so i finally have a gf but honestly im just more stressed than ever everyday i wake up and im scared i will wake up to a text saying she doesn't like me anymore or she likes another guy now or she etc etc and just like me being cucked in general
how do i fucking stop she's not even that kind of person

>>81672257 (OP)
>thought appear
>why i have this thought
>what make me think these thoughts
>do thought have any real

>>81672257 (OP)
communicate your worries and insecurities about her and if she isn't willing to comfort you, you probably shouldn't be with her in the first place

>>81672275
stop that pls you arent helping

>>81672257 (OP)
dump her before she dumps you its a big power move

>>81672285
>comforting me
what if thats just the next step of manipulation to ensure more emotional damage

>>81672300
no nigga im trying to fix this in a healthy way

>>81672323
the only way to fix this is raise your self esteem so you dont get crushed like an ant when she inevitibly leaves you and you start by leaving her first.

I am from Belarus, I also have this problem, I try to build relationships, but when they appear or something similar to them, nothing comes of it, it is very offensive, but I try to be optimistic , try to be optimistic, when your hands drop then your whole life goes wrong, this is not the most important problem in your life, brother I completely understand you, I am in the same position, But you need to move on, besides her you will have 100 more of the same, but out of these 100, 1 will appear, the same one, you and I, bro

>>81672257 (OP)
Lol I felt like that when I had a boyfriend. It was terrible, I was anxious every single day. Eventually he left me so my fears technically were true, but it could've been a lot worse. At least now I know that dating is not for me and that I'd rather I don't know, read a bunch of fanfics instead

>>81672257 (OP)
Yep I know that feel.
>>81672285
She will simply ghost him because insecure = ick.

with women one is none, two is one
have another one at least in sight
it's better for you and for her
but this is the kind of advice you can't really trust someone on without learning the hard way

>>81672316
>what if thats just the next step of manipulation to ensure more emotional damage
i know moidcels refuse to believe this but women are capable of loving men and wanting to see them happy, i cant say whether this is true for your gf or not but i genuinely think this is just anxiety - it painfully reminds me of myself and why i can't even maintain friendships let alone romantic relationships

>>81672300
>>81672352
i know this is ragebait but that's basically just a very fast way to develop abandonment issues

>>81672417
>She will simply ghost him because insecure = ick.
did you even read what i said? or does moidbrain refuse to accept that women can have different tastes in men? the male brain works in interesting and frustrating ways...

>>81672499
>the male brain works in interesting and frustrating ways...
this, so much this!! we wouldn't have to guess what women want if they were straightforward, we have to understand their mind games. like, if girls were open about their feelings, we wouldn't be insecure about them

>>81672499
lmao women are a monolith, I know you are lying. Only men can have a different taste in women.