Some girl I work with wants me to hang out with her and her friends

Why

>>81761471 (OP)
They will probably hold you down and take turns milking your seed. Or maybe they just think you can be friends.

>>81761471 (OP)
Are you an incel or khv?
They might just want to get to know you better.

>>81761471 (OP)
oh no.
pic related

>>81761539
Both of us are virgins who have never dated before. She told me this a few months ago

Her friends always give her dating tips. I wonder if they will vet me

>>81761553
Oh no what

>>81761561
She's lying.
Women all have previous sexual partners, they just know you won't like it if they tell you.

>>81761471 (OP)
Normals have no good intentions. They only do things for their own gain or to humiliate another. Do not trust them.

>>81761931
I went on a few dates with a woman in her 30s and she told me about her exes and how she basically got abandoned by her long term ex bf

I guess past a certain age you can't lie about that sort of thing anymore

>>81761962
What will she gain from this

>>81762056
Someone to laugh about to their friends, or just to have someone be vulnerable to them who they can talk shit about behind your back

Remember, normies never have good intentions

>>81761471 (OP)
Is it genuinely impossible that a person is just interested in you

>>81762106
>Is it genuinely impossible that a person is just interested in you
Yes

>>81762135
We have out answer then

There's a chance she's interested in you but just know youre literally walking into a den of wolves. Usually this is a deathwish, but if she's a KHV then it is pretty plausible that she is using her friends as scouts and potentially to set you guys up.

You should know quite quickly what the situation is if her friends focus on you and ask you a lot of questions and/or ask you what you think about her etc etc. Best advice I can give is just be cool and dont overcommit to anything. I.e "Do you like our friend!?" Yeah, shes cool. or I think we like a lot of the same stuff

"You and our friend would totally be a match" I guess, we like a lot of the same stuff or Think so? Why do you think that.

as long as you dont overcommit you wont be a simp laughing stock if you have the wrong idea or things went south.

>>81762614
Her friends apparently really like me according to her so maybe

>>81762662

"Friends" with an s kinda sounds like a bunch of bs to me desu. Could be wrong, but either she likes you and is trying not to give it away, or one of her friends likes you and is trying not to give it away. Itll be more clear if you do go or whatnot, which it would be.

if her "friends" all like you, chances are they would be using you for something. Drugs, alcohol, a place to party, a ride etc.

>>81762662
You are so gullible holy shit, how old are you? 13? If you are romantically interested in your coworker you better refrain from seeing her friends.

>>81761471 (OP)
You gon lose your virginity, forcibly.

>>81761471 (OP)
I think you should go. It's hard to make friends and it sounds like she's nice and would make a good one.

>>81761471 (OP)
They want to rape you

>>81763355
Why is that

I'm autistic so I'm probably pretty gullible

>>81763623
You are not autistic, you are retarded.

>>81763726
Can you explain why it's a bad idea

Sounds like a set-up. Anything you say can and will be used against you.
If they know you're a virgin, you'd be doomed. Never admit that shit.
Still, sounds like you should meet them and see how bad it really is.
Maybe you will get laid after all. If not from her then one of the others.
Sometimes walking into the trap is the best thing to do.

>>81763782
No, you shall learn the hard way.

>>81763782
they will judge you, make an assessment of you and then decide whether you're safe and fun to be around
they will gauge your social skills and how well you do in groups and especially with a group of girls
they will intentionally create a certain atmosphere and ask certain questions that test your confidence, wit, knowledge and humor
it's a shit test to see who and how you are and it sucks because they will focus on the negatives, even maybe exaggerate or make up stuff, and maybe spread rumors about you
that's why if you wanna date your cooworker it's nice to ask her out and be just the two of you
or to ask her to join you in some of your plans/activities/hobbies in a place you're already comfortable in
if she's really into you and isn't a bot she will go even if her friends tell her not to

>>81764525
>ask certain questions that test your confidence, wit, knowledge and humor
>it's a shit test to see who and how you are and it sucks because they will focus on the negatives
What are some potential questions?

>>81764535
it's difficult, at least for me, to list questions because they go hand in hand with facial expressions, tone of voice, atmosphere, etc. and by themselves aren't that big of a deal
and it won't just be questions but also statements and a lot of storytelling that you're expected to respond to in a good way
"eh anon how come you're still a virgin at xx age?"
"so I did this and this and then this happened" and all the girls laugh and glance at you to see if you were paying attention and what your reaction is
depends on your place and culture but usually nothing special, just probing your private life as much as possible
your work, house, family, girlfriend, hobbies, pets, music, sports...
once the conversation gets going it will just flow and they will ask for details, your opinions, how you feel about certain aspects
they will also test your "emotional intelligence" and the way you respond will be often more important than the content
they can test your qualities like patience, kindness and compassion by asking questions, speaking and behaving in ways that tend to elicit a negative, even combative response

>>81764605
Dude is willingly going straight to the slaughterhouse lmao.

>>81761471 (OP)
Congratulations, you're getting laid!

>>81766164
I don't think so
>>81764605
I know them (not really as friends) and they seem to like me. I helped one of her friends file her taxes and helped the other one apply to university. One of them literally said that I'm too intelligent to be in my current profession

One of her friends is also too feely with me but I'm not into her. Anyways, they are trying to help her find a bf now

>>81766246
We are all in our mid 20s btw

>>81766246
You are the bf they are trying to find, maybe.

>>81766246
oh okay sounds like you don't have to worry then
I hope you have fun if you go

>>81761561
Women don't count blowjobs, handjobs, anal, and virtually everything else as sex. When a girl says she's a virgin it means she's never had actual penis in vagina sex, and sometimes that's not even a sure thing. I knew a girl that didn't count hookups as "real" sex. She said she was a virgin because she had never had sex with someone she actually loved.
Never dated is the same. She'll make out with guys, be in a "situationship" with a guy for 5 months, and so on, and then say she's never "dated".
Good luck brother.