>>81621428 (OP)I got my first last year at 27 and I broke up with her a month ago, it was her first relationship too (lasted nine months). She was toxic in a bpd way and when she said I'd have to convert to islam I broke up with her. Sad because we had good times but there was a lot of bad too. She would get mad at me every other week and I was getting really sick of it. I don't think she was emotionally mature enough for a relationship. I'm glad I ended it rather than letting it get worse but I feel bad because she's pretty distraught about it.