Thread for discussions about self harm and mutual support

happi caturday :33

Heyoo
>How are you doing today?
>Any plans for today?
>When was the last time you hurt yourself?
>Why did you hurt yourself?
>Is there anything bothering you right now?

Here's a bunch of helpful links

> long list of self harm alternatives (thank you muddy):
https://imgur.io/a/7Q2zgw7

>a first aid post cuting:
https://www.lifesigns.org.uk/first-aid-for-self-injury-and-self-harm/

>a wound care guide:
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1CsvJs8qNCVkHWHKekMSmCn6qn0GBEcgnq9fIqlA6Uv0/mobilebasic

>a bpd workbook:
https://d-pdf.com/book/1781/read

>a bpd Information Book (anon said it's exceptionally good)
https://annas-archive.org/md5/1a4f329474320214a120a4d553c6b60c

>a bdbt (dialectical behavioral therapy)
workbook is intended for BPD but can work for anyone:
https://cursosdepsicologia.com.ar/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/THEDIA1.pdf

Please don't post any drastic images and if you have to, spoiler them

>>81723980 (OP)
heya cat happy caturday ^^. I'll be a tad busy today. how are you doing today? how was your day?

>>81723980 (OP)
Happy caturday cat, how's your weekend going?

>>81724462
Hey gator, how are you? How was your 4th of july?
I visited family for a bit, but didn't stay up for fireworks.
Slept in my basement because I did not want to be getting woken up by loud explosions all night

>>81724587
hey office anon.
> how are you?
I'm pretty good. been super self conscious recently tho. how are you?
>How was your 4th of july?
it was pretty nice actually, just chilled outside and watched them. there always super cool to look at.
>visited family for a bit
that's nice. I hope it was fun and good.
>Slept in my basement because I did not want to be getting woken up by loud explosions
fair enough, they are super load and impossible to sleep with, I couldn't sleep for a few hours myself cause of them.

>>81724462
hai :3
>tad busy today.
ooo watcha goint to do?
>how are you doing today
I'm okay
the weather was nice so I went on a bikeride, unfortunately, got a small mechanical issue so I decided to go back home

>>81724587
Hello
I'm okay
today the weather was nice so I went on a bikeride, unfortunately, got a small mechanical issue so I decided to go back home and fix it but it's alright at least I'll watch out more from now on
tomorrow I'll go visit a fren
wbu?

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>>81724905
>been super self conscious recently tho.
anything particular bothering you or just usual? All feel that way sometime, just don't let get to you so much
> how are you?
doing okay. Mostly doing house work and yard work today since I need to catch up on a lot from time I was away.
> there always super cool to look at.
they do look nice, I just keep such weird hours that it's kinda hard to see them.
>they are super load and impossible to sleep with
it would be more tolerable if they just did them on the holiday, but people will be setting them off all week here, even nights people have work in the morning. Fireworks are technically illegal in my state and the people who do them are usually the last person you want touching anything that blows up, so there's that too. Just happy my basement is basically a bunker

>>81724973
>today the weather was nice
that's good. It was a little cooler today again so it wasn't bad when I did all the yard work which made it a little easier
>small mechanical issue
Glad you didn't get hurt and made the call to go back. Never be too careful
>go visit a fren
nice hope you have fun. Doing anything in particular?
>wbu?
it was okay. Only thing other than yard I did was some more cooking and working out, but not enough hours in the day to do everything i want, so that's okay.

>>81724973
>watcha goint to do?
basically just go around to different stores with my family nothing interesting. hopefully will go on like a hiking trail tho.
>was nice so I went on a bikeride,
nice good that it was ^^
>small mechanical issue
oh no, that's awful, I hope you can still have a good day at home, and you can fix it easily.
>decided to go back home
you watching or playing anything?

>>81725188
>anything particular bothering you or just usual?
basically just the usual yea.
>just don't let get to you so much
I'll try no too, really hurts tho.
>house work and yard work
hope you enjoy it at least, it's definitely rough to do. what kinda yard and house work btw?
>such weird hours that it's kinda hard to see them.
aw that's a shame then, but good you at least keep a schedule.
>setting them off all week here
same it's super annoying, I don't even understand why they do, saving them for the day is cooler anyways.
>illegal in my state
oh lol people will always find a way I suppose.
>basement is basically a bunker
that's great then, basements are always super useful.

>>81725188
>did all the yard work
oo good job :D
what stuff did you have to do?
>Glad you didn't get hurt
thanks ^^
wasn't anythin dangerous luckily
>Doing anything in particular?
gonna pick up some bike he found and maybe repair it and sell it
>not enough hours in the day
as busy as always ^^

>>81725317
>different stores
gonna buy stuff?
>hopefully will go on like a hiking
ooaaa that would be fun ^^
>good that it was ^^
same
>good day at home,
it's fine, I'm sitting in bed and thinking about sardines
>and you can fix it easily.
I already did :D
>watching or playing anything?
yep watching a charborgs stream vod

>>81725560
>that picture
Let that be you and me one day :3

hii everyone :D

hru cat? and hru gator?

>>81723980 (OP)
>How are you doing today?
I did pretty ok this morning. I almost felt like I should stay at this job. But then I felt bad on break outside.
>Any plans for today?
Just work.
>Is there anything bothering you right now?
I had a typo in my resume. I went back to adit all my applications. None of them let me. It sucks.
>>81725907
hi meowster
how r u?
>>81724462
hi gator
> I'll be a tad busy today
that ok, I'm always busy.
>>81725560
hi cat, feeling better today?

>>81725560
>gonna buy stuff?
we bought some stuff, mainly just random outdoor cause of summer. nothing interesting.
>ooaaa that would be fun ^^
yea, probably won't happen today tho.
>bed and thinking about sardines
may I ask why your thinking about sardines?
>already did :D
good job!!
>watching a charborgs stream vod
nice, he's very funny ^^

>>81725907
cute heya meowster. hru? I'm okay bit self conscious today

>>81725969
heya cynic.
>But then I felt bad on break outside.
yea seems like for your mental as stuff better if you could go back.
>had a typo in my resume.
does sound frustrating, hopefully they won't care about it.
>that ok, I'm always busy
fair, i just realistically should never be busy

>>81726000
>>81726019
wrong name lol I'm a dumby

>>81725846
sure if you have a tail and fluffy ears and purr
How's it going today?

>>81725907
eyo :33
how is your day going?
>hru cat
I'm fine, been on a bike ride today ^^
but had to go back to fix something with it
now I'm in beb chilling

>>81725969
Hey hey
>did pretty ok this morning
that's good
>But then I felt bad on break outside.
whhy?
>Just work.
hope it goes well
>had a typo in my resume
well probably no human reads those anyway
it all bots looking for key words
>feeling better today?
yep ^^
thanks for asking
I was on a bike ride today

>>81726000
>random outdoor cause
like what stuff? some clothes?
>probably won't happen
ow :/
well maybe some other day
>why your thinking about sardines?
I wonder how they taste
have you ever tried them?
>good job!!
thank you
>he's very funny ^^
I think so too heh
>>81726036
it's okay, we know who u are so it's okay

>>81726105
>whhy?
idk. I guess I've just fallen out of love with this job.
>it all bots looking for key words
one of them actually let me opt out of AI sorting. It kind of felt nice to have the option.
> a bike ride today
that sounds like a good day then.
>>81726019
>does sound frustrating, hopefully they won't care about it.
hopefully man.

good evening im gonna drink again i hope all of YOU are doing fine

>>81726260
>guess I've just fallen out of love with this job
hm ig it happens :/
but you get a new one soon right or am i wrong?
>let me opt out of AI sorting
oh interesting but I'm not sure it actually does anything, but I am a bit negative desu
>sounds like a good day then.
yep ^^
did something nice happened to you?
and tomorrow I'm going to visit a friend

>>81726443
Hello o/
it's nice to see you
>evening im gonna drink again
why? you just like it?
make sure to drink some water too
>hope all of YOU are doing fine
thank you ^^
hope you are too

>>81726586
hey cat how are u doing
>why? you just like it?
it makes me feel happy and worthy
i feel confident while drawing and drinking at the same time because last drawings i made are actually good in my opinion
>hope you are too
im doing fine, no effect so far

>>81726614
>how are u doing
I'm doing alright
I was a bit down yesterday but I'm okay today, I even went on a bike ride
>makes me feel happy and worthy
just don't get addicted pls :<
>last drawings i made are actually good in my opinion
I think they're all good :]
but I'm a little biased
>doing fine
good it fine
you're going be drawing now?

>>81725317
> just the usual yea
always just the usual for me too, so I hear you.
> what kinda yard and house work btw?
mowing the lawn, cutting shrubs, and trying to cut back overgrowth. I have a big wood pile in the yard I need to cut through. Debating getting an axe and cutting it up old fashion style or getting a chain saw (which is a bit scary to me but we'll see). That and usual laundry.
> saving them for the day is cooler anyways.
agree, i think here they just buy too much and don't want to go to waste since they drive to another state to do it, but i wish we could make them stop still
>basements are always super useful.
much cooler than above ground on those 100 degree heat days as well lol

>>81725560
>what stuff did you have to do?
a lot of trimming like i told gator. Things got overgrown when I was away and I still hope to one day make that outdoor area more usable when I uproot everything.
>wasn't anythin dangerous luckily
that's good. Just always double check from now on, since never know when something could be
>gonna pick up some bike he found and maybe repair it and sell it
where do you sell these when you do that? Just to another store that will take them back?

>>81725907
heya meowster, hope you're having a good weekend

>>81725969
hey cynic, good to see you again
> It sucks.
not always end of the world, know they sometimes fly through those (i've had to look at some before and I know I never checked spelling much), but do understand the concern. Just don't dwell on it, doubt it would break you outright if they liked your resume otherwise

>>81726443
been a while, good to see you chroma
be careful though and like cat says, drink water too.
I've gotten a lot worse with drinking lately. Just don't handle it well and too paranoid about it drying me out.

>>81726731
>I was a bit down yesterday but I'm okay today
whyy what happened?
>just don't get addicted pls :<
im feeling a little better now i think it starts to affect me
>I think they're all good :]
i sometiems come back to my drawings and see how bad they r just to embarrass myself once again dsfasfdeferwb
>you're going be drawing now?

yah a little but mostly talk in this thread
>>81726790
hey ggood to see you again, how are you? how's things in life?
>be careful though and like cat says, drink water too.
ill try
>I've gotten a lot worse with drinking lately
omg why what happened

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HfmPEr9Qzrw&ab_channel=Coltemonikha-Topic
im listenng to this its super good

>>81726832
>how are you? how's things in life?
pretty good. I'm still with my girlfriend i mentioned months ago, I just got home from a long vacation, and work is at least bearable. Still as busy as ever, but nothing to complain about.
>omg why what happened
i just now realized i worded that badly and made it sounded like i meant something else ah sorry D: I'm fine, but I meant I can't handle alcohol. I actually had a window while my gf was in her home country that I got worried and drank way too much. Got really sick then and just haven't had the stomach for drinking since then. Not a bad thing since I never liked it much either way. Not the best thing when you're really strict with your health and fitness either, so better off this way.

>>81725969
>hi meowster, how r u?
hii cynic :D im okay, sick asf and tired but okay. today was productive ^^ you?

>>81726000
heya meowster. hru?
sick, and tiredddd, but i got a lot of stuff done and got to go on a little trip :3
why are you feeling that way? anything especially that's wrong?

>>81726036
no worries, happens to us all :3

>>81726105
>how is your day going?
good :D a little lonely but good, my body hurts though. Today was fun though
how was yours? :0
>been on a bike ride today ^^
i hope it was nice :3
>had to go back to fix something
nothing serious i hope :C
>now I'm in beb chilling
sounds relaxing, gonna go to sleep soon?

had to cut my reply in 2 bcz 4chan said it's "spam"

>>81726443
hii chroma :D

>>81726790
>hope you're having a good weekend
it's okay TwT sick but it was fun, how was yours?

>>81726922
> I'm still with my girlfriend i mentioned months ago
soryry i dont really remmeber but im glad you guys are still together
>I just got home from a long vacation
oo, where were u?
>but I meant I can't handle alcohol
i wish i couldnt handle it as well
either way i hope eveyrthing will work out for you, be positive and stay healthy !
'>>81726932
hello!
>>81726944
hello hello!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qZPeYNevklg&ab_channel=Coltemonikha-Topic

>>81726105
>like what stuff? some clothes?
yea mainly clothes and some stuff for a flower garden thing.
>well maybe some other day
I hope so at least.
>wonder how they taste
fair they do probably taste interesting at least.
>have you ever tried them?
nope, I've barely had any kind of fish.

>>81726443
heya chroma stay safe.

>>81726790
>always just the usual for me too
yea would be weird if it wasn't I suppose.
>mowing the lawn
sounds like a lot of stuff to do, and sounds rough. hope you can get it all done today.
>getting an axe and cutting it up old fashion style or getting a chain saw
I'd imagine a axe is probably better for what your doing but idk.
>buy too much and don't want to go to waste
I guess that makes sense, but at that point just don't waste so much money on them.
>cooler than above ground on those 100 degree
oh yea definitely does sound perfect on hot days like that.

>>81726932
I'm sorry to hear your sick and stuff :( hope you feel better soon.
>lot of stuff done and got to go on a little trip
good you stayed productive and I hope it was a lovely trip :D
>why are you feeling that way?
mainly just random, every now and then I just have this feel hatred of my body and stuff.
>anything especially that's wrong?
nothing actually happened recently no.

>>81727028
super good!

>>81727069
hey doi u wana play roblox like when im done with drawing

>>81726790
>trimming
sounds like a lot of work
>uproot everything
sounds like even more work D:
>Just always double check
dw o7
this time it was from a stick that got stuck
>where do you sell these when you do that?
oh there's like an equivalent of e bay here so I can sell it there
it might take a while though because I won't ship it

>>81726832
>whyy what happened?
just been feeling off and a couple things didn't go the way I planned
>feeling a little better now
good ^^
do you do that often?
> to embarrass myself
seems like a very common thing with artists desu
> talk in this thread
oh okay, how have you been lately, anything bad happened?

>>81726861
thank you d-_-b

>>81726932
>little lonely but good
sending you a hug bud
But it'll good you're mostly alright
>body hurts
ur sick?
>Today was fun though
what did you do ???
>hope it was nice :3
yep the weather was nice and I even saw a snake bite sadly dead
>nothing serious i hope :C
I fixed it right as I got home ^^
>gonna go to sleep soon?
yea ~w~
are you in bed yet?
>4chan said it's "spam"
silly 4cham

>>81727069
>mainly clothes and some
anything you like?
>stuff for a flower garden
sounds nice
>hope so at least
when was the last time you been on oen?
>probably taste interesting at least
yep and I like fishes so maybe I'll like it
maybe I could cook them on a pan or something
>barely had any kind of fish.
maybe one day :>

>>81726944
>sick but it was fun
hope you feel better(or are feeling better), but glad you had a good time still
>how was yours?
busy with chores and errands by can't complain


>>81726950
> i dont really remmebe
it's okay :> I've been in this thread so long can't remember everything i've talked about with everyone. But thanks!
> where were u?
Mostly hiking various mountains and parks in the southern part of the US. I drove to the south here for the mountains and nature. Saw a bear, some alligators, and a lot of other wildlife and got to spend a lot of time outdoors not thinking about work
>i wish i couldnt handle it as well
it's not the worst thing in the world and suppose a lot of people live happy with it. Just hope you can at least feel a little more happy without having to turn to it, since that I think is where it can get dangerous
>be positive and stay healthy
back at ya

>>81727069
>hope you can get it all done today.
I did most already, but taking off for today. Like to split over the course of a few days so it's not as bad.
> but idk.
me neither so probably a good idea to figure out lol
>don't waste so much money on them.
i don't think most people who spend all day drinking on their lawn followed by a night of setting of loud explosions are giving a great deal of thought to being reasonable with money on this, but guess I could hope

>>81727109
yea I'd love to, probably will just be me tho, I think my friends gonna sleep soon.

>>81727125
>anything you like?
eh not really just boring stuff mainly.
>when was the last time you been on oen?
probably like a year I think. you?
>like fishes so maybe I'll like it
yea you never know, may find a new snack you like.
>cook them on a pan or something
yea I assume they'd be like most other fish.
>maybe one day :>
yea hopefully.

>>81727198
>did most already, but taking off for today
good job and smart, should be more easy.
>so it's not as bad.
yea definitely smart.
>reasonable with money on this
true those are mostly the people who shoot them anyways.

is this the thread for circumcized people?

imm going tp slepp goodnight friends

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bS18DC9mJpo&ab_channel=wondergroundmusic
sorry im super stuspdid t orepsond right now but pls Llisten to this

oh nmy gododdddd i feel so stupid d

>>81727574
thanks for the cool musics
you have good taste

>>81727573
sweet dreams cat.

>>81727574
>>81727592
good stuff and awesome music vid. and I don't your stupid at all, your pretty smart

god d i feel like puking alo tttt

>>81728339
you drunk too much

>>81728362
hehehehehehhhgg

>>81727681
white heart emoji

good night.

>>81728339
if you do Puke make sure your safe, and try not to Puke on yourself or something idk have a good night

>>81728369
>>81728387
I want to get drunk with femchroma.

i jsut stumbled like multiple times trying to get a water lol

>>81729120
I want to marry you. You are so precious when you are drunk.

>>81729277
no u already have a girlfriebnd and u shpuldnt ruin your lrelationship with her just because u think im being preicous when im drunbk

i thoiught its 4 am but its almost 8 am.... time goes so FAST!!!

>>81729315
>no u already have a girlfriebnd
Oh you didn't know? We broke up about a year ago. She was bpd.
>and u shpuldnt ruin your lrelationship with her just because u think im being preicous when im drunbk
I want to cuddle you while drunk. We can later watch TV or read or whatever when when we are hungover.

>>81723980 (OP)
>How are you doing today?
Today was a rough one, but I made it.
Anyone still here?