Thread 81706532

>Be training as a medical doctor, early 30s
>In a decent sized city
>Am a forever alone virgin

How the fuck can someone be so successful in one area and so terrible in their love life? Even the dyel Indianbrehs in my position have wives/gfs. What the fuck is wrong with me

height probably. it's the only thing women care about, in the end. they'll overlook your intelligence (doctor) and fitness because you aren't tall enough (sub 5'9)

>>81706532 (OP)
mannnnnn, don't listen to >>81706643
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I'm 6'0 and i'm actually a permavirgin, yet all of my friends who are shorter than me (like 2 of them are 5'7, one of them 5'9" have girlfriends. Honest to god I've been unblackpilled by their existences. If you go somewhere that consistently has women and you talk to them in a way they find fun and interesting without demeaning yourself you're probably going to get a girlfriend eventually. My friends aren't even fucking looksmaxxed, none of them worked out when they got girlfriends, ironically i worked out more than all of them and to this day still no gf.
I'm arguably chadlite, or at least would be if I lost like 20 pounds and yet I obtain absolutely nothing on any dating app.
I'm convinced, man.

>>81706672
aside from you being fakecel
by "demeaning yourself" i'm assuming you mean no autism or spaghetti spilling?

>>81706643

That's the thing, I'm over 6' tall and still single. Ive been on dates so it's not like im a complete loser but haven't been in a real relationship for 7 years.

>>81706676
In particular I was referring to excessive jestermaxxing, or coming off as weak. Even if you're somewhat unconfident as long as you don't look like a weak faggot it's probably fine. Helps a ton if you're not a voicecel.

>>81706532 (OP)
Can't you just have a fling with a nurse? I thought those women were always looking to bag a doctor

>>81706532 (OP)
I have a decent job in a big US city. 6'0'', no outstanding debt and in decent shape. I'm going to turn 39 in a few months and never touched a tit.

>>81706693
holy shit, beyond wizard status. not bad..
seriously though, if you really wanted to you could certainly go fuck whores at a bar. Then again, I'm sure that fucking whores at a bar isn't your goal.

Doctors are usually married to the job

>>81706688

Yeah that's what I thought as well. I've tried asking out techs I thought were cute and got curved. I've tried asking out other female residents and they just lead me on.

I've been on dates with some overweight nurses when I was an intern but it never went anywhere.

>>81706799

I mean that's the stereotype but most are also actually married IRL. They may get divorced or it not work out but most aren't incel status.

It sucks cause even the fat and ethnic doctor dudes have wives/gfs much prettier than them because of their job. You'd think it would help me but I guess I'm so ugly that I need to be rich rich to get someone.

the last time I was at a hospital I saw an old manlet doctor flirting awkwardly with a cute young nurse. he was looking deeply into her eyes and saying "if you EVER need anything I'm always here for you" and she looked so creeped out. I think it was prompted by me making her laugh and him getting jealous lol. thats probably worked for him in the past though. the doctor seemed kinda shameless about it.

>>81706883

Eh, the thing is nurses nowadays make really good money so they're less inclined to dating/marrying a doctor just for money. This is especially true for residents and less attractive doctors.

If she was 45, a single mom with multiple kids and needed a meal ticket, she would have accepted the flirting.

>>81706795
>seriously though, if you really wanted to you could certainly go fuck whores at a bar.
I guess, but I'm too scared of getting an STD. Also, prostitutes in my part of town tend to be trafficked, making it extra dangerous/

>>81706532 (OP)
Will you settle for a boyfriend, Dr. Anon?

>>81706672
idk I think that some of us are just meant to never have a gf, regardless of what we bring to the table or who our competition is

>>81707737

I'm straight but I appreciate the offer.

>>81707968
...w-what if I troon out? I'd rather be a boy but I don't mind changing for you. I could be your girlfriend if you really need me to. Please just give me a chance..

Lots of mds and jds out there. Until you finish residency or have your own law firm your just a potential jackpot that you have to wait for. The money will still be there in 2,4, 8 years whenever it happens. She can swoop in for the kill and snipe you with ease because she knows other women have made the same assessment and plotted your trajectory. Fuck Chad until Brad comes into bloom. Until you can say you're a pulmonologist or rocket surgeon all on your own they just hear student. There's a lot of dicks that can be sucked before residency is finished.

>>81707815
nahhh, why not? if you can entertain a girl and be attractive to her then you can get a gf, no? if you're super autistic it becomes harder, especially if voice cel, but there's somne pretty fucking autistic duides who can get chicks.

>>81706688
nurses are chad only

>>81708559
I wasn't even scheduled tonight. At least it's time and a half after 0000.
Nursing sounds great on paper, just three shifts a week is full time. Nobody mentions the overtime or mandatory meetings that are only held during the day. Doctors may be less cucked than I thought. Similar hours, nurses do all their work anyway, but pay is at least double or triple.

>>81706532 (OP)
Welcome to the world of betabuxx, enjoy your stay