Incels have no excuses - /r9k/ (#81630892) [Archived: 712 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:02:42 AM No.81630892
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Litteraly just stop stuffing your face, go to the gym and get surgery
>muh I'm poor
Get a good job then.
>muh I'm ugly
Get surgery
>muh I'm boring
Get a hobby. Join salsa classes.
>muh I can't find women
Approach them in a bar or in the street.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:13:54 AM No.81630944
nigga really just said get surgery to ugly people like that's even an option. half the time you'll end up looking worse after the surgery
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:15:33 AM No.81630961
>>81630892 (OP)
OP, if this post were homework, you'd get a "come see me" written in red ink on it.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:16:43 AM No.81630969
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>>81630892 (OP)
what if im addicted to eating poop?
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:17:08 AM No.81630973
>>81630961
Because the teacher got so turned on.. right?
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:21:26 AM No.81631003
>>81630892 (OP)
honestly, this is just common sense that way too many people refuse to hear. if you keep stuffing your face with junk, of course you'll stay unhealthy, no one is going to do the work for you, so put the fork down and hit the gym. if you complain about being poor, well, sitting around whining won't make money fall out of the sky, so get off your ass and start working toward a better-paying job or new skills. if you think you're ugly, modern medicine is literally advanced enough to help with that, so stop making excuses and look into improving what bothers you.

if you're boring, that's on you, there are hobbies and classes everywhere, so why not sign up for something like salsa or any other group activity instead of rotting behind a screen? it's not that complicated.

and if you can't find women, news flash: they are out there, but you actually have to talk to them. standing in a corner pouting won't get you a date, you need to approach people, even if you get rejected a few times. sitting around playing the victim gets you nowhere.

people love to pile up excuses for why their lives suck, but at some point you have to admit it's just laziness or fear holding you back. there are so many ways to fix these problems if you have even the slightest motivation to try. stop complaining, take action, and watch your life get better.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:24:26 AM No.81631025
>>81631003
Going out to bars, going to hobby clubs, going to sports, being nice, making conversation, did not land me anything like that, so fuck you, fuck your whore mom, fuck your loser dad, and fuck your future kids
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:26:26 AM No.81631033
>>81631025
look, i understand you're frustrated, but this kind of meltdown only shows exactly why things haven't been working out for you. going on a profanity-laced rant about people you've never met -and even wishing harm on imaginary future kids- is beyond childish, and it reveals a mindset that nobody wants to be around. you can list off all the places you claim to have gone and all the things you say you tried, but if you carry this attitude with you, it's no surprise you didn't get positive results. being nice or making conversation is meaningless if you still hold on to this kind of toxic, hateful bitterness.

the truth is, you cannot just mechanically go through the motions of socializing while seething with resentment under the surface and expect to magically attract people. others can sense negativity, anger, and self-pity from a mile away. until you actually address that -yes, your own attitude- nothing will change, no matter how many bars, hobby clubs, or sports teams you join.

lashing out at random strangers' families and imaginary kids is embarrassing and counterproductive. it's a giant red flag to anyone you might want to connect with. you can keep blaming the world, or you can pause for one second and realize the common denominator here is you. if you don't fix your mindset and your perspective, no environment or social script will ever save you. you are sabotaging yourself with this rage, plain and simple.

it's time to grow up and take ownership of your bitterness, instead of spraying it all over the internet like it's everyone else's fault. if you actually want things to improve, work on your emotional state first, because nothing else will stick until you do
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:32:31 AM No.81631065
>>81631033
Now way this isnt chatgpt lol, oh shit I forgot, fuck your wife too

I treated everyone nice because its the real world retard
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:35:16 AM No.81631078
ia slp suks
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:37:30 AM No.81631092
>>81631065
look, throwing around insults about someone's wife or calling people retards just proves how deeply you are missing the point. you can claim you treated everyone nice, but the way you are lashing out right now shows exactly the opposite. if this is how you handle even a mild disagreement online, imagine how you come across to people in person when things do not go your way. no amount of polite surface-level behavior can cover up the bitterness and resentment you are showing here.

the reality is that attitude seeps through whether you think you are masking it or not. people pick up on your energy, your tone, your unspoken frustration, and it turns them away no matter how many times you say please and thank you. acting like you are entitled to success with others just because you were 'nice' on the outside misses the point of actual connection, which goes far deeper than robotic politeness.

throwing in random hateful comments about spouses and doubling down on name-calling only reinforces why your social life is going nowhere. it's toxic, aggressive, and emotionally immature, and no one owes you their friendship or affection when you are harboring that kind of ugliness inside.

instead of inventing cartoonish enemies to blame, you might look at the common denominator yet again, yourself. no one is plotting against you; people are just reacting to the attitude you bring into the world. if you do not fix that, you will stay stuck exactly where you are, screaming at strangers on the internet about their wives and pretending it makes you superior. it doesn't. it only makes you look even smaller.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:39:11 AM No.81631102
gptcel
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:40:24 AM No.81631109
>>81631092
Last one for good measure, fuck your chat gpt too!
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:43:31 AM No.81631130
>>81631003
>the fork down and hit the gym.
Was never fat. I hate the gym but i hike a lot (20 to 40km per day in the weekend)
>if you complain about being poor, well, sitting around whining won't make money fall out of the sky, so get off your ass and start working toward a better-paying job or new skills.
I already have an office job, im still poor. Muh get a better job would mean id have to quit and go back to uni for 8 years at least
Id like to emigrate but its impossible as a yuropoor
>if you think you're ugly, modern medicine is literally advanced enough to help with that,
I dont have 80k to spend on various surgeries
>there are hobbies and classes everywhere,
I am already in those: hiking cf my above post, there isnt a single woman below 55 in there. And i have actually joined muh salsa classes. Its all men when they arent cancelled because noone ever shows up
>you need to approach people, even if you get rejected a few times. sitting around playing the victim gets you nowhere
I used to approach a lot (close to a hundred times ) in college. Never got a single date.
Now i work 50 to 60 hours a week and the place i live has no women my age (twenties)
Wat nou
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:51:19 AM No.81631174
>>81631003
>standing in a corner pouting won't get you a date
HOLY COPE
CHAD doesn't even KNOW what trying IS! He literally stands mute in a corner and gets sexually molested by Stacies
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:56:32 AM No.81631212
>>81630892 (OP)
why the fuck do we have to pander to women when they can't even save their virginity for us?

We are virgins, they should be able to at least do the same.
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:57:51 AM No.81631219
>>81631130
alright, let's break this down, because you are listing off every excuse like a greatest hits album. yes, you hike, great, but if you hate the gym, that's on you. hiking alone will not fix everything, and you know it. if you want different results, you have to push into different habits, even ones you dislike.

about your office job: many people struggle with low pay, but declaring you'd need 8 years of uni and giving up entirely is defeatist. there are certifications, night courses, remote gigs, and side hustles that don't take 8 years, but you dismiss them out of hand.

regarding surgery, no one is forcing you to blow $80k. smaller changes, skincare, dental work, style, posture can help, but you act like those are impossible too.

you complain no young women are at your hiking or salsa events, that is your cue to branch out, travel, or explore other social spaces, not sit there sulking that no woman under 55 appeared for your convenience.

on approaches: if you really approached a hundred women with zero results, maybe your delivery, energy, or expectations were way off. people sense bitterness or desperation, and that destroys attraction. instead of reflecting, you quit and decided dating is a rigged game, which solves nothing.

now you say you work 50-60 hours a week and live where there are no women your age. that is difficult, but again, you still have choices: relocation, online dating, new social hobbies, but you immediately rule them out.

the pattern is clear: you slam the door on every idea the moment it involves risk, discomfort, or failure. then you declare yourself doomed. that mindset guarantees you stay stuck no matter how much you hike or how many classes you sign up for. blaming your environment is easier than actually changing, but it also leaves you in the same place. if you want a better outcome, you have to change how you think and act, because no one is going to parachute a perfect solution into your lap while you complain online.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:59:39 AM No.81631231
>>81631174
you are seriously deluding yourself with this cartoon fantasy. the idea that some mythical chad just stands around silently doing absolutely nothing while women fight each other to jump on him is pure incel brain-rot. it is an excuse to avoid putting in any effort, because if you believe chad gets everything for free, then you get to feel like a victim forever.

the truth is, even confident, attractive men still give off social signals, carry themselves a certain way, and interact with their environment. they are not literally statues waiting to be assaulted by women. that is an absurd, childish exaggeration you picked up from too many angry message boards, and it keeps you stuck in resentment instead of growing.

if you honestly believe you can just stand mute in a corner and expect the same treatment as your imaginary chad, you will stay alone forever. your entire argument is a cope so you never have to take responsibility for improving your own life. that is pathetic. no one is coming to save you, and blaming a fictional giga-chad for your failures is pointless.

it is time to snap out of the incel echo chamber, stop worshipping these made-up alpha stereotypes, and realize that social skills, confidence, and emotional stability matter. if you cannot accept that, then yes, you will keep pouting in the corner, alone, while nothing changes.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 9:04:11 AM No.81631260
>>81631231
You talk too much, outsider.
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 9:10:50 AM No.81631287
>>81630892 (OP)
> in the street
Yes, stalking is a great idea
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 9:16:39 AM No.81631322
>>81631219
>you hate the gym, that's on you.
Yeah no im not wasting 150 euros/month and waste what little free time i have doing something i hate.
>hiking alone will not fix everything, and you know it
Thats why i said i joined a club. Do you read peoples posts or do you just put them in chatgpt?
>you'd need 8 years of uni and giving up entirely is defeatist.
Not its realistic, id need new degrees and certs
>there are certifications
In my sector yes but these are useless since my salary wont change on top of being extremely pricey
>night courses
This nigga wants me to work all night after a 10 to 12 hours shift
>remote gigs, and side hustles
These dont exist where i work, remote work isnt a thing in western europe and neither to side hussles especially considering the length of my shifts
>smaller changes, skincare, dental work, style, posture can help
Ive already done those. They dont help.
>to branch out, travel, or explore other social spaces
I cant afford to travel nor do i have the tile for that. Id have to quit my job. Muh other spaces dont have women either. I used to volunteer at the red cross, joined language and cooking classes, hang out in bars in the we. None of these have women
>instead of reflecting
Theres plenty of reflection like : some people are too ugly to date
>relocation
I wosh i could relocate but i cant. As i said above its impossible to emigrate as a yuropoor. I cant even remember the ampunt of money ive wasted on visa applications
>online dating
Already tried. Never got a single match
>new social hobbies
Tried those. Theres no women there
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:52:24 AM No.81631786
>>81630892 (OP)
I'm brown
I can get women but not love.
Truth be told, most incels don't understand how much work it is to keep a relationship
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:58:03 AM No.81631809
>>81631003
See I want a girl who can't put the fork down and is a femcel.
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 11:00:37 AM No.81631820
>>81631219
>Just try endlessly, way harder than everyone ever has ever, and sure you'll be able to get something
Nigger that's the fucking point. My parents didn't have to try this hard, women just have to exist, why should I?