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Anonymous No.81569606 >>81569629 >>81569652 >>81569709 >>81569770 >>81569844 >>81570142 >>81570170
do you guys have online friends?
is it fun?
Anonymous No.81569621 >>81569649
Having online friends is fucking pointless. Literally everyone is transient. Make friends irl and don't keep resetting the constant cycle of diappointment when people you meet online leave.
Anonymous No.81569622 >>81569649
Having friends is a chore. Don't do it
Anonymous No.81569629 >>81569649
>>81569606 (OP)
I used to, but then I just didn't make the transfer from Skype to Discord. I go to church now.
Anonymous No.81569633
no.
i do not know.
Anonymous No.81569649 >>81569668 >>81569669 >>81569806
>>81569621
but what if im too scared to talk about some stuff irl? some things are easier online...
>>81569622
thats tru
>>81569629
>skype
hi grandpa!
Anonymous No.81569652
>>81569606 (OP)
i do sometimes, but i get attached to them and then they leave me and make me feel bad
Anonymous No.81569659
having friends is worth it but you need to be at the same level of success.
Anonymous No.81569668 >>81569700
>>81569649
>but what if im too scared to talk about some stuff irl? some things are easier online...
Fuck are you talking about online that would freak out someone irl?
Anonymous No.81569669
>>81569649
That's "unc" to you, grandpa is a goal.
Anonymous No.81569685
I like friends. anyone want to add on discord, get on vc, and play a (free) escape room puzzle game on steam right now?
Anonymous No.81569700 >>81569769
>>81569668
can you actually be fully honest irl?
Anonymous No.81569709
>>81569606 (OP)
no i dont. i may not have friends irl but online friends are just as shit cause i dont know how to talk to people, and im so dysfunctional that i cant put up with simply messaging people. its all too tiring and busy and thats if i can even get people to like me. and even tho im a retarded faggot, i cant stand retarded faggots.
Anonymous No.81569751
ive interacted with thousands of people. Kept some with me, rolled through others, others rolled through me. Every person, every story.
I think its made me a better more empathetic man ultimately but after a while you realize they are just responses on a screen really. I still talk to a few that have been with me for nearly 20 years now though.
Anonymous No.81569769 >>81569790
>>81569700
I mean, I am. I just don't say weird shit. Also, like, know who you can and can't talk about certain things with. Like reading a room, or whatever. I dunno. Basic social skill shit.
Anonymous No.81569770
>>81569606 (OP)
Yes. Yes. I met (some of) them in random group chats on kik when I (and most of them) were teenagers. I was ~13 then. I had a hiatus and didn't talk to them when I was like 18-20 and found out they migrated to pisscord when I went back to kik. From there I found a guy I remembered and he remembered me and he invited me to the group. I knew some of guys there when I joined but not everyone. Fairly active back then. Lot of guys, a few women. I only remember one with pale skin, dark hair and dark eyes.
Now I'm 24. There's like 5 or 6 guys that talk more than once a month. I talk the most haha. It's a place I can talk about anything and even if no one responds, I know someone out there is reading it and somewhat cares about my madness.
I feel closer to them than I do anyone IRL because they have seen me at my worst and my most vulnerable.
I appreciate them a lot. I love these guys who have never seen my face more than my family. I have never shown them my face/body or went to any IRL meet ups because whatever image they have of me on their minds is infinitely better than the real me desu.
Anonymous No.81569790 >>81569804
>>81569769
>Like reading a room, or whatever. I dunno. Basic social skill shit.
what about fuck you then
Anonymous No.81569804
>>81569790
Damn, okay then, hoe.
Anonymous No.81569806 >>81569812
>>81569649
anon I want to talk to you about stuff that freaks normies out
Anonymous No.81569812
>>81569806
also I'm a fucked up turbo degen that you won't be able to gross out regardless of what you talk about
Anonymous No.81569844
>>81569606 (OP)
https://voca.ro/1hUxNSFtnG4i
Anonymous No.81570049
I've had a few over the years, they were mostly transient though. One managed to visit me a few months ago by plane after we had talked for several years. It didn't turn out horribly, but we were not really compatible for IRL friends, which I really should've been able to predict. Sad!
Anonymous No.81570142
>>81569606 (OP)
i have a few
i find them fun, i like chatting with them alot
Anonymous No.81570170
>>81569606 (OP)
the only people I talk to online and my wow guild mates, but they are not real friends just cool guys i play with