>>81712738 (OP)Its a bit like money. Once you get a large amount of money getting even more money is easy. Once you successfully have sex you realize how easy it is to keep getting sex. You learn when it's appropriate to ask for it and you also learn that it's not a big deal if you get turned down. Because hey you did it once so you can obviously do it again.
Incels much like poor people never get sex (or money in the case of poors) so the idea of what steps to take to even get it in the first place are just completely alien to them. They live their lives thinking its some magical impossible difficult process when really their entire problem is that the missed out on getting it initially and have no standard of reference for how to get it.