>>81701794 (OP)Let's ask Jesus Christ himself.
Matthew 5:28 "But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart. 29 And if thy right eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell."
Matthew 19:10 "His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry. 11 But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given."
Jesus is saying the disciples' conclusion, "better not to marry" is something not everyone can grasp or live by, only those who have been given the natural temperament to live that way.