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Anonymous No.81691790 >>81692322 >>81692376 >>81692832 >>81692946 >>81693030 >>81694643 >>81694691
How are you supposed to deal with emotional people when you're a logic autist?
Anonymous No.81692216 >>81692233 >>81693017 >>81693853 >>81693889
is "logic autist" code for sociopath?
Anonymous No.81692233 >>81694643 >>81694643
>>81692216
do yous even know what sociopath means without using chatgpt
Anonymous No.81692322
>>81691790 (OP)
Learn to recognise the patterns and act according to its protocol.
Anonymous No.81692376 >>81694643
>>81691790 (OP)
Misdirect their ire.
Emotions are also a logic. If you point them in a direction they will pivot 9/10 times unless they specifically dislike you.
My favorite is blaming corporate and/or government incompetence since it is universal.
If they're already emotional over something else you can just agree with them, maybe adding a supplementary line to support it. Agreeing with them in most circumstances will automatically make them more manageable. It doesn't matter if you personally agree their sentiment but if you just give a "yes" it has more of a bullshitty tone to it you want to avoid.

It sounds like a lot of stupid games but it avoids a lot of needless conflict and keeps things running smoothly. It's just more efficient to placate them, feed their ego and move on instead of fighting.
Anonymous No.81692832
>>81691790 (OP)
you're probably less logical than you think and more controlled by emotions you're unaware of. probably
Anonymous No.81692946
>>81691790 (OP)
Its more trouble than its worth to try try and understand their belief system. In my experience, attempting to build rapport with emotionally unstable people just leads to disaster, because under the surface, we're incompatible. Respectfully acknowledge the differences between you and them, and ignore them as much as possible.
Anonymous No.81693017
>>81692216
I have reason to believe a lot of narcissists here have labeled themselves as "autists"
Anonymous No.81693030 >>81694643
>>81691790 (OP)
Have you tried not being so sensitive?
Anonymous No.81693853
>>81692216
Stoicism more like.
Anonymous No.81693880 >>81694643
Logic is an absolute cope, you can't prove your axioms logically. It's all ultimately grounded in feels.
Anonymous No.81693889
>>81692216
low EI
Anonymous No.81694643
>>81691790 (OP)
>deal with emotional people when you're a logic
Yeah, when you're introverted and antisocial, and when the DSM-5 puts those both on a spectrum, it's easy to other yourself when everything about your environment is already telling you you're different and weird. Trouble is finding your intersection on both of those spectrums. How much of it is just you being shy and averse to people in a more passive way, and how much of it is you being actively averse to people, pushing them away and doing things you know will keep you lonely?

>>81692376
>a logic

>>81692233
>>81692233
>sociopath

>>81693030
>tried not being so sensitive?
Bet you a hundred bucks someone who hurt you said that once.

>>81693880
>Logic is an absolute cope
Basically yes. You are, no matter how socially stunted, an emotional ape at the end of the day. However you want to cope, step one is acknowledging that.
Anonymous No.81694691
>>81691790 (OP)
Use your logic autism to your advantage. Go to the library, rent a bunch of books about increasing your emotional intelligence, and then learn to make your logical arguments appeals to the emotions when you identify a histrionic faggot who feels but does not think.