Thread 81667703

>lurk in various kinky spaces on the internet
>quickly notice a pattern
>people who are extremely sexually submissive tend to hold very high power professional positions irl - doctors, lawyers, engineers, etc
>dominants tend to be total fucking losers - fast food, retail, unemployed, etc
What causes this?

>>81667703 (OP)
>people who are extremely sexually submissive tend to hold very high power professional positions irl
i wish i'm still in university

>>81667731
studying what?

>>81667747
Boring stem stuff

>>81667764
details please! this is a matter of science.

>>81667703 (OP)
>no power irl seeks power in bed and vice versa
?

>>81667774
Master of Science in CS

>>81667703 (OP)
I once met this guy on Fetlife who lived with his mother at 28 and only ever had one min wage job for a little less than a year about a decade prior. We talked about his relationship with his slave because he mentioned he was moving into his slave's home soon and his slave was the same age and already had a PhD in neuroscience. Lmao

>>81667703 (OP)
Being in power all the time is boring. It can't get any more predictable.

>>81667786
interesting. and you're male or female? what kinds of jobs do you land with a degree like that? how much does someone with your major typically earn in a year?

>>81667703 (OP)
Makes total sense, the only people stupid enough to become slaves to the system are subservient bitches who will do whatever they're told to do either by parents or whoever.

>>81667919
>dudes who own yachts = slaves to the system
Holy megacope.

>>81667946
Being a doctor doesn't give you a yacht, all the people who become doctors or lawyers etc are under extreme pressure from parents to perform and do well, they're doing it *because" they're submissive and don't know how to tell people to fuck off.

>>81667898
>male
>anything to do with software, data science, it securely
>50-80k since im a yuropoor, muricans get their six figures if they get a job in a big corp

In my experience being a nsfw artist, americans are always subs and brits always dom

>>81667984
fascinating. a-and you said something about looking for a dominant partner?

>>81667966
>they're doing it *because" they're submissive
They're doing it because they're ambitious. You don't accidentally get pushed into being a lawyer. You work for it actively. The COPE.

>>81668006
yeah, im not gay tho

>>81668020
No. Their parents are ambitious, they set them up for it. Nobody is born ambitious, nobody is 13 years old thinking "I want to be a lawyer". They are groomed by their parents.

>>81668049
>nobody is 13 years old thinking "I want to be a lawyer".
Anon...

>>81667703 (OP)
Trauma primes you for bdsm and after that you desire that what you don't have

>>81668006
One day you'll find your gay sub nonny

>>81667703 (OP)
But but 50 shades of gray told me otherwise

>>81667989
Thats odd because in culture generally americans are the big and loud boasting type, and brits are the quite move along type. This is almost the exact opposite of what i would expect.
>>81667786
>computer science
>submissive
Literally always.

>>81668922
>Literally always
I know, not beating the stereotypes

>>81667703 (OP)
domming takes more work so people with taxing real lives aren't good at it, and if they are they're already a gigachad with a hot submissive wife and mistress and not someone hanging out on kink spaces developing their sex hobby.

>>81667989
I find this is the case more often, but the few americans that buck the trend are quite good at it.

>>81667703 (OP)
doms who are successful don't need to play up their sexual prowess to get what they want, they just get it by virtue of being successful.