Porn is ruining my life - /r9k/ (#81621813) [Archived: 939 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/26/2025, 4:13:52 PM No.81621813
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>be me
>has girlfriend
>Still watches porn though
>Girlfriend slowly hates me more and more
>Stops watching
>She still hates my guts

I think its over guys, do you guys have any advice?
Replies: >>81621827 >>81621841 >>81621853 >>81622448
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 4:15:04 PM No.81621827
>>81621813 (OP)
How does watching porn affect your gf?
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Anonymous
6/26/2025, 4:16:06 PM No.81621837
if the result is the same you should just watch more porn.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 4:16:36 PM No.81621841
>>81621813 (OP)
my advice: find girl who likes porn
Replies: >>81621878
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 4:17:18 PM No.81621850
>has a gf
>doesnt fuck his gf
I hate you niggers so much
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 4:17:53 PM No.81621853
>>81621813 (OP)
Honestly you have a drug addiction and it is causing melancholy. I understand your pain.
You will need to quit pornography it's the same as doing crack cocaine and will always ruin your relationships.

Embrace the Light of the Most High. Replace all your porn watching with Bible Reading. Maybe your girlfriend isn't your person, not your wife.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 4:18:35 PM No.81621860
>>81621827
She gets jealous when I watch porn, which I get
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 4:20:41 PM No.81621878
>>81621841
Been together for 6 years, plus I love her
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Anonymous
6/26/2025, 4:21:06 PM No.81621885
Then it's not about porn?
Replies: >>81621904
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 4:22:38 PM No.81621899
>>81621878
Then it isn't your girlfriend it's your wife and you need to quit the porn and man up faggot
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 4:23:14 PM No.81621904
>>81621885
It is, doesnt help that ive said I would stop multiple times and still didnt. Now Ive stopped but trust has been destroyed. its all my fault
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 4:25:48 PM No.81621926
>>81621878
Sounds like she hates you thouhj
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Anonymous
6/26/2025, 4:27:13 PM No.81621939
>>81621926
She just might, Ive given her every right too. Just dont know if this is truly the end
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 4:36:57 PM No.81622032
Is your girlfriend unattractive or something
as an incel ive never understood why you would jerk off to porn if you have an attractive gf who puts out
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Anonymous
6/26/2025, 4:38:19 PM No.81622041
>>81622032
She is attractive, great ass too. Im just a pathetic loser
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Anonymous
6/26/2025, 4:48:00 PM No.81622115
>>81622041
Relationships are not about sex and attraction. Relationships are about having mutual respect and building a family.
You are not respecting her when you watch porn, she is not respecting you when you call yourself pathetic.
Get over your self apathy and repent faggot
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 4:51:31 PM No.81622146
>>81621878
>I love her
>Meanwhile I'm gonna waste my seed for other women
You are a disgusting faggot homosexual and she should have left your ass 6 years ago.
Grow up.
Put down the Porn.
Find the Lord Most High.
Repent of your Wicked ways.
Or else your relationship will fail.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 5:26:53 PM No.81622448
>>81621813 (OP)
what the fuck is wrong with you?
quit porn and dedicate the time to her?
and if you wont why are you conplaining about it on here?
>any advice
what the fuck do you want to hear huh? you know the solution to your problem. there is no advice to be given.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 5:45:37 PM No.81622609
Her growing to hate you is actually a very common thing. Women are incapable of love. They feel butterflies for the first couple months, but then you're basically an iphone x. Old news, and Becky got an iphone x+1 and Stacy has the iphone x+2. It's time to upgrade to something new and exciting.
Birth control is a major cause of this social phenomenon. It is difficult to find a woman who has never used the drugs, but if you find one cherish her. And whatever you do, never let her get on hormonal contraceptives. Abstain, marry and embrace having eight kids born ten months apart from each other, only fuck her mouth and butt, or get her a diaphragm. Anything bur hormonal contraceptives. The pills contain demon DNA that augment and amplify her hatred neural pathways. It literally makes women evil. And you already know they were never all that benevolent to begin with.
Unfortunately you may have to reroll. Women don't hate men for a reason. Rather, they hate men and then start looking for reasons to justify their hate. It is possible to turn things around, but she's already shown her capacity for hate. Most likely she is not worth the effort since it involves breaking her mind and a rewiring of her brain. Weigh this cost carefully against the cost(time, difficulty, whatever) of getting a better gf. Consider this a practice run.
But one last thing. Don't just dump her. You've already written her off but she's not fully depreciated. At least try to recoup some costs. This is an ideal time to experiment. Be more forceful, pressure her for whatever sexual perversions you like, be selfish, yell at her to clean the house, lose weight, cook. Give in to your desires more; go fishing on the weekend without telling her, stop by the gym before work, drop a few hundred dollars on that new tool or top you wanted. What's the worst that can happen? She dumps you? Until she dumps you just do your own thing. Buy her some flowers sometime just for fun. She won't know what to think.