>>81750736nta but Imma tell you the secret sauce: Their brains get hijacked.
Whenever a woman expresses their discontent and it's met with a ridiculously unapologetic, overblown emotional reaction AND they get gaslighted for it being their fault - they believe it. They wanna get back at it to "make things right", as if they owe something. Hence you get situations where a woman catches her bf cheating on her, she gets mad, but the bf gets madder and hits her instead. Does she leave him? No! She blamed himself for not being "good enough" to stop her bf going astray or whatever.
Try it. It works. My explanations suck, so ask away.