> He sounds low iq
This is especially common for centeral eu men, I am no genius but if you sound double digit I can't do it

>He is shady/not open/not direct
I am an autistic adult female woman and am direct with whatever I don't care. I watch tiktoks of normie women going on dates or talking to men who are shady to them and they don't even call it out like if a man ever says something that annoys me I will either tell him and or block/walk away. But I guess this is more of a normies man issue?

I didn't include the obvious deal breakers that should be universal btw
I don't know why delusional incels think women don't care about character like we do both about looks and character. Inb4 muh convicts who get hoes, I mean let's be honest they either just have casual sex with them which ugliods also can get it they are dating them because their standards for personality are shit which is something also incels can get if they try. Regardless most women will demand good personality lmao. Like I reject men that I am attracted to all the time because they sound stupid /unbearable

>>81760674 (OP)
The reason men behave that way is because we learn to be distrustful towards women. You sound like a nightmare to be around, so I can image why men aren't comfortable being themselves around you.

>>81760737
What are you talking about, also who cares if someone doesn't like your true self like you are to me rn, they aren't for you

>>81760674 (OP)
> He sounds low iq
i have this for women too i lose all my interest if i'm flirting with a girl and i'm able to thin-slice that shes low IQ. Also when women show knowledge on any interest they have, I like when women are able to ramble about a topic while I listen, having only instagram and tiktok as personal interests is gonna make me not want to make any effort with you
>He is shady/not open/not direct
man cant really be choosers about any of this flirting as a man is 99% implications and being indirect but whenever i find a girl thats very direct with what she wants it makes me give her all my attention esp if all she wants is just casual hook ups.
>we do both about looks and character.
yeah it's the same for men, maybe we might have lower standards if it's just an one night stand tho.
>Inb4 muh convicts who get hoes, I mean let's be honest they either just have casual sex
Some women are def 100% attracted to men with shitty personalities, hybristophilia is the most extreme example but I've seen it happen, women who only dated men with serious redflags like being married, being extremely jealous, having anger issues and men that physically/verbally assaulted them. It's probably subconscious, our preference on sexual partners is highly genetic.
>Like I reject men that I am attracted to all the time because they sound stupid /unbearable
I would too but I never felt the need to do this, whenever a woman gets a crush on me she's already the type of girl I'm attracted to, maybe only women similar to me end up falling in love after knowing me, as if we are all drawn to people similar to us.
I notice as well that midwit neurotypical women are never attracted to me even if they find me attractive
maybe incels just need to be around the right people

>>81760674 (OP)
>I watch tiktoks
Dropped

>>81761095
It was on YouTube as a compilation
>>81761089
>esp if all she wants is just casual hook ups.
Bruh

>>81761145
I like sex and having friends with benefits, if she's direct with what she wants that's really awesome for me because women love playing games, I don't want to go out with a girl just for her to fall while I'm only interested in having a hook up. It's cruel to go out with someone a few times and have her wish for a deeper connection because I'm just gonna end up breaking her heart

>>81761209
Imagine if a guy did this to you, you would feel used and abused. I'm gonna be clear with my intentions with whatever woman I'm with always

>>81760674 (OP)
It's reading stuff like this which makes me glad I'm gay, I'm the same about people sounding retarded but the "not direct" part? You're god damn autistic, have a little self awareness, you write as if you have so little personality that you NEED whatever unlucky cunt that find you; will have to make up for your emptiness, in laymen terms I think you're the annoying kind of autistic and not the fun kind

>>81761245
Why are you so mad that I don't stupidity and indirectness lmao. Moid really will call you a bitch for not acting as their slave jfl

>>81761245
You are talking with pic related btw, she is a ugly bpd whore who did onlyfans. Holy shit why do people still reply to her threads, they are so worthless.

>>81761278
That makes sense, cheers for the head up anon, I knew there was something not right with this thing from the post lol

>>81761278
Schizo or insane deductive IQ

I wasn't put on this Earth to please some stuck up bitch that makes excuses for women that sleep with low life criminal scum. Women like you should be put in prison.

>>81761323
Nice to see the double digit gang has arrived

>>81761323
Nice to see the double digit iq gang has arrived

>>81760674 (OP)
Use some punctuation, holy fuck.
You sound disturbingly brain-damaged; might have overdone it with the tiktok videos of women that are equally as retarded, but more socially capable than you.

>>81761278
Horrific eye area

>>81761396
What did I say that came off brain damages

>>81760674 (OP)
>He is shady/not open/not direct
can you expand on this point?
like what does this mean?
my current interpretation of the words:
>shady
someone with dark triad traits, gansters, psychopaths, etc. possibly creepy
pretty obvious you don't want those
>open
someone who shares their thoughts in detail (at least when prompted)
you don't need someone who never opens up to you and is just superficial
>direct
someone who will take lead in conversations and confidently talk about subjects without hesitation or shyness
so basically an extrovert chad personality type

If those interpretations are correct, especially the last one, I have to say I somewhat agree with that anon >>81761245,
Like, you're fucking autistic yourself, there's no way you cannot sympathize with someone being a little shy and introverted instead of having the chad personality (while also being smart and also being open and also being not shady and...), you know its can be really fucking hard to talk to people, that it can make you anxious, especially if you're not particularly good at socializing.
And thats combined with the fact that there can be a thin line between directness and creepyness, and on which side of that line you stand is at least partially related to how attractive you think that person is and if you actually want that person to be "direct" with you or not.
Like, its fine that you basically openly state, you don't just want chad, you want emotionally avaliable high IQ chad who isn't a gangster or psychopath either.
DESU most females do, and its nice that you admit it so openly, but you have to be aware that thats literally <1% of the male population, right?

Or do you mean something different when you say "not direct"?

>>81761534
I hope you are not mad for me for skimping thru this since I sensed some sexism but basically I hear men being passive aggressive/shady about wanting sex or idk other date drama like locations etc or just rude about stuff and women not arguing back or leaving. Like if a guy was trying to manipulate me into something or was rude I would talk back or leave

>>81760674 (OP)
>If a man says something that annoys me I will tell him.
As an autistic man this is the sexiest thing anyone has ever said to me, fuck I'm sick and tired of women who can't communicate.

>>81761790
Bro I know like I only had one relationship ever and was short lived and the dude whenever I raised some issue against him mind you nicely would just try to dodge or start crying so fucking infuriating

>>81761534
>Direct
No retard direct means you ask for what you fucking want and say what you fucking feel instead of 'hinting' and then getting mad your partner doesn't read your damn mind.

>>81761534
Also
>All autistics are shy introverted cucks
Double retard. Plenty of us are confident and just tired of your neurotypical shit.

>>81761804
I've been with too many girls that can't say no or express themselves and then they'll erupt at me out of nowhere like
>Why did you do that when I didn't want you to?
>I looked down and lowered my eyelids, something I do when I'm trying to be sexy but feel shy, when I'm irritated by something, when my mother calls, and when I find a joke was funny but don't want to admit it, why didn't you pick up on that minute detail among a billion other minute details you constantly pay attention to that I don't appreciate?
>What, me just SAY 'can you not do that?' I shouldn't have to say it!
At this point a girl saying 'Hey I find that kinda frustrating' or the like is just an instant green flag because god I'm so fucking tired of the same shit over and over.

>>81761592
>>81761809
>being passive aggressive/shady about wanting sex
>direct means you ask for what you fucking want
So its shady to only imply that you want sex but don't directly state it, while just being direct and open about it is hot?

>>81761898
Yes retard. They literally said 'if a guy was trying to manipulate me'.
So don't fucking do that. Don't be a manipulative piece of shit.
Just ask if they wanna come in.
Fuck man you don't even need to do that, most women can't communicate but they'll also make it obvious if they wanna fuck you, just wait for her to ask to come into your place/see the bedroom/shove her hand down your pants/whatever.

>>81761818
for me and the people in my literal autism support group, the implication is usually that most (>90%) of us are socially retarded quasi-shy introverts, because we've been browbeaten that us being direct is percieved as uncomfortable to neurotypicals and usually gets us excluded or bullied, so I'd say the vast majority of us have just learned to shut the fuck up and not be direct when not in a comfortable trusted enviroment, aka acting like "shy introverted cucks"

>>81761859
So you haven't found any woman that is direct? I am sorry yeah it is weird to me too

>>81761971
>I let other people break my spirit.
Sucks to suck, I just get angrier and angrier at neurotypicals. Not healthy but at least I'm not letting them win or just lying there and taking it.

>>81761991
Some will be direct at the start but then just stop and go into that insufferable 'I shouldn't have to ask' bullshit. I've no idea why. I make a point of acknowledging and letting them know I appreciate them being direct. Whenever they bring up a problem in a direct way I'm just so happy to have a partner that wants to sort problems out constructively as a team rather than being immature. Whenever they ask for what they want they get it, and they typically get it consistently from then on out as long as my memory doesn't fail me. People say it's my height. I don't understand what that's supposed to mean. Keep telling me 'I'm a big guy' like that has any bearing on them choosing not to communicate with me, and like I'm not also a supportive and understanding guy who's never given them a reason to feel I'd do the wrong thing by them.