Thread 81597360 - /r9k/ [Archived: 832 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/24/2025, 3:06:52 PM No.81597360
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What is it really like to be Chad chased by dozens of women tripping over themselves for him, he's the prize and not her, women obsessed, and can have any woman he wants?
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 4:47:17 PM No.81598332
Chad is a homosexual concept, it doesn't exist.
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 4:53:39 PM No.81598388
>>81598332
>trust me bro woman aren't solely into a specific phenotype of men (Chad)
>please ignore all the women with near identical demands ands preferences
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 5:01:40 PM No.81598470
>>81597360 (OP)
Being that noticeable wherever you go, I would never leave the house
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 5:11:41 PM No.81598537
>>81598470
its mostly because he walks with his shirt half open like a slut
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 5:18:06 PM No.81598574
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>>81598537
>its mostly because he walks with his shirt half open like a slut
It's that easy? Thanks bro, I'm going to try it right now!
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 5:19:18 PM No.81598586
>>81598574
yeah you look very noticeable as well
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 5:20:35 PM No.81598604
>>81597360 (OP)
Yes, are you stupid or what ? You've instinctively felt this ever since you were like an 8yo boy.
Our real problem, most of us are lazy fucks, not conscientious enough. We are still monkeh.
Thing is, if you actually worked on yourself ever since early childhood, maybe you wouldn't be chad with adonis look, but you definitely would be the prize unless you are totally cursed subhuman, which most of us arent. You would definitely have girls falling for you already at age 13
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 5:21:51 PM No.81598616
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>>81598388
So if an unusually attractive woman was walking around you wouldn't see guys checking her out? That's just a woman thing?
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 5:22:52 PM No.81598626
>>81598604
its true my 14 years old nephew is on a mewing streak and his discord dms are poppin
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 5:26:17 PM No.81598655
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>>81598604
Thanks for the helpful advice bro! What exorcises can I do to make myself a foot taller?
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 5:26:43 PM No.81598661
>>81597360 (OP)
I can tell you what it's like being chad for one day. I had girls following behind me the whole day and arguing who should approach me. It was very annoying and I wanted them to go away. But I didn't talk to any girl because I wasn't used to it. So in my experience it's a mix of feeling really good and feeling harassed by succubi.
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 5:31:50 PM No.81598699
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>>81598661
>I can tell you what it's like to be young, handsome, and a head taller then everyone else for one day.
Care to explain? Did your flight from Canada to Australia make a stopover in the Philippines?
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 5:32:57 PM No.81598710
>>81598604
Uh, no. I have been grinding and self improving since i was a kid. Learning instruments, doing sports, lifting, martial arts,... I dress like the guy in OP's video, except i never unbutton my shirt that much unless i am in a very casual setting. And i'm pretty tall (194cm). Ive literally never received any female attention (or if i have, never noticed any) and am now a 22yo khhv. If you actually look around you will see that most guys with girlfriends just got them through pure luck, just being at the right place at the right time. I have never met or heard of a "Chad" type guy IRL. But i know one fat neckbeard guy who wears t shirts with stains on them and never finishednhigh school who has like a dozen women whp jave sex with him because he is a drug dealwr and sells them weed and cocaine and shit. Ironically most of the guys from my high school basketball team are still virgins who have emver had a girlfriend, only 2 have a girlfriend/wife, and one of them got arrange married since he is some sort of baptist denomination that does that idk. In my experience, self improvement has nothing to do with getting women. In fact, if it does, it probably has a negative effect because instead of going to parties, doing drugs or whatever you are spending friday nights in Judo class practicing for an upcoming tournament.
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 5:41:02 PM No.81598779
>>81598655
thing is you dont have to be tall. You have to play your advantages. But you're already a grown up so there's not much u can do. Keith Raniere was a manlet but he pulled more PVSSY than your whole high school together, his intentions were dark, but still.
Idk, for example, if u're a teenager take up some track and get really good at it. Everybody ( except for truly disfigured people) can run a 17 min 5k and its extremely impressive if u do so at age 16 . You'd be winning races and getting attention. Some things literally are just about not being lazy ( some other do require actual talent), this especially goes for distance running (of course the top runners --- 13 min 5k --- have exteme talent).
Also you could, as a kid, and an early teenager work on understanding other people's feelings and turn them around in a way that everybody admires you. That was Ranieres specialty.
>>81598626
Not necessarily mewing, but sure, even my dentist told me i should do proper oral posturing as a child. ( which i didnt listen to and i should have).
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 5:42:31 PM No.81598791
>>81598699
I styled my hair a certain way and popped my jacket collar up. I know this sounds like bullshit but I looked insanely good that day. When I got out of my hotel and started exploring the local town, a group of girls I knew started drooling after me, and they were hot. Other girls liked me too and people in general treated me nicely. Before that I was the mute freak with greasy hair nobody talked to. I'm still ugly thougheverbeit. It was a miracle, anon, a genuine miracle.
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 6:01:44 PM No.81598983
>>81598779
Actually I agree with you, self improvement is possible and is always a good thing. But the theme of this thread is "What is it like to be so exceptionally tall and good looking that you literally stand out in a crowd?" At least that's what I got from OP's video. (Also, am I the only one who is a bit creeped out that when I see a video like that I immediately suspect it's AI generated?)

>>81598791
>I styled my hair a certain way and popped my jacket collar up.
>Everyone started treating me like a rock star
For fuck's sake, if this was true why wouldn't you just do that every day?
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 6:15:21 PM No.81599113
>>81598710
self improvement is about building up admirable qualities but also having fun anon. Going to parties IS self improvement, it teaches is you how to socialize, if you only did sports and study---and you're unhappy with being a highly educated, really athletic virgin, i'm sorry to tell you, but that's the path you chose.
Of course, it disproves what i said. Because finding the right path is perhaps the true challenge. I am surprized there are people like you. I was really talented but decently asocial in HS but a lot of girls liked me ( never got any though, because i just didnt wanna talk)---they didn't respect me though, that was the problem.
Thought it was the case with all people like me. Anyways, I'd probably be self confident enough to talk, if i actually would be winning on a national or ---at least--- district level. I am a closeted narcissist, so i can only get off people's validation.
I think for people like you who have admirable qualities the problem is their lacking open-mindedness and ability to self-market. Because a guy like you definitely gets respect from most people and definitely will have an easier time making friends if he is nice and open-minded than a fat drug dealer. And with women, respect is extremely important.
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 6:16:40 PM No.81599125
>>81597360 (OP)
>walking around with his shirt half open like he's in a gay fag porno in an art museum with maximum main character energy
I see why people looked.
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 6:18:07 PM No.81599137
>>81597360 (OP)
he doesn't notice because it is normal to him
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 6:38:01 PM No.81599355
>>81599113
I didn't choose to be ostracized and bullied though. That's another negative aspect of self improving in your youth - while you're studying/practicing/training, or away from school because of competitions, the guys who don't have any hobbies and just go to classes are building rapport. There is no surefire way to get accepted by a group. You can be kind and never wrong anyone yet still be targeted by bullies. Because unlike academia, sports, music, etc, socialising is neither fair nor deterministic.
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 6:40:11 PM No.81599377
>>81598616
They would obviously check her out, yes, but those guys would also be checking out most of the other women they pass as well. Because men have varied tastes.
Meanwhile women will only check out Chad, and the rest of the men are either invisible or a nuisance to them.
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 7:00:28 PM No.81599659
>>81599355
Yeah, well there's an easy way to deal with bullies. Find flaws to pick on them.
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 7:12:02 PM No.81599801
>>81599659
Young Sheldon over here gonna defeat his bullies with logic and reason.
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 7:27:00 PM No.81599972
>>81599801
Maybe by exposing that they are losers ? That would work for starters, discrediting them.
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 7:48:57 PM No.81600191
>>81598983
Well, the attention was too much and it hurt seeing the girls interested in me just because of my looks. It's true when they say "be careful what you wish for" and I can at least sympathize with guys being stalked and nagged on by girls. The next day I came looking like the regular loser and I heard the girls say I looked disgusting. I still can't believe what a fever dream that was.
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 8:31:01 PM No.81600659
>>81598604
true, 12 year olds should work on themselves, hit the fucking gym, shower 6 times a day, slay the dragon, clean their room, and get a clue
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 8:33:08 PM No.81600683
>>81597360 (OP)
chad has lost all meaning in the past 10-15 years. this guy is a pencilneck virgin in 2010. it really is all about height these days.
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 8:35:10 PM No.81600713
>>81600659
Yeah, they should, anon. They should learn to set meaningful goals and work on them. They would be so much better off. They also should party hard and have fun with their friends.
Not saying working out. It could also be playing the synth, djing, ice skating skiing, skate boarding, bmx, playing guitar. A lot of good shit that makes u a cool guy.
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 8:37:29 PM No.81600735
>>81597360 (OP)
This is so brutal for sub 5s like us. Wtf did I do in my previous life to deserve this wretched existence.
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 8:38:48 PM No.81600753
>>81600713
Seriously though, you already spend 5-6h/day in school, whats the big deal with spending 2 more h pursuing your own interests ?
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 8:39:18 PM No.81600757
Imagine being this guy.
You could tell every girl you meet "I don't do monogamy. That's for fags." and they won't care. They will gladly be part of your harem. You could have a harem of half a dozen women living with you, paying all the bills, driving you around, cooking for you, and having sex multiple times a day, while you sit inside all day playing videogames.
What's the point of living, if you're not this guy?
You will never experience life, the way it was genuinely meant to be lived- as a King. All you have left to look forward to is just endless work and near-slavery for nothing. (his leftovers don't count, obviously lel)
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 8:40:58 PM No.81600785
>>81600713
Ahahaha i love how an addendum must be made because self improvement has nothing to do with social nor sexual circumstances.
"you need to self improve and go grind at the gym and learn guitar and mandarin.... But also you need to have a friend group that accepts you for who you are and supports you" no shit nigger. But most normies don't have hobbies, never learned to play an instrument, have never been in a gym, yet they have feiends and girlfriends. How? Almost like the two have nothing to do with each other and you can still be a friendless virgin incel while being a wizard on keyboards and doing muay thai and shit.
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 8:45:17 PM No.81600826
>>81600785
why do you want to be like a normie who no one has any expectations for? being expected to show up and nothing else is pretty sad
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 8:47:28 PM No.81600843
>>81600785
Calm down. Most normies were born with more luck. A lot of us come from low-income---often fucked up---families.
Yet, there are countless examples of people who grew up in shitty circumstances and made it. Those are the ones with the truly good genes.
Nature is cruel. Yet it is pointless to dwell on your sadness when you have insane potential in your hands. If you find yourself having a desire for greatness (which most of us have) you should pursue it.
It's not about women, it's about honor, about dignity.
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 8:54:20 PM No.81600918
>>81600826
Better than being able to play van halen solos to my mom and dad alone in my room and being a friendless loser virgin. Heads up: it doesn't matter how good you are at guitar if you have no social capital. I remember the one single time i was invited to a class party when i was in high school. There was an out of tune acoustic guitar there and the chad guy was strumming 2 open chords over and over and there were 5 chicks around him. I walked up and said if i could try plaving. Then i knocked out a basically perfect part of tommy emmanuel's classical gas rendition that i spent months perfecting every day. The response from the girls? "can you go somewhere else, we are talking to Chad". The chad started a shitty ass band with 2 other chadlites from class. They absolutely sucked ass, and everyone knew i was a way better musician than them (classically trained violinist, learned guitar as a hobby) but because i was a bullied loser nobody cared. People don't care whether you are good at something. I mean i am very musically accomplished, won awards at competitions, now i'm in a very good symphonic choir and we often tour around the world, but i am still a khhv loser with 0 close friends
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 9:06:49 PM No.81601062
>>81599377
You clearly never talked to a women if you think most if not all have one preference being your homosexual depiction of the ideal male
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 9:11:35 PM No.81601121
>>81601062
find me a single woman that finds short men or men with small dicks attractive
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 9:13:07 PM No.81601135
>>81600918
I knew a girl like that. Finished HS at 16, no idea what to do and ending fucking up everything, fucking like 60-70 guys until age 27 and developing bpd ( to be fair she got an offer for a phd).
I am quite sure that if she thought rationnally and thought for herself she could have landed up a respectable guy who would treat her well.
I already said this before, it's also about marketing your skills.
I guess it requires some luck after all because you need a brain to be able to market yourself.
I guess my point is there are to diminishing returns to maxxing every skill.
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 9:15:01 PM No.81601153
>>81600918
>but i am still a khhv loser with 0 close friends
i'll be your friend as long as you stfu about your personal life
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 9:15:37 PM No.81601165
>>81598604
We males really have this awful mentality of work, if only we worked hard enough on it maybe it will change for the better(all it takes is disciplin!). Reality is looks are determined by genetics.
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 9:25:43 PM No.81601265
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>>81601121
If women didn't like small penises then articles like these wouldn't exist

>https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/a19910180/short-guys-are-hot/
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 9:26:19 PM No.81601274
>>81601165
Oh anon, there's something more than genetics to being the social elite.
It's not about being virtuous. It's about attaining results through virtues.
But serve yourself, die with as little honor as you can possibly die with.
If you believe that hard work wont change anything, you must be missing a leg or something, I feel really bad for you.
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 10:19:33 PM No.81601872
>>81597360 (OP)
Good for him I hope he takes advantage of his looks
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 10:21:54 PM No.81601903
>>81598616
Men like all kinds of women, but women only like one type of man. If you aren't exceptionally tall with a huge jaw, squinty eyes, and chiseled angular features, women don't want you. They only want chad.
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Anonymous
6/25/2025, 12:00:01 AM No.81603086
>>81601265
Kek. Oh, wow. Phenomenal rebuttal, Anon. Woah, you sure got his ass. Can't wait to see what based moid robot lonely loser incel virgin has to say in response. Ma Nigga. Yo.
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 1:18:57 AM No.81603923
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>>81600191
>it hurt seeing the girls interested in me just because of my looks.
>I still can't believe
Yeah, I still can't believe it either, probably because it's totally made up bullshit. You washed your hair and instantly became giga-chad? But the next day you went back to being disgusting because "Boo hoo, girls are so superficial! How dare they insist on basic hygiene? Why can't they love me for being me, a smelly unwashed slob with greasy hair?"

Fuck off outta here with your stupid larp.
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 1:19:32 AM No.81603929
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>>81597360 (OP)
Since this is kinda related here I'll tell some basic observations I've seen of the blackpill.

So, despite using 4chan I do in fact work, I work in a shitty factory job that most people would leave after working there for a few months or a year or whatever right, as you would do in a boring factory job. There is a variety of different ages that work there etc and it's quite diverse as well.
Now getting to the substance of this post, there is a quite a variety when is comes to the attractiveness between different people there. I just want to point out 2 for now.
The first is a literal chad, young man 21, he told me he used to do modelling actually, chiselled face with excellent proportions with strong cheekbones, tall and as you can imagine, he has a gf.
The second is a definite sub5 male, he's short, bald, his facial proportions aren't good, he has asbergers, he's generally unattractive and he's 30, never had a gf be cause he's "not ready".
And also, young chad is leaving next week, bald sub5 has implied he will be working there for a while, in the same shitty repetitive hell. Nature is fucking brutal man
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 1:20:14 AM No.81603936
>>81597360 (OP)
He's not a Chad, he's a Sebastian (a posh, possibly British Chad)
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 1:22:12 AM No.81603957
>>81597360 (OP)
Lol any guy tall and slender with a slightly above average face is chad. He also looks self absorbed as fuck, but of course blackpill incels will worship the ground he walks on anyway while complaining about roasties doing the same
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 1:32:53 AM No.81604077
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>>81600918
>Then i knocked out a basically perfect part of tommy emmanuel's classical gas rendition
>The response from the girls? "can you go somewhere else, we are talking to Chad".

Yeah, this never happened. If you can play guitar that well, people will be impressed even if they don't want to fuck you. Why do you make up these goofy stories? All they do is prove that you've never been outside and have no idea how humans interact. I suppose you do it just to support your lame blackpill fantasies about Chad.

If you're really a guitar virtuoso like you claim to be, join a fucking band. If you play a live show in front of any sort of audience you'll have girls offering to fuck you unless you literally look like the fucking Elephant Man.
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Anonymous
6/25/2025, 1:36:17 AM No.81604117
>>81604077
>If you can play guitar that well, people will be impressed even if they don't want to fuck you
Then they're not really all that impressed.
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Anonymous
6/25/2025, 1:40:35 AM No.81604160
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>>81601903
>If you aren't exceptionally tall with a huge jaw, squinty eyes, and chiseled angular features, women don't want you.
For fuck's sake, turn off your computer and go outside right now. In the real world you will be shocked to discover that there are guys who don't look like tall supermodels and yet somehow managed to get girlfriends. Many of these guys even managed to get married and have children.
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Anonymous
6/25/2025, 1:44:59 AM No.81604218
>>81604117
>Then they're not really all that impressed.
They weren't impressed because, as I said, that never happened. In fact the guy who posted that sob story has probably only ever played Guitar Hero on his ten year old Wii, and doesn't realize that real guitars have strings on them.
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 2:38:20 AM No.81604766
>>81604160
Not him, but allow me to articulate and explain a bit further
I don't deny that average looking guys can get a girlfriend or get married
Thats the whole idea of the alpha fucks/beta bucks coined phrase
Some schlubby guy can get married, but he is not the guy his wife thinks of when she thinks of a handsome guy
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Anonymous
6/25/2025, 3:28:57 AM No.81605176
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>>81604766
>I don't deny that average looking guys can get a girlfriend or get married
So what are we even talking about here?

>Thats the whole idea of the alpha fucks/beta bucks coined phrase
That's a stupid phrase, and you just refuted it in your previous sentence. The so-called "beta" fucks too, gets married and has kids. And no, not every "Non-Chad" is marrying a single mom and raising "Chads" kids.

>Some schlubby guy can get married, but he is not the guy his wife thinks of when she thinks of a handsome guy
Incels here are always saying "Any foid can get a man any time she wants". Isn't this the same thing? A guy might fall in love with a chubby girl, or a plain jane, and she's not the girl he thinks of when he thinks of a hot girl. So what?

All this blackpill crap of "Women only want Chad" is just a whiny cop-out repeated by bitter losers who sit in their mom's basement and then decide they hate women because a tradwife doesn't drop out of the sky and land in their lap as they sit in their gaming chair. It's a defeatist mindset that should be stamped out.
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 3:45:23 AM No.81605335
>>81598332
Whatever helps you sleep at night. Just know that women are just as or even more visual than guys, they just don't care for the average guy. But when there's one that's objectively exceptionally attractive, they'll be all over him.

>>81601062
Don't listen what they say, watch how they act.
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Anonymous
6/25/2025, 3:55:13 AM No.81605407
>>81604160
>In the real world you will be shocked to discover that there are guys who don't look like tall supermodels and yet somehow managed to get girlfriends.
It's funny how often this is suggested and how it refutes the point gaslighters try to make. I go outside, and in the majority of the young couples (I'd honestly say 70%+), the guy is notably taller than the average young male here and is handsome in the face. You'll also notice how clingy the girls who've bagged an exceptionally tall and handsome guy are. Looks and height are everything for men, that's the only way to get true desire.
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 4:56:13 AM No.81605969
>>81605335
Women don't care at all about looks, it's easy to see by watching literally any couple outside
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 4:58:21 AM No.81605988
when being white is the only requirement to teach English in Japan_thumb.jpg
>>81597360 (OP)
>be white
>"teach" English in an Asian country
Better get on it before AI takes that over.