which is worse: having your mother dying early or having your mother being a toxic, manipulative bitch

Dying early

Definitely her dying in your sleep because you didn't reply to this post

my mom is so ready to die lol

My mom was both.

>>81697156 (OP)
it depends on a lot of factors, no?

>>81697163
depends how early and how toxic
if his mom is truly toxic and manipulative like NPD territory then then that impacts his quality of life much more than if he had a healthy mother who died young for example