I am really lonely and want a boyfriend, a cute nice(I think idk) guy is dming me but we don't have hobbies in common therefore I am not feeling him. But my fomo is really bad, should I reject him and keep trying to find someone into my tistic interests or not?
Yes I am female

eat shit and die op

>>81759186 (OP)
What are you tistic interests and why wouldnt he get into them. Unless youre like my ex that got mad whenever I took interest in her hobbies cause it was apparently her thing and got extra mad if I did then better than she did.

>>81759217
I mean if you aren't into them already I don't think it counts since it'd be not genuine. Don't want to dox em

This is going to sound extremely faggy, but true love, in my experience, comes from being able to talk about anything, and it never gets boring. Give him a chance. You don't need to have everything in common; he might show you a few things he enjoys that you can enjoy together, and vice versa.

>>81759232
I did get into it though. I still do it even though im not with her. You never know.

>>81759298
I hear you but explain how would that even work like I am really limited with my likes

>>81759338
Look, I'm not saying you have to like all the same shit. It's more about being open to each other's stuff, for instance, if you're into something weird or niche, he might be down to try it. And if not, who cares? It's the connection that matters, not matching hobbies like a checklist. Trying is half the battle.

Ugh I hate this like ugh I can't talk to him

>>81759186 (OP)
Whay are you interests even then. If you can't even tell others how do you plan on meeting others with the same interests.

>>81760673
I don't want to dox em and have people harassing me on the hobbies space

>>81760704
Then don't come here complaining about this shit. I swear you people don't have a functional braincell ever.

>>81759400
What would I talk to him about if we don't have stuff in common like I don't care about stuff I am not into

>>81759186 (OP)
Have you already mentioned your interests to him?

>>81759186 (OP)
Yes, you are shallow

>>81760742
I have, ugh I really want to leave him cause I have nothing to say to him but the fomo and loneliness is killing me

Ugh so heckin annoyingz

>>81759186 (OP)
How is he in your dms in the first place?

You didn't happen to meet him from here, did you?

>>81761475
If I met him on here we would have atleast have the imageboard culture as something in common, which might not be enough but it is something

Ugh I will try to check if we both like lolcows

>>81759186 (OP)
>hobbies in common
Why do narcissists always need to be in control?

>>81759186 (OP)
just string his ass along OP. the move here has a couple parts
>you see how dedicated he is, like if he will multi-text you even if you take a few days off replying, or at least re-engages once you do
>you can keep exploring interests - maybe you can get him into something you're into, or you discover something new that he likes
>if nothing else you have some safe attention on backup you can use when another guy who you are more into bails on you
This is essentially the only way to go. If he's hot or whatever and you think this guy is a really good option other than hobby topics, consider point 2 heavily. If you two get along you should be able to do pretty much Whatever together and have a good time, and he should be willing to participate in things you like if he's into you.

>>81759186 (OP)
You already made your mind up, you're just looking for approval because your feelings are in conflict with your quest to get dicked.
I give you permission to reject him, now you can find a bf that meets your criteria in this thread. You're welcome.

leave him alone. You're obviously retarded and insufferable. Probably black too

>>81762550
Do you think that might work I feel he also won't like me since I won't have stuff in common. Still will try your advice

>>81762587
What about what the other anon. Said

I want a bf muah

Omg he doesn't even like lc