Thread 81541786

If youre lonely just get loaded up on Jew pills and get told that watching gangbang porn videos is totally healthy for "exploring your sexuality" bro! Also youre racist!

She is 100% correct. You're doing nothing to fix the problem, you just whine about having it.

>>81541817
Therapy doesn't solve anything you fucking nigger literally anything else.

I've been on a waiting list for 4 months for therapy.

>be emotionally healthy male
>can attract women
>talk with girl who seems nice
>turns out she's damaged goods with a tonne of emotional baggage
>leave and repeat
The problem resides not within myself. Just want a gf who doesn't have "trauma." Just want a gf I don't need to babysit.

>>81542061
so your problem is that your standards are too high?

>>81541786 (OP)
>get in shape and take a shower bro!!!
>bro get your shit together and make money!!!
>learn how to socialize and make friends bro!!
>get some hobbies, don't be just a pile of muscles and money!!1
>it's all in your mind bro, do therapy and get a better personality!!

>uhh... you still want a girlfriend? well, uh... you're NOT granted women! stop with this incel yap and get a life!

>>81541786 (OP)
>>81541817
pretty much this

>>81542061
sounds like you want perfection without working and supporting towards the goal to perfect yourself and bring someone else to their perfect self, you come off just as much part of the pollution while providing no solution to yourself and others, i hope you find a fitting relationship to your mental and boundaries though, take care

>>81542425
>>81541817
>Smug meaningless platitudes and normie takes written in a patronizing tone
Yeah I really said something heckin' meaningful and good

>>81542215
He expect us to believe he is in shape, showered, employed, owns a car, has his own accommodation, friends, hobbies & several years of therapy under his belt.

therapists make you do all the work anyway until like session 1000000000 where they finally chime in
unless it's a youth therapist in which case they give you their opinion right away
i'm not lonely so much as people have a negative reaction to me, but i'm not spending 10k to figure that out just so i can conclude my iq is below average

>>81541786 (OP)
Only one problem. Narcissists are extremely afraid of therapists

Anons, don't listen to these creatures.
A lack of therapy is not the reason why women don't match with you on dating apps. They can't test for that.

Also, I go to therapy every week. You know what my therapist, a woman, tells me? That I'm not the problem. Lmao.

>>81541786 (OP)
I had a girl who I was interested in try to convince me to go to therapy. unfortunately for her, what she didn't realize is that her therapy plan was far too expensive for me as a poorfag, I was already struggling with rent and college enough. not to mention no males of my demographic ever go to therapy, much less have it actually work out for them.

>>81541786 (OP)
>Just learn to be someone else bro
>Just be a cuck bro

Every normogroid advice ever.
It always boil down to this.

>>81541786 (OP)
My mom sent me to live in a homeless shelter and said I could move back in with her if I got therapy and then the therapists told me they don't help homeless people and I ended up abandoned in a catch 22 stuck surrounded by meth users

>>81543192
jesus that sounds terrible. your mom sounds like a messed up bitch.

Just telling the jungle of gentiles there's meat to rape and devour, loneliness comes from Yahweh and sin.

>>81541786 (OP)
i don't understand

how is going to therapy gonna get me laid though?

>>81542425
Do you really think a woman would be attracted to the sort of man who's ever been to therapy? Be honest with yourself.

>go outside
>see mentally unwell people entering relationships all the time
>see unattractive people entering relationships all the time
>see broke people entering relationships all the time
>see boring people entering relationships all the time
It's almost like struggling with relationships is a complex, multi layered problem that isn't easy to pin on one single thing. Unless you're a normie. Then it's clearly because you're a bad person.

>>81541817
Therapy isn't going to fix my problems though

>>81541786 (OP)
>>81541817
"male loneliness epidemic" is just the foid friendly term for foids not being slaves.

>>81541786 (OP)
Yeah but what she fails to understand is that some of us (such as myself) prefer to fly solo, stay single, and identify as Asexual. Her "profound" words don't relate to me at all. Sorry, not sorry.

>>81543329
In my opinion, it all comes down to blind luck.

>>81541786 (OP)
>be me
>raised by women
>raised to respect women
>never was anxious around women
>always had women as friends in my life
>get to listen how they were fucked by that guy
>they somehow never even consider me an option
>never seen as bf materian, not even fwb, or a hookup
>never get treated as a romantic option just a vent machine

Therapy is make believe bullshit for women, who only require validation. Men actually need to do things and consulting a feminist "therapist" that will only lead you down the road of emasculation won't help men, at all.

>>81541786 (OP)
>I don't give a shit about men being lonely/dying/whatever
>in fact I relish in male suffering
>I'm going to keep mentioning it anyway to either
>get a few more clicks
or
>keep twisting the knife

>>81542215
This is why so many men just stop trying. They are aware that the goalpost will never stop moving. No matter how hard they try they will never be enough. Normalfags will always find another rationalization for why our society/environment is at fault. The cult of liberalism means that nothing can ever be the fault of anything but the individual (unless its their pet problem of course)

>>81543329
The internet killed any normal form of socializing, normalfags just haven't realized it yet. They are still carrying social momentum from their younger years when socializing was easier but it'll catch up with them soon enough. We're just canaries in the coal mine. They will continue to mock and deride people like us, but their time will come.

>>81542425
lol, damage women are not it

>>81541786 (OP)
If therapy worked why do you have to keep going
When I get my car fixed I don't have to go back until something else breaks on it

>>81542425
>sounds like you want perfection without working and supporting towards the goal to perfect yourself

Wrong on two fronts. I don't want perfect, I just don't want to play second therapist to some bitch with trauma. I also do strive towards perfection, constantly bettering myself. Most of these bitches don't love themselves the way I love and accept myself.

>>81544508
>If medicine works why do I have to keep taking it?

>>81544944
Yes
Typically I pop the antibiotics, the germs die and I don't have to take it anymore

>>81544944
If you're going to the surgeon every month, or every year either he is doing something wrong or you are.