>>81736959 (OP)When women say "be confident" they actually mean have good social skills, they just say be confident because not even themselves know what they are attracted to. The "ick" is just women's biology subconsciously filtering a sexual partner, all species do this and the thing men need to understand is that there is no logic or even meaning in this criteria most women are probably not even aware of them, most animals have really retarded sexual selection criteria as well that dont really benefit in the species survival at all so dont try finding any logic in women's preferences because there usually isnt. Its why you can be a perfect man objectively and logically speaking and still be unable to get love. The only thing you need to get from all this information is that women UNIVERSALLY despise men with lack of social skills, especially first contact with women you are one poor social cue away from being seen as "creepy" or "weird" thats how women are built. If any robots read this please start looking into improving your social skills, I've read a study that said that over 50% of straight aspie men in their 40's and 50's were virgins, the other half who had sex barely had people who were satisfied with their sexual lives and these are people who didnt live through the modern dating scene for gen Z aspies its definetly gonna be severely worse. Even if you are introverted and hate people you should start working on building your social skills it can be learned and improved like any other skill, socializing is very logic and most of the time with people its just micro managing boolean functions in real time. If you have asd try a methodical approach learn about human psychology use cohort studies talk to everybody you see make friends with as much people as you can be always practicing and improving, risk a joke or two just dont be the shy quiet kid archetype anymore or you'll be sabotaging your sex life. Oh and try medicine