Today, I passed by my old humanities college for nostalgia. I saw three girls talking and asked if exams were done so I could visit my old classmates. Turns out they were S2, not S4, and had already finished. They asked about me, so I introduced myself and shared my experience last year, eventually they found out how I passed all my exams on the first try without retakes. They were impressed, which was flattering.
One of the girls had told me her name earlier, but I'd forgotten. She asked me about it few moments later, I apologized because that was my mistake. We kept talking about my study methods and coursework.
Soon her friends noticed our conversation and joined us, forming a small circle around me. Then she surprised me by offering her phone number, saying she wanted to stay in touch for advice and to discuss course material, since she liked how I explained things.
I cautioned her about giving out her number so freely, explaining from experience that in-person discussions with classmates are more productive than online chats that eventually go cold. But she insisted I'd promised to share my number with them, though I only remember saying I was happy to talk right then since I didn't have anything better to do.

In conclusion, when talking to women do we actually engage in the same conversation because it felt like she was under the wrong impression and heard things that I didn't say.

Friends, I would honestly appreciate your inputs on this subject, it's kinda bothering me and I don't really like that.

>>81610546
>>81610422 (OP)
fuck off normie kill yourself

>>81610546
what are your stats? i'm not gonna hit you with BP stuff after just curious.
And yes words mean different things for women entirely they live in a totally different world.
one occasion there was this girl with a subaru painted with anime girls me and a friend were talking about how we loved the anime in question.
She then proceeded to call us out for insulting her car
i could expand deeper on this but i don't want to type it out.

>>81610422 (OP)
she could have her own motivations and be responding based on those, moving the conversation to fit that.

like for example getting your number so she can ask for help or answers etc., she wants an easy resource to tap instead of learning maybe. or maybe she likes you, idk.

its also possible you put out and miss nonverbal cues, so theres that too. I assume you are autistic.

>>81610422 (OP)
She wanted the D and you were supposed to pick up on that and ask her out on a date, at least over the phone.
Note that her wanting the D doesn't mean you have to give it to her, just that it was what she was thinking about, not courses or studying. Alternatively she might've wanted to have a fallback contact for asking about shit but this is unlikely since college girls usually have a hundred contacts for everything already.

>>81610832
>what are your stats? i'm not gonna hit you with BP stuff after just curious.
My Anaxa stats or dating stats? If it's the latter then none.
And maybe your car girl was the same because I have a pretty good memory and I most definitely certain that I didn't suggest my phone number, hell I memorized my parents and sister numbers while not even knowing mine.
>>81610840
Could be and it's expected from people in general to be opportunists not just women, but the way she put words in my mouth was off-putting especially when I was in that situation surrounded by girls that I don't even know, it really made me feel bad because the rest probably think I'm a creep or a liar.

>>81610895
no like height, race, weight etc
depending on these she had some form of ulterior motive.
all women are essentially the same for the most part and want the same things in life

>>81610883
To be frank I usually ignore these sorts of things but the eye contact and legs direction memes were applied in my encounter, but nonetheless I was glad to help some people out because I too wished for someone to answer my questions when I was in their shoes.
Although after telling them everything that I could she bailed out by swaying that she was hungry and I said goodbye and wished them luck next year, and that was it.

>>81610422 (OP)
Assuming this isn't fake and gay bait, these bitches are obviously attracted to you and are using schoolwork as an excuse to reach out

>>81610907
>5.6
> middle eastern
>50 kg
>Have a baby face if you ignored my upper mustache
These are everything noticeable about me.

>>81610983
hmmm, yeah she definitely needed like an orbiter or something as well as help with her school work.
She saw you as weak-willed and decided to take advantage.
How do you do that thing where you completely black out the text? thx

>>81611011
Yeah, but I wasn't really expecting that anyways, my main issue was the confusion and how she believed I said something that wasn't true.
For the spoilers do pic rel

>>81611041
like this orig?
she was just trying to mind game you pretty much.
my mom tries to do this to me all the time along with numerous other women it's fine just don't fall for it and stick to your principles

Well anyways, thank you anons for your time, I appreciate your help and thoughts.
Hope you have a wonderful day, week and upcoming month.

>>81611079
Noted, at least I didn't crack and didn't lie to save face, thanks again anon, and yeah you got it right.

>>81610422 (OP)
your cold approach showed confidence
you apologizing showed politeness
your ability to maintain the interaction meant you have decent social skills
you getting her number meant she found you attractive

in your head you probably thought you weren't really trying to flirt, but thats the best way to do it actually - like being non-chalant about it, neither rushing nor dragging
don't think too much about it, OP
you've got someone's number so just go with the flow

>>81611120
Maybe I didn't make myself clear but I actually rejected her number, and advised her to be more cautious with it for some reason.
Maybe just knowing that I could is kinda comforting but with all things considered I barely can handle my acquaintances so I don't think I'm physically or mentally interested in a relationship with someone at least for the moment.

>>81610546
She was flirting with you.
For psychological reasons, girls dislike making the first move, so when they do make the first move (like asking for your number) they always come up with some false pretense for why they want it. In this case, she said it was for "advise and coursework help" but the truth is she was into you and wanted to get to know you more. Girls just never say it directly because it is expected that the man makes the first move, so it's shameful for a girl to be so direct. Makes sense?
By refusing to give her your number after she made several desperate attempts (asking directly, then insisting you promised earlier, etc), she assumed you had no interest and rejected her. She has no idea you were clueless to her intentions.
If you want some general advice, don't have such an autistic stick up your ass about things like this. Just because you only wanted to talk in the moment doesn't mean you can't go with the flow and accept the spontaneous opportunities life throws at you. Next time, take her number if she's cute, and when you start texting her suggest you meet up for coffee to talk more. That's called a date. Do that a few times and you have a girlfriend.
If you you didn't find her cute, then no harm done.

>>81611143
>rejected her
king shit
folks always say beggars can't be choosers but it seems like you're not a beggar, good on you anon

She is correct, it's better to have her number so you can chat with her and agree to meet up whenever convenient. Your cautioning about that was retarded