Ok you've met a girl from 4chan and you're vibing with her, but now comes the dreaded moment where you have to exchange pics. I'll help you decipher what she's really thinking based on her response to your photo.

>"You look nice"
Translation: You're ugly/average at best and I don't see a future, but I'm too cowardly to ghost you instantly.

>"Haha you're not what I expected"
Translation: You're ugly and I'm scrambling for a polite way to disengage without seeming shallow.

>"Aw you're cute!"
Translation: You're not ugly, but you're also not hot. I'm keeping you in the orbit until someone hotter replies to my thread.

>"Wow"
Translation: You're actually attractive and I wasn't prepared for it. She's re-evaluating how she acts around you.

>"You kinda look like [random celebrity]"
Translation: She doesn't know what to say and is stalling. Usually not a good sign unless the celeb is hot.

>"You look soft" / "You have kind eyes"
Translation: You're ugly but maybe useful. Backup orbiter energy.

>No reply for 20 minutes
Translation: She showed your pic to her group chat and they're currently roasting you like a pig

>Instantly sends nudes
Translation: You're hot. She's down catastrophically bad and you're now the main character in her mental illness fanfic.

If she doesn't reply instantly with thirst or flattery, assume the worst. Women don't lie with words, they lie with what they don't say. Do not pursue further, simply ghost her and move onto the next girl.

>>81541851 (OP)
Where did you learn all this stuff?

You must be an evolutionary psychology major or something.

>>81541851 (OP)
Nobody wants a 4chan gf you retard

>>81541851 (OP)
>>"Wow"
>Translation: You're actually attractive and I wasn't prepared for it. She's re-evaluating how she acts around you.
So that's what they mean.

>>81541851 (OP)
I have only ever gotten "you look nice" from girls with one exception, she was a mentally ill obese girl from Canada who saw me in a video chat and proceeded to slide into my DMs, it's rare that a woman is into whatever it is I am, so rare that it hurts.

>>81541851 (OP)
who is the girl in that pic she cute

>>81541865
>Where did you learn all this stuff?
Not OP, but over the years of online socialization you begin to pick this stuff up, at least when you're in the kind of communities where pictures are exchanged regularly which seems rare these days, and have access to a Chad who openly shares his experiences.
The latter one can be very blackpilling, the way women throw themselves at men they find truly exceptionally attractive is so far removed from the average man's experience, it will almost make you feel like another species.

>>81541851 (OP)
>Women don't lie with words, they lie with what they don't say. Do not pursue further, simply ghost her and move onto the next girl.
TRVTH

>>81541851 (OP)
Part 2:

Alright, so she didn't ghost you after seeing your pic. Congrats, you passed the genetics filter. Now comes the hard part. Keeping her interest. Especially if she has BPD, you're not dealing with a person, you're dealing with an unstable dopamine slot machine. Here's how to "maintain" a relationship with her:

>Be sweet once, then vanish for 8 hours
Translation: She needs the comedown. If you're too available, you're dead in her mind. Disappear like a father figure.

>Randomly insult her music taste or outfit
Translation: Establish emotional dominance. BPD brains confuse emotional whiplash with "chemistry."

>Don't give constant validation
Translation: She feeds off attention. Starve her slightly so she stays hungry. Too much and she'll throw up and run to the next guy.

>Occasionally ignore her messages mid-convo
Translation: Force her to double-text. If she doesn't, she was never obsessed in the first place. If she does, you win.

>Flirt with other girls in her presence
Translation: BPD girl logic: if other women want you, she needs you more. Jealousy is foreplay in her mind.

>Ghost her for a day and come back like nothing happened
Translation: "Sorry fell asleep" - she'll be furious but relieved. The high she gets from your return keeps her hooked.

>Say something degrading when she's overly affectionate
Translation: If she says "I love you," hit her with "that's concerning." Keep her emotionally off-balance. It's cruel, but effective.

>Reward good behavior only sometimes
Translation: Random reinforcement creates obsession. She doesn't love you she's addicted to your approval.

Treat her like a dog you half-respect. Too much kindness and she'll wander off. Deprive her a little and she'll never leave.

im taking notes, anon

>>81541941
or you could just not play these fucking retarded mental games for e-pussy from a used whore. seriously what the fuck is this shit. women get to behave this way but god forbid im a man child?

this is one game where the only winning move is to not play at all. guess what? even if you do all of this right, your e-girl is still going to fuck you over for the next guy eventually. every single time. youre not different, youre not special, youre not clever. stop making yourself into a fucking toy for women. weve lost all fucking control of them holy shit

>>81541941
I pretty much did this and she blocked me like 2 days after because she got annoyed

>>81541941
What the fuck, this is how I act normally, as in how I just am, but it's never resulted in anything tangible.

>>81542000
>>81542003
You weren't attractive enough to keep her interest. That's it.

Not OP, but here's another good tip: Don't reply to quickly. Wait 5-10 mins between each text so that they get distracted and continue watching tiktok vids until suddenly...
*ding*
Instant dopamine hit
Do that enough times and she will miss you like cravings.

>>81541941
Part 3: Short Looksmaxxing guide

>Lose 10% body fat
Cheekbones come out, eye area de-puffs. Women notice it before you do.
>Color contacts
If you have dark brown eyes this can be really effective
>Don't be bald
Nobody wants a bald faggot in 2025
>Work out
You want to focus on your delts to widen your frame
>Use chinese editing apps
Be pretty subtle with it but you know what to do just make the ideal version of yourself

It's still possible to be ugly and get egirls, but only if she's the type of girl who is attracted to ugliness and degradation.

>>81541941
I'm glad I'm e-dating an autistic girl so I can just be sweet and nice to her and that's enough to keep her interested in me.
Having to do all of that sounds utterly soul crushing.

>>81542174
>I'm glad I'm e-dating an autistic girl
Anon I've dated every kind of egirl you can imagine. Believe me when I say that they're all the same. She can act like a sweet autistic angel who is loyal to you and be talking to a dozen other guys on the side.

>>81542015
So what am I supposed to do, kill myself?
>>81542182
>She can act like a sweet autistic angel who is loyal to you and be talking to a dozen other guys on the side.
The brutal truth, I've seen girls who I assumed were good-natured send nudes to other men in private or outright cheat, it's so brutal.
And I saw all of that because I was friends with them, I couldn't imagine being in the dark about female nature, not knowing that even the seemingly good ones are capable of betrayal.

>>81542198
>So what am I supposed to do, kill myself?
Looksmax, use filters, talk to more girls, that's about all you can do

>be me
>24, finally get egirl gf after years of being terminally online
>we talk every night for hours, sext constantly, says she wants to move in
>fall hard, ignore red flags
>she sends nudes, talks about marriage, says she loves me
>start sending her money for "rent and food"
>she starts posting less, says she's "busy with work"
>gut feeling kicks in, reverse image search her selfies
>some of them pop up on old Instagram tagged by another guy
>look deeper, find her real Facebook
>status: "In a relationship since 2019"
>5 YEARS
>some normie Chad-looking guy in every pic with her
>caption on a pic from a month ago: "5 years with my soulmate"
>scroll down
>see a comment from him: "Can't wait to marry you"
>she replies: "I love you more than anything"
>remember she was sending me hole pics that same week
>realize I was the side dick
>not even the only one
>find her on an alt Twitter she forgot to lock
>posting anonymous thirst traps and replying to DMs from coomers
>literally posting "rate me daddy" under burner accounts
>she was cucking her 5-year bf with me
>and cucking me with 6 other guys

>>81542249
women like this should be punished. she basically took years of your life where you could have been out there socializing and finding a mate

Here's a pro tip for you fags. Just sent a picture of your shirtless without face.
Even as a 6/10 I still get really positive responses.

>>81542271
does that picture work?

>>81542214
>Looksmax
>use filters
I refuse to stoop down to women's level.

>>81541871
I want a 4chan gf

what does it mean if she calls me a handsome chad irl and lets me smash

>>81542501
That means you have to kys immediately

>>81542249
Things like this make me insane, I wouldn't care if they were open about their ways, but they hide it so they can have their cake and eat it too.
It's so vile.

>>81541851 (OP)
>>81541941
All this bullshit and one day she tells you she's done with you because she found someone (even though just yesterday she was sending you wet pussy pics). Turns out you were one of many idiots playing abusechad boyfriend in her DMs and one of the other idiots took a commanding lead due to random reasons. Maybe she was feeling extra needy that day and he was the right kind of simp. Maybe he did something stupid like sending her 3k USD and a bunch of shit from amazon. Maybe he's a fat indian and she felt like some good ol degradation was in order. Maybe he was geographically closer and he went through the humiliation ritual of hitting the road/flying for pussy. You can never know, because you're right, they're slot machines.
Stop putting yourself through this shit and just don't entertain faggot shit foids from 4chan. They're not even hot, they all vaguely look like misshapen trannies like the op pic.

>>81542528
idk where else to find these types of girls they're exactly my type. I know these relationships are so shitty but they're so high dopamine and intense compared to a normal one and the sex is really good.

>>81542174
These meatheads have no soul to crush if they would A) have it in them to treat a girl this way or B) would be interested in a girl that tolerates/desires being treated like this

Peace blessings and protection to you and your wholesome qt

>>81542249
Fag if you didn't expose her to her boyfriend or fiance. If he's okay with it because he's a cuck, that's his problem, at least you tried.

egirls don't like me even before seeing my pic

killing myself is way easier

>>81542748
Gossip, communicating via hot takes, extremism, internet brainrot, drama. These are the things that engage them.
Probably a good thing if this is not you.

you must suffer from extreme mental retardation to be playing mind games and jumping through hoops for some mid, mentally ill roasties to send you nudes

>>81542342
You need to be flayed alive

>>81542830
that's the internet version of betabux

>>81542676
Someday you're going to be that cuck in the dark about your wife's whorish ways, and I will laugh.

>>81543186
Everything you do with girls exclusively online is betabux

>>81541851 (OP)
I think the thing that proves all this shit is real is that no femanon even tried to deny it. Usually they deny everything.

>>81541851 (OP)
Why would you want to date a girl on 4chan, you can be chad and they will still cuck you or cheat on you they are fucking wildcards
>>81542182
That's not true at all if they are sweet and autistic. The one thing I would say is regardless of the female if they get to know you and like you enough they will literally do anything for you, which sort of takes the angel factor away until you realize they do it for your approval

this thread was sort of depressing, I remember being desperate and so I wanted to date a girl from here or a femcel, OP is right about most of the callings, women also write haha you're not what I expected differently, it could be, "You're not as bad looking as I thought." Now, the question for OP is, what if they combo, "Wow you're cute", what would this entail.
But anon let me give you a better guide instead of shitty e-girls, you wanna find a girl who isn't complete normie tier but isn't so engrossed in this shit either. In a way, they are two sides of the same coin. But you want her to be knowledgable about internet phenomenons. Remember, you reap what you sow. If you get a girl from a wasteland like this, don't expect her to be the purest angel you'll ever meet.

>>81543401
>That's not true at all if they are sweet and autistic
You are so naive and inexperienced, I pity you, a girl will break your heart someday.
Let that sweet and autistic girl find a group with men in it, she will cheat as easily as she breathes.

>>81543401
Why are you taking a picture with a blurry lens?Your face is crooked
Translation: You have good bone structurebut i'm not attracted to your race/body type/clothing/face a
user

b t a

Holy shit, this thread has been a great reminder to me how shallow women can truly be.

This is how my boyfriend treats me and it makes me want to dump him

>>81543931
Take my advice and do it. Stop wasting your time.

>>81543931
You would have dumped him much earlier or cheated on him if he treated you better. He's based and knows his worth.

>>81543945
I will soon if he doesn't stop
>>81543976
No, I wouldn't have, he just recently started playing these dumb games and if he doesn't stop I will dump him
>knowing your worth as a man means mistreating your girlfriend
Interesting

This thread is brutal, can we just start giving the Bianca Devin treatment to all Whores?

>>81541993
the only winning move is to transition, being chase amante for roastie folds is just as cucked as being betabux

>>81542775
you should try signing up for the miltary, free access to a gun

i'm considering it myself

>>81544087
>anything happens
>best move is to transition bro
whats wrong with troons why are they such hardcore groomers

>>81543485
clocking this as GPT

>>81544100
NOT AN ARGUMENT!
society grooms men into being providers for le poooosy, so really what i'm suggesting is counter-grooming
you gonna make an actual argument against trooning?

picrel is a 4chan whore girl

>>81544128
>society groomed you so i should groom you as well

>>81542271
>Giving "protips"
>Is a fat dyel
Lmao

>>81544087
>transition
ywnbaw
but hell of a way to out yourself as the faggot who got buck broken by 0 pussy and trooned out out of sheer spite kek

>>81541865
It's a fanfic based on his coomer fantasy.

>>81545507
It's all legit shit that I've noticed from talking to hundreds of egirls

>>81543718
>>81544028
Just use this information to pump and dump them

>>81541941
#1 advice for men on this website: dont take dating advice from other men
i promise you there is no woman in the world who would be attracted to this. unless she REALLY likes you (which she probably doesnt) she will literally just stop talking to you
this will not make women want you !!! men are idiots !! stop taking dating advice from men !!!!

>>81546120
What women say they want and how they actually react is completely different. Any anon who has talked to women with BPD knows this to be true.

i want an autistic 4chan gf who i can hug and caress and who's special interests i can fund :D

>>81546495
and who would rape me

>>81546495
You're the simp these girls use for money while fucking the chad manipulator

>>81546517
no i would only want a commited and healthy relationship where i help with aforementioned special interests :DDDD

>>81541851 (OP)
Why would you date an attention whore? I would have dated sems but she's too skinny now

>>81546601
sems is also an attention whore though just like all the others on here

>>81541851 (OP)
usually when i ghost them it's because they're too good for me

>>81546863
You're probably not an egirl worth getting nudes from then

>>81542271
If that gets positive responses then those roidfags must be drowning in pussy

That last think I want is a woman who browses 4chan

>>81546886
yeah i know i'm not really an egirl im just a girl

>>81543206
so i need bux?

>>81543206
i met my wife online and she pays rent and groceries and lets me work only part time
shes twice my age though

They know youre doing this. If this happens to a girl once then theyll know what any other man trying it is doing it from there out. You're not even winning anything here except wasting your time with some random girl while she plays along for money or something

>>81541851 (OP)
man that girl in picrel is so fucking hot i wanna fuck her so bad i dont care if she is some used up slut

what does "AWWWWWWWWW :DDDDDDDDDD" mean

>>81546142
Then why the fuck would you willingly date a woman with BPD?

HELLO NIGGERS
I am here today to exclaim that I do in fact HATE women
Their antics and tantrums should be enough justification to remove all their RIGHTS but instead we sacrifice the future of the entire species to appease them
We deserve to go extinct for this simple fact, that we as a specie could not whip these mindless baby factories into submission
That will be all, GOOD DAY

>>81541851 (OP)
stop edating u degenerate

>>81544028
I hope you get burned alive by your mother.

>>81541851 (OP)
What if you're too scared to show your face? I have plenty of guy and girl friends I've met online that I've known for 4+ years and have never once seen my face but I've seen theirs, and in some cases more than their face. Im scared of being ghosted for being unattractive, or of being posted online

>>81550301
don't be ugly then idk

I wish I had an egirl to e-date but I'm too ugly (I never post pics of myself because it would jeopardize my job)

>>81550301
Why don't you just improve your looks then? Honestly though if you're like old idk if it's worth dating ewhores.

>>81548048
It could be highly positive depending on her actions afterwards. It's not what they say, it's what they do.