Thread 81657943 - /r9k/ [Archived: 683 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/29/2025, 6:59:37 PM No.81657943
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My gf was a proper normie when we first got together, but she had some loser hobbies, a bit of a 50/50.

Today she fell out with one of her normie friends (typical bleach blonde club slut who works in hair and beauty) because my gf didnt want to go out clubbing last night. Back when she was 18, she used to go out a bit, but she had a good balance of going out and staying in, but since weve been together and as shes got older, she doesnt find as much interest in those things.

I dont want to show it and I feel bad for thinking it but Im actually happy they fell out, I feel like her friend was a bad influence. I know my gf is her own person and all that bs, but shes smart and sweet and I dont like the thought of her going out with people like that.

In this situation, would you express that youre happy, or just pretend to help her move on?
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 7:02:38 PM No.81657967
>>81657943 (OP)
>In this situation, would you express that youre happy, or just pretend to help her move on?
dont tell her youre happy, it will just be a kick in the teeth while shes down, just support her normally and encourage her to do something that will make her happy, like a show of her choice etc
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 7:05:14 PM No.81657986
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>claims he loves his gf
>gets happy when she goes through a sad time
weird way to express feelings
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 7:08:31 PM No.81658013
>>81657943 (OP)
>(typical bleach blonde club slut who works in hair and beauty)
I dont see how that makes the friend a 'bad influence' you just sound insecure
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 7:12:18 PM No.81658045
>>81658013
>doesnt want his gf to go to a club because its full of sluts and chads
>wants her to remain smart and sweet
>is encouraging more wholesome activities
OP isnt insecure, its just a normal relationship
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 7:22:10 PM No.81658143
Dont act happy, youll just make her want to go back to those ways. Instead be supportive and nice to her
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 7:26:40 PM No.81658183
Is she happier like that? You shouldnt stop her from going out if thats what she wants to do, otherwise youll push her away
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 7:29:44 PM No.81658212
>>81658045
lmao incels are so weird

op is an insecure fuck who is happy his gf fell out with a friend because he doesnt want her leaving the house

biggest kind of retard
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 7:35:23 PM No.81658253
>>81657967
Nah OP should be honest and say hes happy, but not in a 'told you so way' in a genuine 'i think this is better for you' way
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 8:10:17 PM No.81658585
You are the bad influence, your gf will regret those years of not going outside like we all do here
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 8:12:22 PM No.81658609
>>81657967
I second this. Just be normally supportive over her losing a friend and don't tell her you are happy about it.
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 8:14:08 PM No.81658622
>>81657943 (OP)
I feel like if your relationship ever comes to an end, she will say YOU made her stop seing her friends. YOU made her depressed, YOU ruined her
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 8:15:51 PM No.81658646
The fact youre happy over her losing a friend is weird, even if this friend wasnt to your taste. You havent stated anything bad the friend has done other than having dyed hair and likes to socialise.

You are in the wrong, get help and stop being insecure
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 8:18:57 PM No.81658682
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weird retard cant control his emotions and wants gf to be miserable like him rather than making friends
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 8:21:51 PM No.81658704
>>81657943 (OP)
>went clubbing more than 0 times
Ya got cucked, son. The good part is its in the past and she doesnt seem interested in it anymoreand is cutting off her parasitic normalnigger friends that would goad her into being extra shitty and destroying her life
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 8:25:12 PM No.81658739
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>ever let his gf "go clubbing"
lol. also most suffering normalfag. most interesting normalfag blogpost.
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 8:26:03 PM No.81658748
>>81658704
this is weird behaviour, i dont see what the friend has genuinley done wrong here

op shouldnt be sad his gf likes to socialise
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 8:28:53 PM No.81658777
>gf is healing, maturing and becoming a better woman
>normiefag friend cant take it
just support her op, she'll realise eventually that its for the best
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 8:30:39 PM No.81658794
>>81658777
OP is probably baiting because he's not responding to anyone, but also his implying that he let his gf go clubbing alone is pure cuckoldry/ragebait.
>>81658748
Exactly. Open your relationship or you're an insecure creep!
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 8:34:58 PM No.81658831
I feel bad for your gf for having such a retarded boyfriend
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 8:52:24 PM No.81659004
>>81657943 (OP)
You could take her to places and go hiking or something together