Thread 81751787

Fembobs how long do I have to go without masterbating before I become a handsome young man and can get a gf? I am feeling not happy rn being lonely on my birthdday 88w88

>>81751787 (OP)
Women masterbate too. They won't ever quit, but they'll still judge you if you're also doing it.

>>81752038
I understand, but that doesn't answer my question. Have I not earned favour with the good lord so that he will send hope my way? What more does he want from me?

Who says you have to stop?

>>81752099
You've refrained from doing bad, but what have you done thats good?
You don't deserve punishment, but where is the work for a reward
Go become better, smarter, stronger, funnier, more charitable, successful.
If you want favor from the good lord, show him the beauty of his creation and the heights it can aspire to, and you'll find what you want along the path

>>81752127
Idk probably Allah, I am hoping that a nice girl would be praut of me and then we could be happy together.

>>81752169
I am trying my best to do some study, I have been working out and eating healthy, and I have been doing my best to be efficient and productive at work. Hopefully if I study hard I can complete a personal project of mine that will be very helpful (Its a secret though)

>>81752242
You're doing better than most. I will say try to be interesting, that gets you farther than many things. I've gotten laid more by just making a girl listen to me ramble about my interests on dates than I have trying to game the system so to speak. If you present as an interesting person, you'll catch a lot of attention.
You can do almost anything to a woman, but bore her and she'll never think about you again

>>81751787 (OP)
It's not about masturbating or not, it's about your mindset towards women.
>Have I not earned favour with the good lord so that he will send hope my way?
Being virtuous doesn't necessarily translate to finding a partner, or having characteristics that would attract partners. Find hobbies and things that interest you; I think that confidence and the ability to show passion towards things are attractive. God can't do ALL the work for you!