Thread 81589879

Hi!
I'm a 23 year old Woman. I have a misogyny kink, evolved out of bdsm and cnc kink. it clashes with my lifestyle and political views, but that's not the issue.
Problem is: Men don't get, that bedroom stuff and how I want to lead my life are different from eachother. why's that?

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Men are shit, they also have a difference between their normal lives and their sex tastes, but they're utterly unable to see it in others, even other men

>>81589879 (OP)
>Men don't get, that bedroom stuff and how I want to lead my life are different from eachother. why's that?
says who?
its an open secret that the guys in power have a sub kink and the guys on the lower end have a dom kink - its just a sensation that they dont get very often so they let loose in the bedroom

you having a "misogyny" kink is valid, anon

>>81589945
Same thing everytime, I meet a guy and we match well sexually. We go on a few dates and he just goes rampant with the misogyny, without prior discussions about boundraries and such. I don't want to sacrifica my sexual happiness, but getting into something serious with men like that just seems reckless.
I know, that I'm not in the wrong here, but I just don't understand why it's so hard for them to respect me enough to give a shit.

>>81589879 (OP)
>Problem is: Men don't get, that bedroom stuff and how I want to lead my life are different from eachother.
This is perfectly normal in the kink community. What are you doing to signal your interest in this when you're talking to potential partners?

>>81590021
You should be going on a few dates before you know whether you match well sexually.

>>81590021
If they don't respect you the don't bother with them always gonna be retards who don't respect boundaries

>>81590073
>>81590050

I don't belive, that there is any harm in disclosing your sexual interests before dating, when they're important to you. I wouldn't want to lead a vanilla relationship, so talking about it beforehand just makes sense.
I approach the subject in a casual/ factual way, not in a flirty tone.

>>81590109
>I approach the subject in a casual/ factual way
>"hi, my name is anon and here are my kinks and my boundaries"
who the fuck starts off talking about their kinks, settle down lady - not till you guys are in bed together

>>81590109
Do you similarly discuss your desire for feminist independence outside the bedroom?

>>81589879 (OP)
>I want to have my cake and eat it too

>>81590140
Yes, I am very upfront about it. I feel like they either find the contrast hot (Kinda get it) or just don't really take it seriously in a "Yeah I'll change her" kinda way.

>>81590130
Of course it's not the first thing I say lol.
But after a few days of texting I feel like it's appropriate.

>>81589879 (OP)
Men are more consistent. Women are into compartmentalizing and behaving in completely different ways depending on context.
I theorize this is because women have an extra hole between their legs that gets infected easily if they aren't careful about keeping everything neatly sorted. Whereas men don't have vaginas so they can be more straightforward and messy without needing to create strict boundaries or orderly hygienic routines.

>>81589879 (OP)
Massive skill issue, my gf and I are in a BDSM relationship and she's extremely sub and is into massively degrading shit. The extent of my dom-ness stops at kink and some minor leadership/guidance or displays, I'm more progressive than even her (she was raised in a very misogynistic country).

Look and vet for real dominant men, establish boundaries and talk politics right away to scare the shitty ones off.

>>81589879 (OP)
>>81590021
>>81590109
>FUCKS GUYS ON THE FIRST DATE TO SATE MISOGYNY KINK
>IS STUNNED WHEN SHE DATES NORMALFAGS WHO PRETEND TO RAPE HER ON THE FIRST DATE ARE NOT JUST KINKY FREAKS LIKE HER
THIS SHIT IS HILARIOUS WHY DO YOU EVEN GIVE A FUCK WHEN THERE'S ABOUT A MILLION FREAKS OUT THERE WHO'D BE FINE WITH THIS SHIT ANYWAYS JUST FIND SOMEONE WHO'S INTO THAT AS A KINK LMAO

THAT BEING SAID I WOULD PROBABLY WANT TO FUCK THE SHIT OUT OF YOU AND HIT YOU SO WHAT DO I KNOW. TELL YOU WHAT, I WON'T EVEN EXPECT A RELATIONSHIP AFTER IF YUO DON'T CARE EITHER. IF YUOR INTERESTED IN THIS PROPOSAL PLEASE CONTACT ME BY THINKING OF THE PHRASE "GANONDORF'S TOP GUY" UNTIL YOU FEEL THE PSYCHIC LINKUP AND WE'LL BE IN TOUCH.

A misogynist female is just another pick-me whore. Women who are like that are he fucking worst girlfriends.

>>81590620
NO NO, ANON, YOU MISUNDERSTAND, SHE'S A PROG OR LEFTIST WHO HAS A FETISH FOR MISOGYNY AND CONSENSUAL RAPE WHERE SAID KINK IS A MASSIVE PART OF HER SEXUALITY THAT SHE CAN'T GET OVER AND ERGO SHE CAN'T REALLY GET IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THE GUYS WHOM SHE FUCKS BECAUSE FOR SOME REASON SHE HASN'T THOUGHT THROUGH LOOKING AT FETISH COMMUNITIES ONLINE

IT'D BE REALLY FUNNY IF IT DIDN'T MAKE ME SO HARD

>>81590657
>>81590590
You realize the whole CAPS LOCK ARE CRUISE CONTROL FOR COOL is just a meme, right?