Thread 81617543

>you befriend or at least get close enough to a girl/guy that you get to know each other
>you keep talking regularly
>you start hanging out
>at some point if you are attractive enough and think they has shown signs of interest in you one of you asks the other out on a date
>or one of you confess your feelings for the other
>or maybe one of you tries to kiss the other and hope it doesn't result in a rejection
>if things go right you ask if they want to be your gf/bf
>now you are in a relationship
Am I right? Never had a gf.

That happens in the Chinese cartoons, in real life you become an orbiter and get rejected when you make a move. After that, you stop associating with her if you have any desire to keep your dignity

>>81617543 (OP)
yes, this is probably the best and most organic way to get a gf/bf. nowadays this is pretty much impossible outside of school though and you have to do it artificially through dating apps. that's why i prefer to find a girl online, befriend them, play games with them and then meet up irl.

>>81617543 (OP)
a variety of ways from direct and immediate romantic intent, to developing from a different kind of relationship. not so much about any specific procedure, and more just showing up and going for things.

>>81617562
faggot

>>81617581
doing it in spaces you are confident in can make you more outgoing and attractive yeah. can be good to be less in a slow comfort zone though.

yeah, you spend time together until it feels right to move things forward.

I just want to cry knowing this has never happened and will never happen to me. Thanks Islam

>>81617543 (OP)
Wait, so you befriend a woman in order to get to know them better and eventually ask them out if you're compatible?
Be careful or you'll summon the
>why'd he have to ruin our friendship by asking me out?
spammer. I'm not interested in seeing those shitty femwojaks every time I open the catalog.

>>81617543 (OP)
when i'm interested in a guy, i always befriend them first. once i'm sure they'd be comfortable with me flirting, i shoot my shot. usually, i get rejected, or the relationship lasts a month HAHAHAHAHA

>>81617543 (OP)
>at some point if you are attractive enough and think they has shown signs of interest in you one of you asks the other out on a date
>>or one of you confess your feelings for the other
>>or maybe one of you tries to kiss the other and hope it doesn't result in a rejection
No.
Unironically, this is how you get friendzoned.
State your intentions early on. And move on if she's not interested.
This idea of starting out as friends and after years of really good friendship both realizing that they actually love each other is just retarded.
Don't get me wrong, I love romantic and corny shit. I'm cringe as fuck.
But most people don't fall in love like that. You instantly know, it's slimy to try to be her friend in hopes of becoming her bf. Just tell her you love her and see where it goes.

>>81617562
Based Friend Zone avoider.

>>81617543 (OP)
As a male-cel I'll never know.
Supposedly, a woman has to orbit the guy until he gets the hint. Basically they do all the work.
This is how I know that it was so over that it never began. Even if women stare at me, they never speak to me. Nothing I can do with that.
Though I somehow get some likes and matches, almost none of them ever carried a convo, or showed willing, and none fucked me.
The few women who claimed to be DTF all ghosted me, or were basically fucking homeless and expected me to fuck outdoors. FML.

>>81619499
Foolish of you, anon