The Male Loneliness Epidemic - /r9k/ (#81710356) [Archived: 534 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/4/2025, 2:20:48 PM No.81710356
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Is there a solution, or is it over for modern men?
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 2:22:58 PM No.81710375
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>>81710356 (OP)
Why do I keep hearing about this made up shit. Get over yourselves and actually build a community if youre so fucking lonely faggot
Replies: >>81710422 >>81710560 >>81710648
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 2:25:03 PM No.81710400
>>81710356 (OP)
yeah
go outside and do activities that involve other people
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 2:26:30 PM No.81710412
It's over for sub 10 men. We should neck en masse.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 2:27:15 PM No.81710422
>>81710375
>picture from 20 years ago when women still had some social pressure to keep a lid on their unfeeling reptile nature and feign some affection towards men
Replies: >>81710456
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 2:30:29 PM No.81710456
>>81710422
>this faggot doesnt know this is a famous guy
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 2:32:21 PM No.81710479
>>81710356 (OP)
The solution is Shari'ah law.
Replies: >>81710516
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 2:36:39 PM No.81710516
>>81710479
Doesn't belong in Christian countries
Replies: >>81710608
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 2:39:58 PM No.81710560
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>>81710356 (OP)
Does anybody know of a work like pic rel, but made in the last 5 years.
>>81710375
Obviously, if people knew how to build communities, we wouldn't be in this mess. The "what" isn't the problem, it's the "how."
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 2:40:42 PM No.81710571
It's not over for me because I have waifus. Real women cannot compare.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 2:41:45 PM No.81710581
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>>81710560
>Does anybody know of a work like pic rel, but made in the last 5 years.
I used a period instead of a question mark. I'm retarded.
Replies: >>81710707
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 2:44:09 PM No.81710607
Loneliness epidemic does not exist but it does signal to the average person that females aren't as nice as society tells you they are.

>Man doesn't simp
>Foids "haha this is why i don't care about the loneliness epidemic"
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 2:44:10 PM No.81710608
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>>81710516
It's called Christian Techno-Shari'ah and it's the religion of the future.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 2:45:45 PM No.81710623
>>81710356 (OP)
Only one. Stop chasing after relationship.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 2:47:24 PM No.81710643
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1. Get out of r9k. Block 4chan on its entirety if you have you. This is the most important step, I'm serious
2. Touch grass. Reconnect with nature. Find hobbies that give you a sense of fulfilment and satisfaction
3. Meet new people. Not women necessarily. Find them through support groups or Whatsapp/Telegram groups of your city
4. Meet up with them enough times to consider them friends
5. Have them introduce a girl they know to you. See if she wants to hang out alone after a while. The more friends the larger the probability of being introduced to a girl
6. Profit. Don't come back here

"Loneliness" doesn't only come from the lack of a romantic and/or sexual partner. So many young men seem to think that for some reason. Stop focusing so much on your cravings for female attention and build a community for yourself instead. It will all fall into place, I promise
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 2:47:50 PM No.81710648
>>81710375
You're either a feminist who wants to deny men have problems and is sexually obsessed and disgusted with seeing men as powerful monsters incapable of feeling. Or, you're an older guy who still thinks men are too superior to women that they could possibly have problems that weren't their own fault, and you direct your shortcomings outward.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 2:51:08 PM No.81710681
>>81710643
>just hang out with some losers and hope they introduce you to some fat bitch bro
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 2:51:20 PM No.81710685
>>81710356 (OP)
>Is there a solution,
Nothing short of banning fuck apps and social media will even make a dent. That's seemingly impossible.
Women went Chad-only and I can't see them coming back to their looks-matches.
The pandemic almost reset things, but not permanently.
>or is it over for modern men?
Currently, it is over.
Though I get some likes and matches, they are never DTF, or go through with it, so I am still incel AF. I can't even get old women to fuck me.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 2:53:38 PM No.81710707
>>81710560
>>81710581
You are retarded for not just asking ChatGPT.

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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 2:54:08 PM No.81710714
>>81710681
You think your loneliness derives from the lack of bitches(tm) instead of an overall lack of community. I can't give an answer to the wrong question.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:11:52 PM No.81710925
>>81710643
>Have them introduce a girl they know to you.
wishful thinking
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:13:42 PM No.81710937
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>>81710356 (OP)
whorehouses while not a solution provide a band aid to male loneliness, in every healthy society they are legal
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:22:58 PM No.81711005
>>81710643
>introduce a girl they know to you. See if she wants to hang out alone after a while.The more friends the larger the probability of being introduced to a girl
No kek people barely talk to women these days. All my friends are men and none of them know any women
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:28:08 PM No.81711038
>>81710356 (OP)
It's just the result of every major society being built on women NOT having full autonomy in choosing their partners.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:31:23 PM No.81711064
>>81710925
Is it?
>>81711005
>People barely talk to women these days
Might be the most out of touch thing I've read in a while. Who are these people you're talking about? Other robots? This is why being on circle-jerks can only be detrimental
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:43:23 PM No.81711142
there is nothing left
i need a clean start
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:46:06 PM No.81711154
>>81711064
No, ive met many people in bars, hobby clubs, in trains, we keep ik touch and go on outings almost every week
All of them were men since theres no women in any of those places, all of them are single and none of them know any women
Sounds like youre the one whose never left his basement
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:50:08 PM No.81711173
Maybe you shouldn't be misogynist assholes. We're people too.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:53:16 PM No.81711193
>>81710356 (OP)
there is a solution, its very simple but also impossible
it requires manbabies to get the fuck over their sense of entitlement thats being fed to them by conservative propagandists and actually be people worth being with

but humans are fucking idiots, and very few will ever be capable of basic introspection, thus its impossible

thats fine though, by not being a dogshit idiot decent men do really well
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:54:32 PM No.81711202
>>81711154
I genuinely cannot imagine a bar or a club without a single woman on them. You're either lying or going to gay bars
And trains? C'mon anon, if you're going to lie to make yourself seem sociable at least put some thought into it. I don't mean to insult you by calling your friend group a circle-jerk, but the first step to beat loneliness is going out of your comfort zone
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:56:03 PM No.81711213
>>81710356 (OP)
just become a chad, it's that simple
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:56:26 PM No.81711217
>>81711173
Maybe you shouldn't be bitter, antagonistic cunts. You started all this shit, we just wanted to be left the fuck alone.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:57:58 PM No.81711233
>>81711154
Why are you even on r9k? You're probably not even a khhdv.
Replies: >>81711277
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:59:05 PM No.81711240
>>81711064
>Is it?
yes. you assume the people i could realistically meet and start friendships with would know single women (that themselves aren't trying to get)
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 4:00:01 PM No.81711249
>>81710356 (OP)
>Is there a solution
Technically yes, just not realistically achieveable.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 4:00:53 PM No.81711255
>>81711202
>I genuinely cannot imagine a bar or a club without a single woman on them
For bars its pretty easy, barely any women attend most bars, youde have to prowl the street and look specifically for women which is creepy af
As for clubs im talking about hobby clubs not night clubs and yeah its a hiking club, we have quite a lot of people who join but these are all men. Women dont join muh clubs
>you're going to lie to make yourself seem sociable
Ok so youre definitely dome basement dweller.
Yeah i talk to random men in the train and gift them some beer cans i have in my backpack, i always wear a suit because if my job so usually its fine and we all end up chatting for the entire ride
Tldr women dont do any muh hobbies or jokn any meetup and men sure as hell dont know any women nor will they present you to anyone. Its dating apps or nothing
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 4:02:59 PM No.81711277
>>81711233
I am a khhv. I have never gotten a single date
I can talk to men just fine. Especially when im drunk
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 4:03:51 PM No.81711284
>>81711202
>I genuinely cannot imagine a bar or a club without a single woman on them
not him, yeah theyre there but the ratio is like 5:1, theres never enough chicks for the dudes to not overwhelm the few girls that are there
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 4:05:40 PM No.81711297
>>81711240
yeah every friend of mine was scraping the bottom of the barrel themselves, none of them had an overspill of single women for me to meet
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 4:16:12 PM No.81711406
>>81711297
yeah op thinks life is a 90s sitcom
he watched seinfeld and is not giving advice on here
Replies: >>81711534
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 4:31:30 PM No.81711534
>>81711406
Idk if those people are baiting or legit think life is a soap opera where you magically meet women out of nowhere
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 5:42:30 PM No.81712042
>>81710356 (OP)
Idk but it's completely self inflicted and also irrelevant. It doesn't affect me in any way, if every man on earth except me was in a relationship or if every man was single and lonely, my situation would remain completely unchanged in either case