What kind of man gets married in his 30ies to a woman in her 30ies?
>oh yeah, I have some life experience now, entering into a contract where other party gets a big payday if they break the contract sounds like a good idea
>they can break that contract at any time (no fault divorce)
Aren't they supposed to have wizened up to the nature of women?
>inb4 you underestimate the number of simps out there
I guess so but what the fuck. Most of those harpies don't even want to pop out 2.1 babies. What's the point of marrying one? "Female companionship?" I'd rather have a golden retriever.

I'd imagine some proportion are marrying their long time girlfriends.

>>81715175 (OP)
it's usually from female pressure and social expectation - it looks bad to their friends and family if they keep having to show up at events and parties still not married and women feels the need for resource commitment to pop out a kid

>>81715175 (OP)
Why is there a dip in the 50's?

>>81715216
I know a dude that got married after 8 years lol, he was 31 as was she.

>>81715175 (OP)
>What kind of man gets married in his 30ies to a woman in her 30ies?
browns

>>81715226
that's silent generation coming back from war and having a baby boom. their kids are the boomers.

>yes, let me sign a contract that says you can rob me at any point
>why?
>well for no reason at all because we are not even religious
lul. Some men just deserve it, anons

>>81715245
let me introduce you to the gynocracy

>i just won't marry her then she won't be able to steal my sh-ACK!

We live in a matriarchy gaslighting you that it's a patriarchy

>>81715230


That's so fucking dumb. Should have just gotten married 7 years ago.

>>81715351
>IF HE waNtEd To he WOULd

>>81715351
I think he wanted to have a bit more money for a wedding and a house and all that but yeah its a bit silly.

>>81715175 (OP)
Yeah I married my girlfriend of like 7 or 8 years because I switched jobs from one that let me have her on my health insurance as a domestic partner with no paperwork, to one that would have required more paperwork to do that than to get married. And since she's a neet I save tens of thousands on taxes filing jointly.

And no, we didn't have a wedding and didn't bother to tell our parents about it.

>>81715300
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>>81715340
Genuine fucking doom pill, it's actually over unless you get extremely lucky

>>81715175 (OP)
A guy who went
>OH SHIT IVE BEEN MANWHORING TOO MUCH GOTTA MAKE A FAMILY NOW YEP

>>81715308
Rare Quebec W

>>81715340
Jesus christ Canada

>>81715175 (OP)
>Aren't they supposed to have wizened up to the nature of women?
Not everyone was raised by cartoon frogs and homosexual incels on 4chan
>I'd rather have a golden retriever.
do not fuck the dog please

>>81715300
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>>81715340
Idk why and of the failed males on this board care about this shit. Not like any of you fags are gonna get a woman to be near you long enough for it to count as any sort of relationship, de facto or otherwise XD. Cry more tho.

>>81715175 (OP)
I don't know, but I have yet to see one 30+ couple that looks like they are anything more than glorified friends. Dead bedrooms galore.

I think most people just get pressured into it and think it's the "right" thing to do.

>>81715974
>Dead bedrooms galore.
Doesn't matter if you get married at 18, marriage is where sex ends.

Even when you're not married, and not with someone for years and years and decades - it's natural to get used to someone and/or to let yourself go and to not be sex-crazed anymore like the first time you got naked together. That's just how relationship go over time, sometimes it's several years sometimes it's just a few months.

>>81715175 (OP)
Imagine being a 30 year pseudo-incel. You maybe had sex or a girlfriend before but it was with a fat chick in senior year of high school and then you had a bunch of years of zero attention from women, maybe you hit up Tinder or whatever and talk to a few women but nothing every really goes anywhere. I just described the vast majority of men. Now imagine you hit you 30s and suddenly women are giving you attention, women whose looks and eggs are now fading and they are ready to find any stability they can. While their pair-bonding is already destroyed from years of partying and taking Chad cock, your ability to pair-bond is still very strong. The result is a simp betabuxxer man with a woman who settled for him. That is 95% of marriages.

>>81716057
>Now imagine you hit you 30s and suddenly women are giving you attention, women whose looks and eggs are now fading and they are ready to find any stability they can
I doubt this happens very often.

>>81715935
You've got it backwards: it's because of shit like that that I don't want anything to do with you.

>>81715308
Bruh fuck meh country. I'm just gonna max out my student loans and fuck off to my dual citizenship and never pay em back. It's not worth eht.

>>81716057
what if you filter out the betabux-demons by being very vague about your profession and resources? "I make enough to make ends meet. That is all"

>>81715935
i don't know if you haven't realized it or not but the culture of this sanctuary has gone way beyond "muh lonely feefees" and evolved to the complete dissection of gynocentrism and what we call "womanhood"

everyone with a dime to add about the state of monogamy (women) these days are welcomed to this sanctuary, whether it's an inexperienced loner, an experienced lover, a failed normie, a husband, a divorcee, a murderer, a rapist, a tranny, a slightly self-aware whore etc...

i just don't think we're on the same wavelength here

>>81716021
This is not normal at all. People's sex drives plummet at 60+, not 30. This is just coping and excusing a broken dynamic at play.

>>81716391
Mhm, mhm. Whatever cope helps you sleep at night, anon. I am quite sure the women were just lining up to take you off the market before you did so yourself. XD
>>81716511
>state of monogamy
>(women)
Yeah, cuz its aaaaaalllll the fault of women that everything is the way it is. Men havent had any hand in it, no sirree. As is typical, men dodging responsibility. Who could have foreseen such an outcome?

>>81717043
You're fat ugly and lonely

>>81715175 (OP)
Why are incels so obsessed with youth? Young women are fucking annoying ESPECIALLY if you're 10+ years older than them. God forbid you wanna connect to a woman on an emotional level, plus women can absolutely still have children in their 30s, the risk of defects only goes up like 2/1000. I'll never understand why this board thinks 30+ women are hags when almost all of em don't even have wrinkles yet.
>Pic related is literally in her 50s

>>81717475
>Why are incels so obsessed with youth?
Most men are, it's just natural to prefer younger women (obviously pedo shit is bad)
>Young women are fucking annoying
All women are annoying
>God forbid you wanna connect to a woman on an emotional level
KEK while she uses you as a betabuxxer
>plus women can absolutely still have children in their 30s, the risk of defects only goes up like 2/1000
But they are ON AVERAGE less fertile and have higher risks of birth defects
> I'll never understand why this board thinks 30+ women are hags when almost all of em don't even have wrinkles yet.
Most are so anti-women-in-their-30s because they're usually used goods, both emotionally and physically, and are just looking for a betabuxxer (the kind of guy she skipped in her more fertile years for Chad). They're sometimes very condescending towards men dating younger women obviously due to some form of envy. Me personally, I wouldn't have a problem with dating a 30+ year old if she was actually a good person and hasn't ridden the Chad cock carousel

>>81715175 (OP)
>other party gets a big payday if they break the contract
Isn't there the option to get married without either side having the rights to the other's possessions in case of divorce? Would women even agree to that?

>>81717475
If you're 30 the 30 year old woman has had like15 years to show she likes you. She even grew up so you experienced the same phases of life, together. If she's 30 she didn't give a shit until life got harder for her as she realized her looks are fading, her fertility is falling and the window for a family is closing.
Meanwhile a 20 year old wasn't at those phases or chances, and has less time to find a partner.


Do you want to be chosen because you're loved for who you are? Date younger. Do you want to be chosen because you're the only option she has left? Date older.

>>81717638
Prenuptial agreement, although I've heard that they can be thrown out

>>81717475
>I'll never understand why this board thinks 30+ women are hags
30+ women who are on the market have massive baggage and don't want kids. it is not about the looks or whether they can biologically breed but whether you'd want to marry one.

>>81715230
Based. Honestly men should make the girl wait as close to 10 years as possible for marriage. Its a good test. If theyve stuck around for that long they might be a good candidate. Normalize making the girl earn her marriage.

>>81717694
I consider a 30 year old woman young but you gotta understand that we have a zoomer infestation. Theyre age obsessed and all have Leonardo DiCaprio syndrome. I bet money on a good number of suicides when the broccoli heads start hitting their 30s.

>>81717683
I refuse to believe judges would simply walk over a legal agreement like that just so some hole can take half the man's assets for free. Yeah any guy who gets married nowadays is automatically a victim in my eyes

>>81717743
>judges
family courts don't have real (article 3) judges they are administrative employees. burden of proof is lower and hearsay is perfectly admissible as evidence.

>>81716511
you did the meme

at least you know your only value