 PM No.81535890
>>81535838
Discord dating groups are full of foids, lots of faggots and trannies posing as one, but there's a big mass of younger gen z girls ripe for taking and lonely.
All you have to do is be somewhat nice, express your interest in flirty ways and they are yours.
Unlike the roasties here pretending to be deep and complicated, but simply being whores at heart.

Save yourself the hassle, and get a lonely girl, not a filthy mentally ill roast from here
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 11:58:52 PM No.81535917
>>81535571
omg niko the seal hai ^.^
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:00:07 AM No.81535925
>>81534345 (OP)
And I bet all of them just so happend to be tall
Replies: >>81535954
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:02:31 AM No.81535954
>>81535925
first one was 5'11, the others were 5'9 and 6'1
Replies: >>81536552
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:19:22 AM No.81536102
>>81534345 (OP)
Thats what you get for going for white guys.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:21:10 AM No.81536119
>>81534345 (OP)
Full offense but if you expected mentally stable people here then you're actually retarded.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:08:45 AM No.81536552
>>81535954
You would not give those men the time of day if they were 5'7
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:13:17 AM No.81536582
>>81534345 (OP)
One thing all these guys had in common is that they weren't working full time jobs. Maybe try dating an adult if you want an adult relationship. I couldn't imagine having any of the emotional drama that your guys have put you through. Like, I have work in the morning.
Replies: >>81537028
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:13:40 AM No.81537028
>>81536582
Look at this guy trying to act like being a wageslave is good. Enjoy helping shekelberg buy his 3rd super car.
Replies: >>81537095
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:20:57 AM No.81537075
>>81534345 (OP)
>Cheated on me with a troon
How fucking ugly are you for that to happen? LMFAO
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:22:45 AM No.81537089
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well are you gonna do it again? that's the substance chuds rights?
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:23:10 AM No.81537095
>>81537028
It is good, being grounded in a normal sane life, where you have responsibilities and attend to them, you aren't so bored of life that you toy with people for amusement. If someone takes their own life a little seriously, then they're probably going to take a relationship with you seriously too.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:27:06 AM No.81537113
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>>81534345 (OP)
sorry to hear that anon, I pray you heal and rise above those bad faith actors that wasted some arcs in your life, do take care, the fact that you were too real for one, and maybe even the rest says alot about them more than it does you, stay strong and continue to be real to yourself,
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:39:49 AM No.81537195
>>81534345 (OP)
so ur single now? tits or gtfo.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:04:10 AM No.81537362
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>Unironically dating people from /r9k/
You deserve everything that happened to you. That's like poking a beehive and complaining about getting stung.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:07:58 AM No.81537393
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demoraleposters are the most insecure people ITT
doomposters, bullyposters, rudeposters ITT are self reporting how much more miserable, and weak they are than OP
if you see this message OP, you deserve better love and I will continue to hope you will see those good days you deserve to have, WAGMI
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:12:03 AM No.81537427
>>81535259
Don't know if you're actually her, but this sounds like my one and only failed relationship. If so, I forgive you.
Replies: >>81537708
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:43:58 AM No.81537708
>>81537427
>one and only failed relationship
He talked about other girls he e-dated from here so I don't think you're him
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 4:16:51 AM No.81538040
>>81534345 (OP)
What a stupid whore. Fuck off.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 4:39:15 AM No.81538221
>>81534345 (OP)
Reminds me of my two exes. First girlfriend, I was 16 and she was 19. Abused me culminating in her making me think she died, and that fucked me up for 7 years. The second, I put all my heart and soul into being there for her. At one point though, she said maybe it would be for the best if we split. I always heard, if you love someone, you let them go. Apparently that was the wrong answer, because then she made me out to be an abuser, only to later calm down when we talked. Then she did it again. Funnily enough, same age gap, I was 19 and her 22. Ever since I haven't been with anyone. Went on a date once or twice but it never lead to anything.

All in all, taught me an important lesson on not going for anyone you don't know for years beforehand. If I can't trust someone with my life, I won't trust them with my heart or my body. There's someone I love, have loved for many years on end, but we're just friends. Still, she's the only one worthy for me and as a man, I'm proud of myself for being in love with her. Sorry you went through that. Just know, the pain fades and they will stop mattering to you. Everything feels like it will define you for the rest of your life, but that's youth and inexperience talking. I couldn't tell you how many times I've been "ruined" or "broken" or "had a part of me die", and yet today I am happy. You'll recover from this.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:27:01 AM No.81538603
>>81535330
is your name safia
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:28:14 AM No.81538611
>>81534345 (OP)
how very surprising
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:28:25 AM No.81538614
>>81534345 (OP)
Realtalk.
People from here are not well adjusted.
You're gonna have to settle for a normie you can't ever be fully yourself around because she doesn't laugh at hitler jokes. It sucks, yeah, but that's life, we get half of what we want and we should be happy to even have that, because we could always have less.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:32:12 AM No.81538644
>>81534345 (OP)
You need to date someone stable. People on this site are not the best candidates.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:37:09 AM No.81538683
>>81534345 (OP)
i dated just one and he still fucked me over
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:37:49 AM No.81538690
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>>81534345 (OP)
>Flew out to see him, he barely spoke, cried after sex, threatened suicide when I left.
Reverse the roles.

You're the one that left you retard. The other two sounds like karma for being a automaton whore afraid of emotional vulnerability.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:00:56 AM No.81538862
>>81538690
trvke origga
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:09:01 AM No.81538927
>>81534345 (OP)
sorry to hear that anon fly me out I promise I won't do the exact same thing!!