Thread 81700425

How much effort have you been putting in to find a gf, anon? Like, do you actually talk to women?

>>81700425 (OP)
zero

I don't even go outside the house

havent left the house in like a year

XD

>>81700425 (OP)
I gave up on that a long time ago.

>>81700435
>havent left the house in like a year
How do you get to your job without leaving the house?

we are not even allowed to talk to women you fucking retard, and even if we "talk" to them after being introduced by friends in an incredibly safe setting it is like treading a social minefield, you have to pretend to enjoy milquetoaste normy interests and talk in a certain way and say the exact right things or they go "ew" "ick" and ghost you, they will literally hate you forever over something completely trivial and tell their friends to ostracize you, go back to r*ddit

>>81700446
ima loser NEET

c:

i just gaym all day

>>81700425 (OP)
I have no desire. I'm still attached to my female ex penpal, and nobody irl compares to her personality. I doubt I'll ever truly find someone who matches my energy outside of the internet.

I have never tried until now. I'm 23 and moving out of my parents house so my commute to college is shorter, I have more privacy, and I'm closer to the city which has more women.

Probably gonna be massively disappointed but if I don't try now it's probably over. This is the last time I'll have access to lots of people around my age. I'm in an awkward place because I just started college at 23. I have a hard time relating to 18 year olds (also they're kinda retarded) but because I started late I don't want to mess with mid 20's people (because they probably want someone more experienced)

I cold approached over 550 women.

>>81700425 (OP)
Tkmiz fags get the rope

>>81700484
Thats fucking retarded and you're setting yourself up for failure. That doen't work at all and you're only hurting yourself. quantity =/= quality

if you're on /r9k/ you're not attractive enough for that. quit it

>>81700425 (OP)
If you get that picrel vibe from any woman, I advise you to bail immediately and don't ever look back. You have absolutely no fucking idea what you would get into.

>>81700425 (OP)
Women dont want to talk to me. Im not a meaniehead so I dont harass them.

>>81700571
It was a long time ago.
I also did warm approaches but it didn't work either. You will never be able to do a ton of warm approaches though, you will be lucky to have around 20 oppurtunities.

>>81700425 (OP)
A lot of effort. I will not be dragged down, I will not be silenced

>>81700425 (OP)
why would i do that?
if i just talk to random women to try to get something going, the chances of finding "the one" are practically 0.
the best case scenario from such an endeavor is two people kind of tolerate each other because both of them don't want to be alone.
it cannot work.

>>81700425 (OP)
A lot of effort but I want to give up since I think no one want their partner to be a brown sea monkey manlet

>>81700425 (OP)
None at all, ever. Not even once. I always avoided them like the plague, even in 1st grade. There's nothing to gain from interacting with women

>>81700425 (OP)
Absolutely none. I barely care about myself, much less my family or friends. I don't give a fuck about strangers personally. I don't talk to people unless I need to like for work or shopping.

>>81700425 (OP)
i've never actually seeked a gf
i talk of wanting one but everytime the opportunity presents itself, as in a girl approaches me, i start thinking about the hassles of having one

its just not the right time for me
won't ever be

>>81700446
Neetmaxxing, fucking retard

>>81700425 (OP)
Who draws these pictures?

>>81702214
tkmiz is the artist

>>81700425 (OP)
I barely leave my apartment, but i used to try a bunch of times

Tried some dating apps, i can count my matches on one hand and zero of them led to any dates. Joined a few of social groups at my uni, student organizations and sports teams, shit like that. No luck on any of them either. At two different occations a female friend of mine and my cousin tried hooking me up with friends of them, who both proceeded to ghost me after a few days of talking.

I'm 21 now and haven't as much as kissed a girl before, i've basically given up at this point, genuinely don't know if there's even anything else i could try

>>81700425 (OP)
No, I'm 34 and I've never talked to a woman like that

>>81702773
>genuinely don't know if there's even anything else i could try
Hookers

>>81702798
I would rather kill myself than buy some STD-ridden whore to lick my wounds for a night

>>81700425 (OP)
No. I'm not even trying to date because, I don't have a good job, personality, skills, and I still live with my mom, why would a woman want to date me? What do I have to offer?
On the other hand, I'm only 22, so maybe I could find a girl who doesn't care. But IDK it just seems pointless.

>>81702863
Based. You should simp and dance like a monkey for an STD-ridden whore to reject you instead. Alpha shit.