Chad has been treated nice since kindergarten and then they tell us "if you want people to like you, you have to earn it". Did Chad earn it? Why is our society so obsessed with pretending people "earned" shit? Why not just admit yeah it's unfair, so what?

You can literally look at any kindergarten class and predict which kids are going to be successful and which ones are going to be homeless. Everything in life is based on genes and how society treats you according to those genes. Not "hard work".

>>81668735 (OP)
there's a lot of truth to that. ultimately you can certainly change your circumstances through hard work, but it's disingenuous to imply looks don't play a major role

>>81668735 (OP)

They need you to be a good capitalist worker bee so they need to maintain the illusion of reward and upward mobility at any cost. Even at the cost of brain cells.

>>81668735 (OP)
>Why not just admit yeah it's unfair, so what?
because then people will start trying to kill people they don't like

Because its significantly easier and more likely to be born an incel than a chad, society knows this, society also knows if a bunch of guys know its not their fault and everything is rigged against them the chances of them entering a public space with a machine gun raises significantly higher. Thus, the gas lighting.

>>81668735 (OP)
You're a pussy and a loser, go hit the gym

>>81668735 (OP)
>if you want people to like you, you have to earn it
This is just something normies tell you in order for you to keep chasing ghosts, so you don't realize it's the normies who are screwing you over.
They don't want you to realize how things are unfair, they want you to keep doing busywork so you're quiet. That way they can look down at you to cope with how people above them are looking down at them. It's all a lie.
Ever notice how when a woman or leftist man tries to give lonely men advice, they always say the same dismissive shit ("take a shower", "go outside"), and then INSTANTLY become extremely hostile if you don't immediately swallow their lies.

In life, you gotta learn to read between the lines, and evaluate people's intentions. Always consider what exactly someone is benefitting from acting how they do, and saying the things they do.

>>81668735 (OP)

Chad wins yet again. Must be nice not even having to wipe your own ass.

>>81668735 (OP)
Guy on the right can be fixed with a hair transplant

>>81668735 (OP)
>Why not just admit yeah it's unfair, so what?
It's called the just world fallacy

>>81669013
The gym won't help my sea monkey genes

>>81669401
Fucking kek.
This guy, man.
Bro, just give it a rest. Why do you persist with this?

>>81669397
This, just world fallacy. Also most normalfaggots (and outcast losers for that matter) really really hate to admit and accept that they can't "make" the world be what they want it to be, they can't "make" what they want happen, they can't "make" people be what they want them to be, so they cling to any credit and control they feel they do have even if it's a falsehood. All buddhism, religions, stoicism etc and every other "success philosophy" is just the same teaching worded different "stop being so emotional and stressing over a life and world you can't control and you don't decide". Every faggots "spiritual journey" ends at the same place "learn to be ok by yourself and stop suffering and worrying from your own psyche just live in the present and have some empathy for other people asshole". Deal with life and world as it is because you dont get to decide the majority of it. 90% of the shit people are freaking out about every day is make-believe in their own heads from past memories and anxiety about the future. So all these "gurus" come to same conclusion and advice "just fucking relax and stop worrying about it focus here and now". Most fags will continue to think everything is earned and "just" until they die even though that is provenly untrue.

>>81668793
Holy based total anarchy and bloodshed

>>81669397
The Just World Fallacy is a biological response to keep normies sane. Without it this world would fall apart.

Today I was deployed at an external company for a job and spotted one of the biggest giga chads i have ever seen in real life
I used to be very deep into looks theory so believe me when I say that
Like way above conventionally good looking + he obviously hit the gym
Naturally he had some high status job at the company and was very charismatic, he seemed to be genuinely interested in what i was doing there
Imaging being this guy for a single day jfl

>>81668735 (OP)
>Why is our society so obsessed with pretending people "earned" shit? Why not just admit yeah it's unfair, so what?
People will stop trying of they don't start high enough, and everything will fall apart

>>81670515
well i know what the game is now in any case

>Be me
>At gym
>Pass guy in locker room
>He looks like me but has to be at least 6'10"
>Get the sudden and aggressive urge to rope knowing I can never be that
>Remind myself that I'm mostly a normalfag with a happy life
Wild

>>81670510
I have one guy like that at my job. Somehow we respect each other as equals because there are certain things about me that challenge his authority and kinda break his mind. Like me being taller than him and actually having more money than him. And how little I care about status and looks and women, while he basically lives off attention. Could be that he has NPD while I'm almost schizoid.

>>81670537

If it makes you feel better, realize you'll likely live at least a decade longer than that dude.

>>81668735 (OP)
I agree because that bald guy in post isn't famous he should be like Jeremy meeks

>>81668735 (OP)
No one ever tells me the answer to this question. Why are some high schoolers, literal 14-year-olds, so confident and able to speak to girls? They don't go the gym. They didn't have therapy. They didn't have to do all this weird normie shit like speak to 10 random people per day to improve their social skills. They're literal teenagers. But why do they possess something that others don't?

It's either genetics or parenting. It must be

>>81668735 (OP)
>"if you want men to like you, you have to earn it"
ftfy. Judging men by their looks is what women and fags do. I have never thought less of a man because he was short or bald. I do lose respect for drug addicts, alcoholics, homosexuals and arrogant men. If you try to compensate for being a bald manlet by being super cocky then I probably won't like you. If you're a domineering asshole Chad/Tyrone then I won't like you either.

>>81668793
Basically yeah. Civilization is the illusion of order and acceptance. If people en masse admitted that they practice and encourage eugenics, might makes right, halo/worship beauty and so on then that mask falls off and all bets are off. If you think height preference, bullying and nepotism is bad now you have no idea how much worse it can get.

>>81670940
It's probably that they started socializing very young. The problem with most anons is that they missed the early stages of socializing, and have been playing catch up ever since. If socializing turns out well from the start, it's easy to keep the ball going.
It's also a matter of positive reinforcement loops, combined with parenting and genetics like you said.

>>81671253
Yeah I moved cities when I was 6, bounced around and constantly changed schools, never really got that start where you learn to grow into an adult. I was so far behind by 13. I just never caught up

>>81671253
>It's probably that they started socializing very young.
I guess so. My parents sheltered me. They were religious and didn't really want me speaking to anyone who wasn't religious like me. They bought me pretty much anything I wanted as long as it made me stay indoors. Any games console I wanted they would buy as long as I stayed away from people. I guess it explains why I am the way I am

>>81671253
I literally fucking tried bro but got treated different for being in the sped class. Fucking normalfags are scum.

>>81668735 (OP)
Go and jump under a train then, maggot. You've already convinced yourself you're the genetic dead end.

>>81671293
>>81671309
>>81671875
Gotta do the best with what you were given, I suppose.

>>81668735 (OP)
Grim. Even hair couldn't save him.

>>81672177
What I never see mentioned the shoulder to head ratio is law. Short men have heads that are too big for their bodies, no amount of gym will fix that.

>>81672262
Ideally you also want the body to head ratio to be about 7.5 to 8.5 heads tall but higher can also be fine.

>>81672262
>>81672177
He looks more normal with a smaller head

>>81672262
>posts an edit pic
Ya of course he looks weird when you edit it