Thread 81620048

what do you do when everything you try turns out to be the wrong choice?

>>81620048 (OP)
this was exactly how it felt for me so i just gave up

>>81620048 (OP)
How much trying is this exactly?

Stop making choices. But since I don't like other people choosing for me either I prefer to do nothing.

>>81620048 (OP)
Watch this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Y_6fZGSOQI

>>81620055
i was thinking i should too. but i cant.
>>81620076
a lot. i tried a lot. i tried to do things i wouldnt have done normally, i tried to follow other people's advice, i tried to do what i thought was right, but every single time things just got worse.
>>81620078
in any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.
>>81620233
thanks it made me laugh. i guess maybe i should also start doing the opposite, although, what im doing right now, is already the opposite of what i was doing before...

I look at the reasons a selection of those choices turned out to be wrong. If there's something I did or didn't do, some pattern behind it, what I should've done and how I might have known that. Sit down, list a few cases and for each go into the detail of what the decision was, when and how it was taken, how much the outcome was due to the decision, etc. All the questions you can think to ask.

Do that with 4 or 5 decisions and a pattern will probably emerge.

>>81620048 (OP)
Continue. I had many times in my life where people said "that's wrong" and "don't do that". And guess what? I was correct. Fuck normalfags. All they do is prey on you and drag you down to their mediocrity.

>>81620587
i dont think something like this might work for me. my decisions are not taken after a reason other than "its what i should do".
i also more often than not take decisions impulsively, because my brain takes over my reason.
>All the questions you can think to ask
whenever i ask myself questions all the answers i get are insults towards my own being.
>>81620687
i cannot in good faith continue to do whatever i feel like its right. its going to hurt other people i care about and i dont want it to happen. i cant keep running away and avoiding choices even though thats what i want to do