Thread 81569606 - /r9k/ [Archived: 977 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:17:28 AM No.81569606
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do you guys have online friends?
is it fun?
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:18:49 AM No.81569621
Having online friends is fucking pointless. Literally everyone is transient. Make friends irl and don't keep resetting the constant cycle of diappointment when people you meet online leave.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:18:52 AM No.81569622
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Having friends is a chore. Don't do it
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:19:39 AM No.81569629
>>81569606 (OP)
I used to, but then I just didn't make the transfer from Skype to Discord. I go to church now.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:20:07 AM No.81569633
no.
i do not know.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:22:07 AM No.81569649
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>>81569621
but what if im too scared to talk about some stuff irl? some things are easier online...
>>81569622
thats tru
>>81569629
>skype
hi grandpa!
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:22:10 AM No.81569652
>>81569606 (OP)
i do sometimes, but i get attached to them and then they leave me and make me feel bad
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:22:52 AM No.81569659
having friends is worth it but you need to be at the same level of success.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:23:14 AM No.81569668
>>81569649
>but what if im too scared to talk about some stuff irl? some things are easier online...
Fuck are you talking about online that would freak out someone irl?
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:23:20 AM No.81569669
>>81569649
That's "unc" to you, grandpa is a goal.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:24:38 AM No.81569685
I like friends. anyone want to add on discord, get on vc, and play a (free) escape room puzzle game on steam right now?
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:26:07 AM No.81569700
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>>81569668
can you actually be fully honest irl?
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:26:44 AM No.81569709
>>81569606 (OP)
no i dont. i may not have friends irl but online friends are just as shit cause i dont know how to talk to people, and im so dysfunctional that i cant put up with simply messaging people. its all too tiring and busy and thats if i can even get people to like me. and even tho im a retarded faggot, i cant stand retarded faggots.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:31:02 AM No.81569751
ive interacted with thousands of people. Kept some with me, rolled through others, others rolled through me. Every person, every story.
I think its made me a better more empathetic man ultimately but after a while you realize they are just responses on a screen really. I still talk to a few that have been with me for nearly 20 years now though.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:33:26 AM No.81569769
>>81569700
I mean, I am. I just don't say weird shit. Also, like, know who you can and can't talk about certain things with. Like reading a room, or whatever. I dunno. Basic social skill shit.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:33:30 AM No.81569770
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>>81569606 (OP)
Yes. Yes. I met (some of) them in random group chats on kik when I (and most of them) were teenagers. I was ~13 then. I had a hiatus and didn't talk to them when I was like 18-20 and found out they migrated to pisscord when I went back to kik. From there I found a guy I remembered and he remembered me and he invited me to the group. I knew some of guys there when I joined but not everyone. Fairly active back then. Lot of guys, a few women. I only remember one with pale skin, dark hair and dark eyes.
Now I'm 24. There's like 5 or 6 guys that talk more than once a month. I talk the most haha. It's a place I can talk about anything and even if no one responds, I know someone out there is reading it and somewhat cares about my madness.
I feel closer to them than I do anyone IRL because they have seen me at my worst and my most vulnerable.
I appreciate them a lot. I love these guys who have never seen my face more than my family. I have never shown them my face/body or went to any IRL meet ups because whatever image they have of me on their minds is infinitely better than the real me desu.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:35:22 AM No.81569790
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>>81569769
>Like reading a room, or whatever. I dunno. Basic social skill shit.
what about fuck you then
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:36:29 AM No.81569804
>>81569790
Damn, okay then, hoe.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:36:32 AM No.81569806
>>81569649
anon I want to talk to you about stuff that freaks normies out
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:37:33 AM No.81569812
>>81569806
also I'm a fucked up turbo degen that you won't be able to gross out regardless of what you talk about
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:41:21 AM No.81569844
>>81569606 (OP)
https://voca.ro/1hUxNSFtnG4i
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 2:05:33 AM No.81570049
I've had a few over the years, they were mostly transient though. One managed to visit me a few months ago by plane after we had talked for several years. It didn't turn out horribly, but we were not really compatible for IRL friends, which I really should've been able to predict. Sad!
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 2:17:18 AM No.81570142
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>>81569606 (OP)
i have a few
i find them fun, i like chatting with them alot
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 2:21:17 AM No.81570170
>>81569606 (OP)
the only people I talk to online and my wow guild mates, but they are not real friends just cool guys i play with