Thread for discussions about self harm and mutual support

Hey guys, everything alright?
>How are you doing today?
>Any plans for today?
>When was the last time you hurt yourself?
>Why did you hurt yourself?
>Is there anything bothering you right now?

Here's a bunch of helpful links

>a long list of self harm alternatives (thank you muddy):
https://imgur.io/a/7Q2zgw7

>a first aid post cuting:
https://www.lifesigns.org.uk/first-aid-for-self-injury-and-self-harm/

>a wound care guide:
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1CsvJs8qNCVkHWHKekMSmCn6qn0GBEcgnq9fIqlA6Uv0/mobilebasic

>a bpd workbook:
https://d-pdf.com/book/1781/read

>a bpd Information Book (anon said it's exceptionally good)
https://annas-archive.org/md5/1a4f329474320214a120a4d553c6b60c

>a bdbt (dialectical behavioral therapy)
workbook is intended for BPD but can work for anyone:
https://cursosdepsicologia.com.ar/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/THEDIA1.pdf

Please don't post any drastic images and if you have to, spoiler them

>>81713150 (OP)
Femboy Friday edition :3

hello

>>81713150 (OP)
heya cat how are you doing today?

>>81713172
oh ye that's true

>>81713709
Heyo
how are you?
>how are you doing today?
okay but a little down, today was a bit hectic and I didn't know what to do and I didn't do much

>>81713150 (OP)
hiiii
looks like im somewhat early lol

>How are you doing today?
good, i ate some takis and my families planning to go to the boardwalk later today
my legs hurt alot i dont know why, but it hurts to walk

Hey. I never self harmed myself but three days ago I poked my leg with a knife, tried to create an ambient for a pimple to be born, but I didn't cut not create any wounds. Then today I played with a scissors in my skin, closing the two blades which entered in contact with my skin, and I could feel pain but no wounds created as well. Should I be concerned about that? And how do you guys can cut yourself? Even though I didn't wounded myself it was painful, so I can't imagine how strong is the pain you guys feel

>>81713782
>oh ye that's true
You are so cute :3

>>81713150 (OP)
hiii cat :D hru? how was your day?

>>81713172
yeah :3 anyways hru femboyanon?
where have your "parody" threads been?

>>81713709
>hello
hiii gator ^^ hru? how was your day? eat anything nice?

>>81714146
>yeah :3 anyways hru femboyanon?
Pretty bad to be honest. I lost a friend this weekend. I don't have many friends to begin with but whatever. Good news is that I'm going to Italy in a month. Not that it would make a difference or anything but I need to get away.
>where have your "parody" threads been?
I thought about making one but I forgot about it. Hru?

>>81714237
>Pretty bad to be honest.
I'm sorry to hear that, you can always talk about it here.
>I lost a friend this weekend.
:C that sucks, I'm sorry to hear that. hopefully it was on good terms
>don't have many friends to begin with
I can relate a bit, making friends is tricky, you prefer online or irl friends?
>I'm going to Italy in a month.
oooooooo :0 cool!! sounds like a cool trip, if you take any pics I'd love to see ^^
>I thought about making one but I forgot
lol dw, you don't have to. They're kinda silly and fun though ^^
>Hru?
I'm good actually, got a haircut earlier today and for the first time ever i actually like it. I feel a lot cuter with it this way. yesterday was also okay, the day before that was an absolute trainwreck. Thankfully everything worked out :D
I'm going to a big city tomorrow, so gotta wake up early :p

>>81713782
>how are you?
I'm okay hearing a lot of fireworks cause of 4th of July.
>today was a bit hectic and I didn't know what to do
I'm really sorry to hear that, does sound like a pretty poor day :/.

>>81713923
hi. sounds nice hope you enjoy your day out. I'm really sorry to hear your legs hurt.

>>81713925
why do you want to hurt yourself?

>>81714146
>hiii gator ^^
hai meowster :3
>hru?
I'm okay, hearing some cool fireworks :) how are you?
>how was your day?
my day was okay so far, a tad boring but fine. how was your day?
>eat anything nice?
ate some ramen noodles from hell, they were Soo spicy. have you eaten anything nice?
cute pic btw

>>81713923
hiya c:
>like im somewhat early
yeah, rise and shine ;D
>good
I'm very glad to hear that
>ate some takis and my families planning to
it does sound like a good day, I'd could use some takis as well heh
>legs hurt alot
are you going to go with your family then?
maybe you're sick?

>>81713925
hello o/
>never self harmed
good
>knife, tried to create an ambient for a pimple to be born
why?
>Should I be concerned
nope, don't worry
I'm sure you will be fine, aw worst ytmay get a small bruise
>how do you guys can cut yourself?
it's like eating hot food I guess, you get used to the pain and it doesn't bother you so much, also if you use a very sharp blad, it doesn't hurt all that much

>>81714008
thanks ^^
how's your day going?

>>81714146
Hey Meowster
wazzup?
>how was your day?
I'm oky though feeling a bit lost and sad
Couple of things today didn't go as planned and I sort of feel like I wasted today

>>81714401
>fireworks cause of 4th of July.
ooo yea that's going on
Happy july 4th :]
you like fireworks?
>sorry to hear that
yeah :/
but it'll pass hopefully
I'll be fine
and are you feeling okay? yesterday you were pretty sad

>>81714280
>:C that sucks, I'm sorry to hear that. hopefully it was on good terms
It was. He just stopped calling and my text messages lead nowhere. I'm not angry at him, just feel very empty.
>I can relate a bit, making friends is tricky, you prefer online or irl friends?
Irl friends. Online friends are fun for a bit but it never lasts long but I wouldn't know much about either.
>oooooooo :0 cool!! sounds like a cool trip, if you take any pics I'd love to see ^^
I'll take some.
>I'm good actually, got a haircut earlier today and for the first time ever i actually like it
I can relate to that.
>I feel a lot cuter with it this way.
I bet you do :3
>the day before that was an absolute trainwreck. Thankfully everything worked out
What happened?
>I'm going to a big city tomorrow, so gotta wake up early :p
That's nice. Are you shopping?

>>81713150 (OP)
Hi everyone, I hope you're all doing well :3
>How are you doing today?
I'm alright, thanks for asking.
>Any plans for today?
Just getting some work done and playing Minecraft. Maybe I'll go for a walk this evening to see the fireworks.
>Is there anything bothering you right now?
Work and some other personal troubles, but it's not bothering me too much, from what I can tell.

>>81714496
>Happy july 4th :]
thanks :p
>you like fireworks?
yea usually. will probably have to stay up later tonight tho. do you?
>I'll be fine
yea <3. still sucks and probably feels awful.
>and are you feeling okay?
yea i am now.
>yesterday you were pretty sad
yea i was, still feel a tad guilty of course. but I'm fine. the mood has been swung back I guess lol.

>>81714932
hey Anon. I'm okay.
>playing Minecraft.
nice hope it's fun :D
>walk this evening to see the fireworks
that would be nice, they can be very pretty and nice to see on a walk.
>not bothering me too much, from what I can tell.
well that's good it's not at least, work never is fun

>>81714932
hey hello
>hope you're all doing well :3
thank youu same to you :D
>I'm alright
that's good
hope it doesn't change
>getting some work done
what kind?
>playing Minecraft.
have fun
buildin anythin?
>see the fireworks.
happy july 4 ^^
>it's not bothering me too much,
keep on staying strong anon
hopefully all your troubles leave you soon

>>81715199
>will probably have to stay up later tonight tho
do u feel bad about it?
>do you?
I'm not sure
they look cool I guess, I'm not scared of them
I rarely shoot them
>still sucks
yep but I'm all comfy in bed so I can't complain
gonna watch some minecraft abd chill
You watching anything?
>i am now.
aww I'm very very glad ^^
hopefully it stays like that for a while
>mood has been swung back
yay and if it gets bad again I'll try to help you push it back ^^
Do you remember usually having swings like that is has it gotten worse recently? do you think it's related to talking with friends on discord?

>>81713150 (OP)
>How are you doing today?
Kind of off today.
>Any plans for today?
I transferred back to my old position. I found that I miss getting in the water and interacting with people. I wasn't excited to work here in my new position. My new boss was fine with it.
>Is there anything bothering you right now?
I didn't get to ask my old boss about it. And now I have to work the new position for a month knowing that I'm going to quit.
>>81713782
hi cat
>okay but a little down, today was a bit hectic and I didn't know what to do and I didn't do much
I'm sorry to hear that cat. Wanna talk about it?
>Couple of things today didn't go as planned and I sort of feel like I wasted today
That's ok though. Some plans just fail as I've learnt.
>>81715199
hi gator
>he mood has been swung back I guess lol.
well at least it's a good mood I hope.

>>81715476
>do u feel bad about it?
not too bad, but am frustrated cause I need to keep a good schedule.
>they look cool I guess
yea they can. it's mainly relaxing I'd say.
>rarely shoot them
I don't think I've ever shot one desu lol.
>comfy in bed so I can't complain
gonna watch some minecraft
sounds super nice and relaxing <3. Minecraft is great ^^.
>You watching anything?
watching a weird video about a half life 2 mod.
>hopefully it stays like that for a while
aw thanks and yea <3
>bad again I'll try to help you push it back ^^
okay that's super kind of you <3
>having swings like that is has it gotten worse recently?
it's definitely been happening more and faster recently. it wasn't so random I guess.
>think it's related to talking with friends on discord?
yea but in the sense it's cause I really care about them and want them to like me. it's more out of love.

>>81715537
heya cynic.
>that I miss getting in the water and interacting with people.
social Interaction is incredibly important to have.
>well at least it's a good mood I hope.
it is. and how are you doing today?

>>81715537
>Kind of off
me too
but it'll pass fren
>wasn't excited to work
it's nice you could switch
>work the new position for a month knowing that I'm going to quit.
you mean the position you like?
at least you'll spend your last days there doing what you like
>sorry to hear that cat. Wanna talk about it?
thankk you fren
I guess I could tell u among generally feeling odd and like I'm running out of time I wanted to visit a friend but it turned out I can't and then I got a package but it turns out I don't like it so I returned it but I had to pay to send it back :<
>Some plans just fail as I've
yeap :/

>>81715915
>need to keep a good schedule.
well at least ur not alone tonight many ppl wont sleep
>mainly relaxing I'd say
really? I actually I'd say the opposite of relaxin ^^
>don't think I've ever shot one
hope one day u do :]
what kind would you like to light up
>super nice and relaxing
mmm, are you relaxed too?
>video about a half life 2 mod.
oo what mod??
>kind of you <3
u r welcom bud
>yea but in the sense it's cause I really care about
maybe you just aren't used to having online friends??
maybe it'll pass with time
I remember feeling sorta similarly when I first became friends with a girl on dc once

>>81716010
>least ur not alone tonight many ppl wont sleep
true hehe, I doubt many people at all will be able to sleep in America.
>actually I'd say the opposite of relaxin ^^
they are relaxing, if your outside just enjoying looking at them. if your inside of something they are super annoying and not relaxing lol.
>what kind would you like to light up
I don't know really, maybe one of them Roman candle ones. seem cool, pretty dangerous tho.
>are you relaxed too?
yea I am, just watching stuff and petting my cat.
>oo what mod??
it's entropy zero 1 and 2. it's pretty cool. you play as the one people, in the suits and stuff idk.
>aren't used to having online friends??
maybe, he is my first real friend. I've spent more time with him then anyone else in my whole life, and I've only known him a month I have other online friends but they feel much more fake and disconnectedness. when it's texting it just feels like a transaction more then a friendship if you know what I mean.
>when I first became friends with a girl on dc once
makes sense, there's definitely a differentness and much more unknowing with online. even more so if you care about the person.

>>81716010
> you mean the position you like?
No the one I'm leaving.
It feels wrong to the coworkers who needed people. But I kind of have a reasonable justification.
> I'm running out of time I wanted to visit a friend but it turned out I can't
That's ok, I'm sure they'll understand.
> I returned it but I had to pay to send it back :<
I hate having to pay to return things like that. I get why, but it still feels like wasted money.
>>81715915
> social Interaction is incredibly important to have
I didn't think I'd lose as much as I did desu.
> how are you doing today?
Just tired. The new hours are really getting to me.

>>81716590
>didn't think I'd lose as much as I did desu.
fair, it's really impossible to know till it happens.
>The new hours are really getting to me
:/ I hope you get used to the new hours soon

im berry eepy gooninght to all if ya

I fear it swung back...

>>81717113
goodnight cat.

I know that /cat/ has a dominant side. He is the kind of femboy who will tie you up and give you hickeys that never goes away. The kind that DEMANDS that you look down all the time or he will hiss in anger when you look at other girls.

/cat/ is slutty

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