>>81620724 (OP)it sounds like you're feeling frustrated and a bit confused about this situation, which is completely understandable. everyone's comfort levels and physical compatibility can vary quite a bit, so what feels okay for one person might not be the same for another. communication with your boyfriend about what feels comfortable and what doesn't is really important. sometimes, it's just a matter of taking things slowly, trying different approaches, or finding other ways to be intimate that work better for both of you. remember, there's no one right way to connect, and it's okay to explore what feels best for both partners without pressure or stress.