a few months ago a guy was chatting me online and wanted to meet me irl, and when we did, he ignored me and never reached out to me again
and this happened again with a different man a few days ago. when we met irl he looked at me with disgust and didnt even say hello.
im genuinely so ugly no man is willing to date me or even JUST TALK TO ME irl, its so over.

im also kind of worried because im flying to the other side of the country this november to meet a male online friend who ive been friends with for years. i dont want to lose our friendship because of my ugliness.

>>81666155 (OP)
POST YOUR BMI NOW AND IF ITS ABOVE 27 YOU CLOSE THIS THREAD YOURSELF

>>81666164
im insecure but im working on it dont worry

>>81666155 (OP)
At least you have people from the opposite sex that talk to you.

>>81666224
This foids know nothing about suffering. No girl ever wanted to meet up with me ever. I have always been ghosted. I just want one real chance.

>>81666155 (OP)
If you're just meeting a friend to be friends you shouldn't have to be worry.

>>81666239
Women will never care about men. They aren't capable of caring about anyone but themselves. OP comes to Africa and is complaining about her food being room temp.

I was chatting to a girl that seemed interested in meeting up, started coming up with plans, etc.

Afterwards I looked in the mirror and then tried to cut things off.

>>81666224
how does that make it any better? >>81666239
sorry but have you ever thought that maybe its because of your lack of empathy
>>81666276
yeah youre right
>>81666280
male loneliness epidemic lmao

>>81666304
You have no idea what empathy is. When did you ever do something without something in return. So funny that you are talking about empathy when you can't even feel any for me.

>>81666155 (OP)
>Waaaah no man!
>Chooses chadlite
Below average men and normie men do not exist to you

>>81666304
>>81666323
Society in a nutshell. Both sexes are at a standoff waiting for the other to be emotional vulnerable first. Meanwhile the men who manipulate the game, get to pump and dump women for free.

>>81666323
>So funny that you are talking about empathy when you can't even feel any for me.
I would if you didnt trauma dump under MY thread where I talk about MY feelings and what I(me) exprienced. Youre the one making it about yourself. Youre the one who doesnt have ANY empathy. if you made a thread where YOU talked about YOUR experiences and YOUR feelings, I wouldve empathized with you.
>>81666342
the mem who were meeting up with me were fat and had neckbeards and were short. (5'4) just so you know.

>>81666323
Don't bother they're all the same. I talked to a girl off here who was admittedly ugly. She never showed me her face yet used me for attention for four months and then finally told me she wasn't attracted to how I looked. They're not lonely, they just do not acknowledge average or below average guys as human

>>81666155 (OP)
listen i know you might be insecure but it surely cant be that bad i believe in you anon!!! youre probably not ugly

>>81666351
Okay but you wouldn't take me over them. It doesn't matter what my personality is or if I'd care about you

>>81666351
What do you want out of relationship op and what are your standards

>>81666361
i for sure wouldnt take you over them now that I saw your lack of empathy be so fucking for real with me rn
>>81666387
just want someone who'll appreciate and love me thats all rlly

Weird to see this from the other side. I refuse to meet up with anyone irl because I don't want people to know how ugly I am

>>81666155 (OP)
You got to go out with someone. A sea monkey like me couldn't even get women to talk to me

>why does no one want to be with me? it must be because I am ugly
>ew, get away from me you filthy person that has it worse than me
Classic woman moment.

>>81666400
What? I'm not the empathy guy, I'm>>81666354
>>81666342

If you're not like that I was wrong about you. And everyone wants someone to love op, I would absolutely give you a chance. I'm 5'11, relatively thin, and have like 95% of my hair left
You can add me on discord if you like - zoltan37
Just don't get your hopes too high, we'd have to see if we get along ofc

Just sounds like you intentionally hid how you looked because you knew you weren't attractive and it blew up on you. Then you did that multiple times for some reason (idk, women are fucking stupid, i don't speak foid, if someone here has brain damage maybe translate for us.)

>>81666351
Stfu I made a thread and nobody cared because I am a man. Nobody cares about male suffering. It is my human right to violate your little space because of that.

>>81666155 (OP)
Be honest and send him face shots, full body shots etc. Ask the guy what he likes sexually. Tell him you love to suck cock and will worship his every day with your mouth. Tell him he can have and do whatever he wants as long as he is with you. Obviously long term you will try to migrate him over into the exclusivity zone but if you are struggling to score as a chick then you have to offer something they want and need
Expand your app game. Facebook dating, tinder, PoF, coffee and bagel, hinge, badoo. Hit on every guy you see in real life. Walk right up to them and hand them your number on a piece of paper. Smile and wink. Make the fuck me eyes and stare. Fat chicks can get laid u just have to put in a tiny effort...

>>81666476
>wow, that person didn't like my appearance
>i better hide that so I don't get rejected again
Rinse and repeat to hilarious results.

In their defense, I once spent a year getting to know a girl without ever seeing her picture, only to see she wasn't that attractive to the me at the time. But by that point I was in too deep and brain brain'd me and I became attracted to her. Dated her for like 5 years before she went unstable broke up with me.

>>81666190
lol
thread should've ended here tbqh

>>81666492
You're absolutely right and op doesn't either. Ops just another idiot fishing for her ideal man while playing the woe is me card.

>>81666164
Hahahahahaha
Gottem.

>>81667369
>while playing the woe is me card.
Also don't forget lying about her appearance.

>>81667493
Why do you think that? If anything OPis too hard on herself about how she looks