Thread 81740146

Is finding someone pretty the same as loving them? When I see a pretty girl I feel like I would do anything for them and like them even if I have nothing in common with them or if they treat me poorly. Is this love that I feel?

I was thinking about shit like that. Am I in love with her looks, or do I actually love her? if she's an angry depressed tomboy, or she's stuck up, or she's making false accusations against me, whatever, then I definitely don't love her, even if I like the way she looks.

I dont have it in me to love a woman for her and not her looks I just want to be a simp for an attractive woman

>>81740146 (OP)
No you're just shallow retarded and also a simp which is pretty pathetic

>>81740146 (OP)
>When I see a pretty girl I feel like I would do anything for them and like them even if I have nothing in common with them or if they treat me poorly.
No thats called infatuation, but try getting people to take off those rose tinted glasses when they're dating someone they like, they'll become hostile and too rational to bring to reason how the outcome is going to go. Side note, when people complain about age gap relationships this is their exact argument as to why these two consenting adults shouldn't be together meanwhile completely disregarding that this dynamic is in nearly every single relationship. I've argued with midwits about this clear unavoidable dynamic and they lose their shit at me never addressing what I'm saying is at all reality. Personally, I think we only love our children but even then even that dynamic is built in neotony that prevents us from offing our most innocent for crying for no real reason, well...some of us who do consider the innocent not worthy of murder.

>>81740292
How is this different from loving somebody tho? Women feel this for Chad.

>>81740146 (OP)
>Is finding someone pretty the same as loving them?
No, if that's a thing. I would have so many crush

>>81740292
Women can only fall in love with men who are taller than them. Are you saying all women are shallow?

>>81741097
*crushes

TFW no
Daddario GF

>>81740553
What is the difference between infatuation and love? People on here have told me I can never be loved as a short or ugly man. If this is true how is infatuation not love?

>>81741123
Infatuation needs to happen before love can happen. Love cant exist if there was no infatuation to begin with but infatuation can exist without love. Get it?

>>81740146 (OP)
It's a form of love

>>81740146 (OP)
Her eyes is weirdly beautiful. Why does it stand out so much?

>>81740146 (OP)
>Is this love that I feel?
Nope, just lust. You don't know enough about the person to love her.

>>81740146 (OP)
It's probably a trick of our dogshit evolution. I fucking hate how much power beautiful girls have to affect my psychology. This shit needs a major fucking nerf.

>>81741123
Its lust vs love. When women say women can love a man besides his looks like height. What they really mean is they can love what he can give her besides himself. Simps and bluepilled guys actually think its endearing to be cucked by being used for what is ultimately isn't him. If everything they can do for her was magically transferred to her chad type they would leave his ass in a heartbeat. Hell he could lose it all and she'd still be with him.

>>81740146 (OP)
Its infatuation / lust, and you know it because you feel nervous talking to these girls and feel like you almost need to force them to like you, which is really just your body deep down knowing that you're not compatible at all.

When you find the right girl you might not even find her attractive at first but you will find it effortless to talk to her because your personalities and view of the world will be so in sync with each other. You won't feel the need to impress her because she already seems to like and admire you when you're just acting like you normally do. She will put in the effort to make conversation with you and do nice things for you, there will not be any doubt in your mind as to whether she wants to be around you or not.

>>81741204
You can definitely fall in love with a mid girl and then start to see her as more beautiful over time.
I agree there has to be a baseline level of attraction for anyone to date but I don't think it has to be "awoogoa jaw drops to floor" level of lust before love can happen.
I think the most solid type of relationship is formed between two people who considered each other kind of mid at first.