I went from loser to chad, and all of you stupid fucking faggots that live an idealized dream of a relationship have no fucking idea how much "work" or misery is involved. I will make a fucking metaphor so your virgin ass can understand.

>The feeling of misery you experience because you are a lonely virgin
is no fucking different than when things go sour (and they fucking will) with your 10/10 mommy figure, idealized perfect girlfriend.

you are a fucking retard for thinking sex will change your life, sex with a hot bitch, or a relationship with your "perfect woman"

you are fucking stupid for having such a weak rational center, that your allow though driven by unmet biological needs determine your perspective on life.

>>81625267 (OP)


what fucking need in life is stop fucking relying on other people to make your life worth fucking living.

I thought the same as you. If I have the popular girl, or the girl that everyone wants, I will be fucking happy, and I will never experience a touch of suffering every again in my life and my fucking god are you wrong. What you dont fucking understand is that these people that you pursue, are the same as you, with different personalities and bodies. they experience the same feelings as you, you just have a set of charatistics that seperates them from you based on social heigharchy. and becasue youre retard brain has been conditioned by evolution to want what you cannot have, you suffer.

its not that fucking great. Physically, its not that different than fucking a fleshlight.

Its not different than not being able to afford certain things.

you experience the same emotions, which are the only thing that gives any weight to anything.

Having "made it", I can tell you right now, that every popular, or "perfect" woman you want, will become spiteful when you do not accept their boundary violating, repulsive behaviours that shit all over the most basic principles.

>>81625290
I HAVE LIVED the life you want and honestly its horrible, filled with suffering and terrible things. you are deluded and too touch starved to understand why. there is no "making it" we all suffer together.

>>81625315

contentness is the only place you can find peace

>>81625267 (OP)
I have no idea what you are saying. We need to lower our standards? If we stop caring this will somehow magically give us the 10000 hours of socializing and social skills with our peers we should have had as teenagers?

All you r*Dditors say the same thing "YO DUDE YOUR'E A FUCKIN PUSSY YOU ARE SO LE BAD YOU ARE INSECURE ENTITLED ABLOO BLOO BLOO" and it never makes any sense, you never have any real tangible advice. You could have said something like "I was a nerd like you, but I joined the anime club and found there were many girls, and I didn't hit on them I just talked and I go to know what to say and what not to say until one expressed interest in me, she was a fat girl but that wasn't a big deal so we went on a date and..", instead it is this kafkaesque meaningless garble, and it is always the same thing.

It all simply corroborates the blackest black pills here, that society really is fucked up and there is no place for us. Certainly we should "put more effort in", but not in the way you think, not trying to impress the usual judgmental materialistic artificial n*rmies. We have to put more effort into breaking the rules and gaming the system, not conforming, which at best will give us the subnormy life.

>>81625267 (OP)
>Be overweight for most of my life
I was always comfortable in my own skin
>One day decide to start working out as something fun to do with friends
>Lose weight and get some muscle
>People treat me better than before

Self-Improvement is the biggest black pill there is, because its true evidence that nobody will really ever love you. As long as I keep up this facade, I will know that every relationship I make from here on out will be completely fake and built on lies.

If I were to get a GF at some point, which seems more possible now, I will forever know that she doesn't love me and would never look at me if I was my true self.

I was born to be hated, born unloveable, self improvement and working hard is a complete joke meant to torture those who were born broken.

>>81625695
you are a retard and not worth engaging with unless you take the time to understand my post. Maybe youre just coping with the realization that there is not a whole that you can do beyond rise above your instinctual desires but whatever. pussy is pussy.