I broke up with my girlfriend about two years ago. At first, I didn't think about her at all for 7 or 8 months. Still, then I started thinking about her and even dreaming about her in that dream we're dating, so that was weird but eventually it faded away. I stopped thinking about her, but after a few weeks, I would dream about her again. We're dating in every dream that I had about her, we're still dating. I've never a consistent in a dream before. I only make this thread cuz I dream about her again yesterday.

I don't think I can handle it anymore. I'm almost 20, and I can't keep thinking about a girl from high school that I used to date. Does anyone have solution on how to solve this problem?

>>81688186 (OP)
did you date other people almost instantly after breaking up with her? was she your first ever girlfriend?

>>81688245
No I didn't date her instantly after I broke up with my first girlfriend. It was like a 3 years gap

>>81688186 (OP)
They're just dreams bro, it's not that serious.

>>81688314
Yeah, but it's been going on for two years now, and every time I dream about her, I also think about her a lot.

>>81688186 (OP)
go back to her then i wish i couldve gone back to my ex i miss him so much

>>81688922
That's the problem, I can't and even if I can, I don't want to. Our relationship is already broken, and it won't be the same if she and I get back together. She deserves someone better

>>81688186 (OP)
I was in the same situation from 19 onwards. First year was okay then I started thinking more and more about her. With time i got obsessed, it was hell.
This shit went on for almost 5 years and i was unable to pair bondwith anyone new.....
Until I met another girl online in the end of 2023 which ended cheating on me and leaving me in the end lel.
It's not worth pondering try to find and fuck done other girls to get your mind off her that's my only advice.

>>81688375
lol she probably put some witch spell on you bro

>>81688922
Why even go back with your ex?

>>81688186 (OP)
Hmmmm, how do i break other peoples cycles?

>>81690290
How do you, anon?

>>81690520
That is what i'm asking.

>>81690550
>That is what i'm asking.
I don't know anon

>>81688186 (OP)
>Hit her up
>Will make it real again or close the book for good.

I'm currently thinking about this girl who had a crush on me in highschool, didn't end up dating her just kinda strung her along for the whole senior school year without realizing it. Dated and loved other woman since then never thought about her.
>"One last Breath" by Creed plays at a bar on a night out a month ago
>Cannot stop thinking about
Wtf is my brain on. Can't text her cause it was so small almost 7 years ago

>>81690614
>it was so small almost 7 years ago
Did you date anyone during that time?
>>81690614
>Hit her up
She block me on everything