We are being told 2 different things. That we are le bad for not approaching women and that we are le bad for bothering women. That women love men, that every tiny thing we do gives them the "ick".

So what is the truth? Feminists seem to confirm what the blackest black pills are saying, that women are only attracted to the top 20% or so and are physically repulsed by the rest. Unlike men that might prefer a supermodel but still find a fat woman attractive. Are we really going back to the social system of chimpanzees where the dominant male and females are at the center and the beta males are pushed to the periphery?

Or am I overreacting? If so, where exactly are these mysterious women that want to be approached by me and are attracted to me? They do not seem to exist anywhere.

Men are shit, they fail at the basics such as reading the room.

>>81571186 (OP)
You can't make the "right" choice in the eyes of people that fucking hate you. It's a lose-lose situation because they never wanted you to win in the first place

This isn't hard to figure out. The rules never apply to Chad.

>>81571186 (OP)
Literally just avoid women and you'll be fine.

There is a time and place to approach women which clearly you incels never learned. Basically unless we are at a designated event where the whole goal is to meet people then leave us the fuck alone.

>yet another social media screenshot
Why don't you niggers just stay there and stop shitting up 4chan with this stupid shit. Go back there and stay there, fucking faggot.

>>81571324
I've picked up women at work before.
If you're not attracted to the man, then the time and place is never. So don't be hypocritical, because if mr. right walked up to you at an "unacceptable" time and place, you'd still take him up immediately.

>>81571186 (OP)
No, you're not overreacting at all OP. Nothing you said is false. Essentially, it's still very much the same as it was thousands of years ago ...which is actually kind of humorous (in a sad way) considering many of us still seem to be unable or unwilling to utilize our prefrontal cortex as opposed to consciously allowing our reptile brain to still do the talking for us.
>But anon, it's a survival mechanism! It's le natural?!
Yeah, and it serves a higher purpose. At least, it's supposed to. But we let our lust and greed get in the way because we still refuse to make logical decisions because we allow our "wants/needs/desires" to completely overrule our conscious decision making process to the point to where it begins to harm us because we're overindulging and abusing our reptile brains and completely ignoring our prefrontal cortex (aka logical decision) part of our brains. We have so much potential as human beings and we waste it on things we think we "need" when in reality it's just shit we selfishly want. Verification [not] required.
/rant

>>81571186 (OP)
society (women) made it impossible for them to be attracted to us. Their collective hivemind has a boogeyman concept of man they use to inform all of their decisions, and they don't realize they are hurting all men

>>81571324
ah yes, here comes the expert at social dynamics, the pussy whisperer, come to talk down to the incels. you're here for a reason, faggot. you're not above anyone else on /r9k/ and no one thinks you're a slayer. kill yourself now and today you're not saying anything that hasn't been said by thousands of other mistaken, foolish and retarded ignoramuses before you.

>>81571186 (OP)
The truth is: Women have no idea what they want.

>inb4 "but anon that poster is a girl"

lol

>>81571186 (OP)
different people are saying different things
i want to be approached by the cute guys my age that i see that have similar style to me
you don't even have to be cute to be honest just not very unattractive and even then i would be flattered
i've been approached by men 3 times in public, twice they were my age and not super strange and unhygenic so i was flattered
once it was this 50 year old man and i was like no but i wasn't in danger so i didn't really care

>"Society says"

Referring to "society" like some vague, cohesive entity is such modern, internet-brained thinking.
Usually, "society" means "I once saw someone on some large, open website like Reddit or Twitter have an opinion or repost some small opinion blog".

Stop talking about "society". Stop trying to piece together some ethical framework from the endless crap that comes from twitter and reddit. It doesn't matter whether you are seriously trying to follow their ethics or get mad and shake your fist at it for being inconsistent, because no shit its inconsistent. It isn't even a real framework.
If you want advice on how to act, get advice from irl people, communities you trust, hell, even online communities that are more closed and cohesive.
Just put down the dopamine rectangle and live in the world.
Then I guarantee that you won't be tormented by "society" all the time.

>>81572070
I really need to put down the dopamine rectangle

>>81571324
How do people get invited to a designated event where the whole goal is to meet people, dummy. Is it not by asking them out, dummy?

>>81572070
the internet literally turned women into a hivemind.
they all have the same opinions.

You are just wrong.