Should I just hire a sex worker to get it over with?
t. 20yo KHHV 178cm dutch autist (it feels like it never even began).
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 10:46:29 AM
No.81677138
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If you want to, sure. If you think it's the only way you can bed a woman might as well get that life experience. After that, just use your hand.
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 10:48:37 AM
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Take it from a fellow Dutch anon: having sex with a whore will kill your inner self. You don't want sex, you want a relationship.
Outside of dating apps (of which you should be using all of them), your best bet is to join a sports club or start a social hobby.
The biggest secret to dating is literally "just b urself". If she isn't into your autistic ass, then be glad she let's you know now instead of discovering that after a few years.
>>81677126 (OP)
22y
I will say this before the 30y say you are young and blah blah if you can find a good prostitute and it helps not think about it just fuking do it you first will never be this magical thing it will suck until you get good at it
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 11:00:18 AM
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>>81677223
>>81677126 (OP)
>Should I just hire a sex worker to get it over with?
Absolutely, anon.
It's what I did. I'd be a 38yo virgin today otherwise.
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 11:02:33 AM
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>>81677273
>>81677213
...and you think having had sex with a hooker makes you less pathetic somehow?
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 11:02:55 AM
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>>81677376
>>81677154
sex isnt hard. i finished inside raw first time and she took the pill. might as well do it with someone that actually cares about you
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 11:07:03 AM
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You're still young at 20 so use your youth to be dumb and approach girls, on Tinder or elsewhere or whatever.
It's stupid to waste money and dignity on a prostitute in your prime years imo. You might not see these years as your prime years, but you'll never be healthier, less constrained by obligations and you can be a total retard without it being embarrassing (because you're young and it's expected).
If you FEEL like you're not in your prime, work on yourself so that you can feel like you are, because the 20s are a window of opportunity that's easy to miss and you'll regret it later.
>>81677223
At least I'm not a total virgin, prick.
If a woman wanted to fuck me, I'd know what to do.
It's well known that virgins give women the ick. Basically the worst red flag to them.
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 11:36:45 AM
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>>81677390
>>81677225
Even a blind faggot can put his dick in a vagina and cum the hard part is being good at it and understanding your partners need and not cum quickly that is why the first time is whill never be perfect you are in no man's land and trying to apply 20 years worth of porn vedos that never works
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 11:41:29 AM
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>>81677481
>>81677376
it's not hard at all. you just communicate. she will tell you what she needs and you do it. some girls don't, that's why you need to keep fucking real woman not prostitutes, so you know what they actually want.
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 11:41:57 AM
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>>81677481
>>81677154
My first time was fucking amazing
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 11:54:45 AM
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>>81677435
Why not? Though, every one says they regret it afterward.
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 11:56:09 AM
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>>81677430
Because when you're immature, all you think about is sex without the relationship part.
It's only when you grow up that you realize that sex is meaningless (and boring) without the other party also being into it.
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 11:56:48 AM
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>>81677126 (OP)
Unironically the worse thing you can do if you're truly khhv
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 12:05:30 PM
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>>81677390
Well yeah communication is very important but still you need the practice i can tell you how to operate a forklift but without training you will never be forklift certified also call me crazy but I prefer taking advice from the professional slut the the average one
>>81677391
but was it better than your second time or the third Time