>>81611207
I will put it to you this way. Have you ever been stabbed by someone claiming self defense?
If not, then you are better than me. The only reason why I escaped prison was because it was over a misunderstanding and the charges were dropped. I had a skin graft for that area, but I had to pay for it myself. The person who stabbed me was fined for an illegal concealed weapon, though (knife over 3.5" without CCW permit).
Additionally, a gang tried attacking me five years ago when I was visiting Chicago (I was visiting my cousin who moved there from Minsk). I thought that sort of thing only happened in films (it was literally like a scene out of the second Brother film, which I assume that you have seen). Again, I was almost sent to jail because I shot them in self defense and Illinois is a very hard state to argue for self defense, but a local business owner helped testify on my behalf.
Women do not prefer men who resort to violence unless they are "bad guys", in other words, the gangsters can get girlfriends as do the victims who get sent to the hospital (and live), but where does that leave me.