Thread 81745122

Fembot, what is your excuse for not being more dominant?

You know that shit is like kryptonite to guys right? Most males nowadays have submissive tendencies, even the most seemingly perfect and confident chads, they're all craving for a dommy mommy.

There's a lot of benefits to acting more dominant, from having men give you money for nothing in return to easily seducing the boyfriend of your dreams etc... so why are you not doing it already? The few who already do so are living easier lives

>>81745122 (OP)
because you need to be confident to actually be dominant and i am not

It's just another shitty imposition on women from lame men, they have to work because men failed to work, they have to do everything around the house, behave like their moms and now have theater degrees for the retard coomer roleplay scenarios men have.

No wonder more and more men are single

>>81745140
You just need to be slightly teasing or say good boy to a guy when he does something you like. It genuinely hits the male psyche like crack

>>81745205
I'm not talking about listening to men's femdom requests, I'm talking about being slightly more dominant towards them into daily interactions. Sure, yours is a good feminist talking point but women who act more dominant towards men are going to get better boyfriends, free shit etc on average

I'm 5'0, any dominance i express is a larp

>dominant women activate rebellious streak in me
>can't get anything started with submissive women
Seems like I was meant to be alone.

>>81745427
Not true at all lol.

Most of the time female dominance isn't expressed physically, it's due to men being fundamentally addicted to women, their opinion of them, closeness to them etc that you can make their brains go insane with praise (or being demeaning).
The short dom is literally an archetype from Nagatoro to Frieren

>>81745445
see what I mean fembots

>>81745374
Stop thinking with your dick, being dominant towards strangers is stupid.

>>81745563
I don't mean it in a good way, I mean I get easily annoyed if someone tries to boss me around. So a dominant or a submissive woman wouldn't work.

>>81745755
You live a little too much in reality / real world

>>81745122 (OP)
The last good boy I was dominant for left me for a child. I do not know how I will replace him. I like being a gentle femdom to sad and damaged twinky himbo white guys.

>>81745976
Shut the fuck up, tranny. Originel

>>81745122 (OP)
I kind of am but it hasn't helped me much, if anything I think people are intimidated and reluctant towards me

>>81745122 (OP)
i am a dominant girl but i just cannot find my sexual and romantic match. i want someone who enjoys being a straight up slave for me.

>>81745976
are you in europe by any chance?

>>81746374
what do you even mean by straight up slave???

>>81747956
he gives up all autonomy during sex and i make every decision in the relationship.

> You know that shit is like kryptonite to guys right?
Its not you fucking dumbass gooner, irl it would trigger an instinctual ick response in you.

There was a guy once in school that offered me to date. Cool. So I closed him in my living room and kissraped the shit out of him. You guess whats next? Right he got the ICK
Then I was a femcel for like 8 years, but when I finally got sex, the dude outright told me
Sweety you are too dominant, you should find you a basedboy. Oh so he got ICK as well. Thought I'd be more of a delicate flower. Lol. I mean he told me that outright, that was the specific thing that bothered him.
Then again after 5 years I found a man who even claimed to be submissive. Guess what? When it got to me assertively rubbing my tits on his face his dick just outright fell. The ICK from dominant female is omnipresent. Eat shit.

>>81748242
>kissraped the shit out of him
This sounds like a fucking dream. The fact that I will never have this is making em want to off myself.
Femanon, I hope you just were very unlucky with the guys you got into relationships with. Please don't let that be too discouraging.
>instinctual ick response
Imo, it doesn't exist. It's all a matter of taste. Even if enjoying assertive women is rather unpopular.

"submissive man" is just a euphemism for being a lazy lover

>>81748084
A lot of men claim that they want that, but of course reality is different than fantasy. I guess it would be a matter of how constructive/destructive "every decision during relationship" would mean. If the right balance is achieved, there are more guys would accept it than you think.


>>81748242
>Its not you fucking dumbass gooner, irl it would trigger an instinctual ick response in you.
I might be a dumbass gooner but I'm not an incel. I had girlfriends before, and I've always been into / managed to have a nice relationship with dominant women, even if it means even slightly dominant.
I'm sorry about what happened with these guys, by the way. I'd say more but your post/attitude removed all blood from my brain and even scared me a little bit desu. Fuck Idk how to type

>>81748300
It's not, it's harassment. Your coomer dream scenarios are mostly harassments irl that you wouldn't enjoy even if the woman was 10/10 for the simple reason there is no ssc on them

>>81748242
I like dominant women because I can pretend to be submissive and then out-dominate them.

>>81748346
When my exes did similar things I weakly protested at first and got really flustered but I always enjoyed it, or at least my body always did.

>>81745122 (OP)
PSA no guy actually wants a woman to be dominant in life, they want woman to be sexually dominant. Dominant women are insufferable and submissive lovers are tedious.

>>81748242
>femcels here have had sex
How can you even be a femcel when you can get sex?

Women like being chased, homie. We like feeling desired. Call it a personality flaw, I don't care. It's true. Also if you're not a 10/10 you live with fear of rejection of men. I've never came onto a man before because I'm fat. I don't want to make someone uncomfortable who doesn't like fatties and feel shitty about myself. I let them come to me if they're interested.

>>81745122 (OP)
i act generally vanilla in an assertive way in my relationships with moids. my femdom fantasies are just too taboo to ever enact them irl. i cannot just ask a boyfriend "can you pretend to be my rape victim?"

>>81748427
You can be a dominant woman while having a man chase you and desire you passionately and even aggressively.

That being dominant means necessarily chasing/hunting is a misconception.

>>81745122 (OP)
My ex left because I went free use mode on him, and kept domming him

>>81748457
Did you miss the fat part? I'm not going to harass a man who may find me gross (which is fine, different strokes for different folks). Plus I'm weird. I've never had issues getting interest online or on dating apps but I think I would die if I had to make the first move on a guy IRL. I got teased a lot for my weight when I was in school, mostly by boys, and I think that's stuck with me a lot

I really really really really want a dominant gf more than anything in the world

i only fantasize about being dominant but i am the most anxious person in real life, my ideal bf is extroverted, confident and submissive who just asks me to do everything to him

>>81745140
>because you need to be confident to actually be dominant and i am not
why not?

It's okay, OP. You can just admit you have really bad social anxiety. It has nothing to do with dominant/submissive. You are just afraid to take action.

>>81748589
What about doing it online then? It still makes you more attractive than most girls when you do it.

>finally get a gf and lose virginity as a lifelong submissive guy
>shes super submissive in bed and only gets off on me daddy domming her even though shes older than me
Monkeys paw

>>81748877
I've thought about domming online anonymously for money

>>81745122 (OP)
Is not in my nature and that's it forcing myself will only lead to my never being happy in that role ,I don't want abuse chad but I don't want borderline femboy either, I just want a sweet normal guy

>>81748945
This is me 100%. My bf is younger but I love being submissive. I wanna call him daddy but I feel weird doing it

>>81745122 (OP)
Men and women should stop with all this weird retarded bdsm shit. I'm not going to call you daddy because I'm not weird and you're not going to call me mommy because you're supposed to be a well adjusted normal human

>>81745122 (OP)
No one wants some nagging bitch constantly making honey to do lists.

>>81748848
i have nothing to be confident about

>>81749179
How do lesbian couples decide what's for dinner? Do they also steal each other's fries?

>>81749464
We talk about what we want and don't want, and decide based on that.
No, we order shared fries if possible, but steal fries if one of us doesn't have it.
It's awesome.

My fantasy when I was young was having a stronger, dominant gf who could pick me up and stuff. That stuff could make me jizz in seconds

Then I wound up turning into a huge 6'4" guy...
In my lucid dreams I can make my body small, light and weak and do it though

>>81749204
Women have no excuse, unless they are fat or have medical conditions causing really bad smells

Otherwise this just seems like some delusion of the female gaze - not understanding they have nothing to lack confidence about

>>81745374
>It genuinely hits the male psyche like crack
Depends, for me personally I would feel like she is being condescending, and in my native language being called a good boy is awkward as there is no equivalent. You are just projecting anime fantasies.

>>81749611
>no response
So she was a 600 pound slampig lmao.
Imagine how many guys would love a slampig mommy dommy. Eating out their fridge every night.